Originally posted by ced at 26-1-2017 23:34
She gives me a feeling that she is expecting more and more from me. That's my concern as I am not going to spend about 1000$ each time visiting her...
Every relationship is an exchange. Frankly 450 for a HJ is already steep, and 800 for FS is also on the steep side. It's worth it if you think it's worth it, but you definitely have options if she's being demanding.
A sad truth is that some of the best service providers do have an even more elevated opinion of their worth than their (otherwise excellent) service.
And when that happens we have only one option really. Walk. That's always a dealbreaker.
Of course, you can and should make a last-ditch attempt to ask her about her intentions with you, and share with her your circumstances and set limits.
And yes, I've also been in the situation where the very best massage provider I know went full circle, from "you don't buy me" to demanding money, to demanding more money than I could or would be able to give her.
No strings can and often does evolve into solid steel chains.
Enjoy the moment. The fact it may not last for a long time, makes it sweeter.