For the last year, I've used the website SeekingArrangement.com as my primary source of new talent here in N. America.

[ Last edited by  ggherkin at 25-2-2017 21:00 ]

I've also used SA for almost a decade, mostly in the US, but some here in Asia too.  In general, I've used SA for longer-term arrangements.  Most of my experiences have been excellent, although I've had my share of minor nightmares.

But I do want to reiterate ggherkin's advice on profiles...  Be yourself, be honest and straightforward.  It will pay huge dividends.  These girls aren't looking for supermen...  just real, decent guys and some cash.

Have fun, CGP

I won't guide you to specific girls, because that doesn't seem to make sense to me, given the nature of the site and the nature of the girls.

But in terms of sample action, here's a small selection:

First girl: 23 years old, dark-skinned like a West Indian, but totally American girl. C's, 34-22-34, college student. Arranged to meet for an hour for coffee. Spent 2 hours there talking and having verbal fun. Agreed to a couple hour "intimate meet" at hotel for $250. Killer body, wonderful personality, but limited sexual menu. Repeated a couple of times, usually spending several hours not just two, because she was fun in many ways, but ultimately, not sexually compatible. Moved on.

Second girl: 26 yo, asian, petite, student. Pretty but not gorgeous. Met for 30 minute coffee, but again, sat and jawed away for 2 hours. Similar pricing for 2 hours, similarly often spend several hours there talking, fucking, eating, repeating. Have repeated many times. Arrangement moved from "per-session" to "here's some money for your bills".

Third girl: 21 yo, asian, athletic, student. GND pretty, and tight body. Met through girl #2 (!). No money involved other than helping to pay for this, that, and the other (minimal). Is this a civvie encounter? Of all of them, this one is most like it. She's now on SA.

"The bench": This is girls who I'm currently talking with online, but haven't met yet, just awaiting the right timing. There are many, and new ones pop up literally each day.

I should also mention that there are many who one talks with online, but there's clearly no chemistry, or they have GPS. This is probably about 2/3, in my experience. For example if they open with "How much are you offering", it's probably not going to work out. But my hit ratio once "coffee" is achieved is very high.

Gherk

I've jumped in and signed up to see if i can find a girl (or 3 lol) for the location that I travel to.

I have a couple of "dates" set up.  

My experience so far (though very early days as I haven't actually met anyone in person)...I think I have a disadvantage to a certain degree as I'm looking for someone where I travel to..not where I live.  This makes some girls wary...though I've had several contact me and say that kind of part time arrangement would suit them fine.

I've had fun chatting with the girls but have been surprised by the few that gave a $ amount at how much they are asking...50% higher than what Ggherkin above indicates.  Of course location varies the rates but I think I need to just get a girl to meet for a coffee/tea and chat before going down the $ road.

This has it's risks, of course, as what's the point of meeting a gorgeous girl who clicks with you and then she asks double what you want to spend? Oh the conundrum...lol!

This is definitely more complicated than simple punting and so it should be if what we get in return is more than just a willing pussy.

I'll keep you guys updated with how things go.

I use SA for ongoing arrangements (although not all arrangements end up as ongoing for very long).  So I tend to talk in terms of monthly stipend, rather than per-session.  I also refrain from talking specific numbers until I've met in person...  for several reasons.  As ggherkin says, the ladies who start by asking how much can I offer either have GPS or are simply pros.  If I wanted pros, I would not be on SA.  Also, seeing an SA girl  is not like going to see a pro...  the quality of the experience depends on having some mutual attraction and rapport.  Best to establish that before discussing sex and money.  Lastly, what I would be willing to pay depends on the hotness of the girl and the strength of our rapport -- things that you cannot fully evaluate until you're face-to-face...   

Have fun, CGP

They can say what they want to earn, and you can say what you want to pay. Either they'll come down or you'll go up, and you'll have a session. Or, they won't/you won't, and you're on to the next one. In my part of the world. there are dozens of new sign-ups per day, all within 1/2 hour drive.

Keep at it, and let us know how it works out please.

Gherk

Is there anyone here who have used both SA and whatsyourprice? Can you tell your experience and contrast the two?

I have used whatsyourprice and have similar range of experience.  One that met me for a 2 hours date (we made out, but no more that), two that stood me up, and one that stayed overnight.

On SA it seems like most girls are asking for monthly allowance as opposed to pay each time, are you guys getting the same experience with this?

Thanks bro,

I completed my signed up and I got couple msg already.  Now i can't read, i need to update to read msg.

I just wonder how many months should i update.

$69.95 per month,  $59.95/m for 3m and $49.95/m for 6 months. How many months should i get and is that worthy after i update it.

How many month did you guys update to.

Thanks

I am looking new advantage with SA now.

I've had a range of requests from SA girls, including:

- per-session fee, and the number can be anything from great ($200) to ridiculous ($2000). Needless to say, girls with GPS get a polite but firm negative from me.

- per-month allowance, which can be a great way to go if the numbers work out, but I like to start with per-session

- "lumps" ("I have to pay my college tuition this week, can you help"). This can be even better than per-month, because it really feels like helping out a friend. But, the first lump had better be small, for fear of being taken to the cleaners

- nothing ("I'm just looking for someone older and interesting to hang with"). This doesn't happen all that often, but does happen.

Also, it's fair to say that some girls and some guys on SA are genuinely not looking for sex, just a different form of bf/gf relationship (NSA).

Gherk

Have chatted with several girls...

- one wanted a monthly allowance...without even meeting  lol  

- two different girls wanted $400US...I declined politely...one didn't text back, the other texted with a counter to mine of $300.  Planned to meet last week but i was sick...will catch up with her soon.

- Will meet another for coffee this week and see what she's like before talking about $.  She hasn't brought it up and we agreed that some chemistry needs to be there to continue further.

- the amount of aggressive money hungry girls outweighs the others....FYI

Quick update:

Have met twice for sex with one girl. She's 23 aspiring actress/singer (aren't they all...lol ).  Easy to talk to, witty, we get along well.  Tall, slim...but not skinny...with great C cup boobs and a very nice round ass.  Shaved LS.

The sex is great and she will do almost anything I ask her.  Loves to cum, will initiate and take the lead sometimes, and asks for more a little on the rough side after she is turned on. I'm not into rough but will accommodate light rough if the girl is into it...though I think this one would be open to more than I want to give in that regard. She didn't watch a clock and was happy to stay and have as much sex as I wanted until I sent her home.

None of the girls seem cheap in the area I'm looking....I ended up paying her around USD$375 for unlimited sex for the few hours I spent with her each time.

Summary:  great girl, great sex, but more $$ than I'd want to spend on a regular basis.

In an attempt to give SA another go after Gherkin has been so thorough in his advice I've found some mor luck this time than on my previous try's.

Below are some girls and their stories.

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I met this girl and we set up a straight up pay for play. $300 for about 4 hours total. She is quite the cumhound  and likes to swallow. Fun girl overall.

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This is one hot girl. Looks like Kim Kardashian except this girl,is all real.  We had dinner and then took some relaxing time back in my hotel. She has had a couple kids, but all her parts worked very well. Total investment with dinner about $250.

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This one is the example of not judging a book by its cover. She wanted $400 to hook up. That is normally more than I would go, but she offered to stay overnight so I jumped in and took a shot.  She has almost perfect tits. She isn't thin, but she has all the right weight in the right places.  When she arrived, she literally came in the door, got on her knees, and started sucking my cock two feet from my hotel room door. I had asked her a few times if she was really worth that much money. I guess it stuck with her, because when I told her after about 10 minutes that I was going to blow, she said I want down my throat. I obliged. As she was wiping my cum off her top lip and chin she looked up and smiled and asked if she was earning her money. I told her she was and she had more work to do. It was about 6 hours of hardcore sucking and fucking. She must have swallowed three or four loads as well as taking it up the arse and the removing the condom to squeeze out another load. She was truly cum crazy. You would walk by this girl on the street and think she was a total prude. Reality is, she is a total whore.

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Okay, this little piece of chocolate is my regular go to in my current work area. First, she's batshit crazy. Second, she loves to get fucked. She is a little on the chubby side, but wow she has a tight pussy. I have a slight suspicion that she is wanting to get knocked up as she is always asking me to fuck her without a condom and that she wants me to cum inside her. Too bad for her I'm not playing that game.

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Last of my recent meet ups is my thick MILF. Total slut. Cock sucker, takes it up the ass, swallows and plays with you cum. Wants to set up a gang bang. What a crazy fucking whore she is, what a find. She is over 40, thick, great tits, squirts like a firehose, and is dying to find a young girl for us to double team some time.

Overall, SA has gotten much better since my last attempt to score with it. Wide selection and most girls are down for clear conversations about what each person expects.

All of the above have been in my first month back active on the site. Let's see what the future holds.

J

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