In the last couple of years I've been having some trouble staying hard for 1st time punts, especially with girls who don't seem super into being a WG.

I don't have this problem with my wife or even with my regular WGs, I am still in my early 30s after all and quite fit/healthy by all accounts, don't smoke or drink (much).

Still, this issue is kinda bummer as I like to explore.   So I'm thinking about Viagra as a solution for this. Will it actually help? And more importantly, will taking it make it harder for me get hard when I'm not using it with my wife or whatever?

Any insights/experiences are appreciated it

Erectile dysfunction drugs allow for easier flow of blood to the penis. This means that viagra, cialis and etc. can assist in the physiological side of things. But in order for blood to start flowing to the penis you need to be turned on. Drugs won't help you in getting turned on. That's the mental and emotional side of things.

These drugs can help you get hard -- which is different from staying hard -- only if you're turned on. Hope that subtle difference makes sense.

i have the same problem too especially for us seasoned punters who dont get rock hard when a hot girl drops her panties
i still need to be turned on and blown and also preferably i get to fiddle with her bits
once i took cialis for a regular session with someone i knew but never slept with ( not a WG)
she was resistant to a lot of my attempts to eat her out or regular foreplay and even with a 10mg i couldnt stay hard cos i was pissed off

so to answer your question

yes it helps you to get erect more easily in desperate situations
but you stil need to be turned on

Like Freelancer said, this seems more of a mental block than a physiological one, so the effects of the drugs would be limited. Stop thinking about it. Because if it is a mental block, the more you think about it, the worse it's going to be.

I have a similar issue... I last a bit too long as it is, and the rubbers make me feel even less. So after a while, LB just gets a little numb and stops feeling anything and it goes to sleep. My ADD kicks in and My mind starts to wander and I'm no longer in the moment. I start thinking if she's enjoying, what other positions, what should I do after, maybe get some food, what kind of food should i get, I wonder if there's some exotic foods in the area, maybe some fried bugs, bugs are gross, remember when they would slime people on TV? Like slimer in Ghost busters. Oh wait, there's a pussy wrapped around my .... Oh bollocks, it's gone to sleep. Lol

So.... I change my thinking now. I'm there, just to have a good time. Make out like crazy, and if there's some fucking involved... OK, if there isn't, that's OK too. Plus, the girls really don't care if you cum or not. They'd be happier if we all lost our hardons quickly. Less work for them. Lol. The only thing that takes a hit is your own ego and your wallet.

Just go have fun.

~UD

Hi guys,

Sorry for jumping on this thread.

I have a slightly different problem and was wondering if anyone here has had the same problem?

I will be fucking the girl for a long time but I would be unable to cum. Even if the girl is really hot or is kissing me back passionately. I dont smoke or drink much either and am relatively fit.

Any guys here have the same problem? Any solution or drugs to solve it? (Its really frustrating when the WG will just shrug at the end and say she cant help cos she is too tired or too dry already)..

Don't use drugs. Too much risk. It isn't worth it. Try using a cock ring. Way, way better. A rubber one, not a steel one. Steel one might get stuck and then you have to make a very embarrassing trip to the hospital. Especially in China, where there is zero privacy when consulting with a doctor. "Hey doc, I have no idea how this happened....."

interesting, i never thought cock ring would help. thanks for sharing.