Originally posted by sifosed13 at 23-2-2015 14:26
... but I usually have lots of notes (of various denominations) sitting in my wallet ...
and that right there is your problem.
Simple bro: have another wallet, which has only enough money for the punt, a tip, and travel to and from the deed. And leave your real wallet in your desk / car / home / wherever you feel it's safe. Heck, put it in a bag (with a lock) and check it in to a bag storage if you don't have a secure base.
You can't relax if you're wondering if you've been robbed or are worrying you might be about to be robbed.
95% of the time you won't be.
And 90% of the remaining 5% it'll be the sort of robbing that happens all the time: cutting the time short, refusing to do what she promised, demanding a bigger payment, etc.
A better approach is to assume you will be robbed, budget for it, and plan accordingly. Then you can (finally) relax and enjoy the journey.
Truth is the girls get robbed too ... I'm even ready to bet it's more often than the guys ... by guys who refuse to pay, take too long, insist she does things she didn't want to do, and of course those who literally find her wallet and empty it. It happens.