Originally posted by bruno at 24-8-2016 09:25
I am trying out WYP for first time and meeting a girl next week. Doing some research i figured out she use to escort but does not have an active escort profile. I am assuming she is plying her trade ...
Here's how I'd do it.
This should be in text message if you have that set up with her, if not, I'd do that to make the communications easier.
You: I'm excited to meet you next week and I wanted to ask you a question if I can.
Her: Sure, what's up?
You: In the interest of being direct I just wanted to lay this out there and get your thoughts. Are you okay if I am direct?
Her: absolutely, I'd rather have someone be direct.
You: I would like to ensure we both are looking for the same type of outcome with this get togeher. I'm am personally looking first and foremost for something that is intimate. Secondly, I want to ensure this is mutually beneficial. I know being this direct can cause some women to be scared off, but I don't see you as that type of person.
Her: I'm not scared. What do you mean by mutually beneficial?
You: Specifically I would like to have some intimate adult fun that ends with you and I both getting what we want. I know your time is valuable and I would like to know what your expectation would be once we get to this outcome.
That approach or some variant there of works for me about 95% of the time. Women love it if you specifically identify them as different "I know being this direct can cause some women to be scared off, but I don't see you as that type of person."
Asking permission before asking is also something that I see most women appreciating, "can I be direct?"
Bottom line, be direct, be clear, be reliable and you will have lots of fun.
Also, if you know she was an escort before, be prepared to be asked for an excessive amount for intimate fun. Real girls are much more reasonable with their pussy prices.
Jake