I have been reading this forum for a while now but never posted before but I felt the need to make a point on this fine day.

It cracks me up to see some of the comments from posters about never going without a condom as if it were a death sentence, and I appreciate some of you have strong feelings about it. But I just don't get that some of you proudly boast about BBBJ and DATY in the same review as never going at it without a condom and simply assuming that every girl is infected with some STD. If you really think they have something why would you go near them?

From my own experience being into my 50's and spending a lot of time and money in China and Hong Kong I can honestly say I have been with hundreds of women over the last 30 years so I think I am in a pretty good position to make a judgement call on what I think is good for me or not.

The problem (for the want of a better word) is I simply do not enjoy having sex with a pretty young thing with a condom on. I lose a lot of the sensation and the feeling of being inside someone which is the main pleasure for me having sex in the first place.
The way I look at it is this. Men and Women were designed to fuck naturally not use a plastic cover.

If i had to put some sort of proportion on it, I would say that i have probably fucked 70% of the women bareback. In fact these days I ask for it. Some will oblige and some will not but a little cash incentive always helps. Personally I almost never cum inside them but I have had times when the girl has requested it and I have done it.

As some others have mentioned if you go back to the same girl maybe 2 or 3 times and get to know them a little bit it almost always eventuates that you will end up fucking them without a condom. From years of experience I can honestly say that Thai girls are by far the easiest to fuck bareback on the first date.

Now onto the obvious question, what have I caught from one of these girls and the truthful answer is absolutely nothing.
I have a pre-existing medical condition which is nothing sexually related which requires me to be blood tested regularly and I know that I do not have any STD's or HIV or whatever. The last test was only 1 week ago.

I do not assume that every girl has some dire disease that will put me in an early grave because I am certain this is not the case.
Obviously I will pick my marks, if a girl looks dirty I will not go near them but if the girl is clean and well groomed I do not see a problem. Please don't call me lucky, you have just as much chance picking up an STD from your wife or girlfriend.

In conclusion I think it is a personal choice and mine is to fuck women bareback because that it what I enjoy and it always gets me off. I have had many experiences where I can fuck for an hour with a condom and cant get there in the end and it sucks big time.

Some of you might find this post a bit off putting and I say to you that I do not judge people because of their sexual preferences so I would appreciate people not judging me for mine, and I will not OUT any of the girls I have been with, they deserve some privacy as well.

Cheers W

Judging a book by its cover.... but I'll agree that chances are mostly lower.


OK, variance then.


I would assume in a serious relationship, u'd get tested.  Obv, if u go mongering after testing neg, it's different, but u're talking about picking it up from a wife/gf when most are not mongering so it'd b u passing it onto them.



I can't speak for everyone and I may be wrong on this, but I don't go bareback cuz it has the highest chance of passing a STD.  I won't even go BB with girls I just met.  I've turned down BB with girls that I've banged a few times because I DON'T KNOW THEM WELL.  I don't know their history with men.  Also TW girls are known to do it BB with just about anyone.

Everyone is entitled to their opinions. Who am I to judge? I'm just some trailer trash. Heehee.
I totally understand, condoms just don't feel right. I've said it before, it's probably not a good idea to announce WGs that are willing to go bareback, but iI think for higher rated members, reports for bareback service providers can be used both as a  last for bareback  services, or people to avoid; depending on your own personal discretion.

As for STDs.... This is where I have to disagre. Stds are called that for a reason. They are sexually transmitte.  Which means, the more partners you have without protectio,  the greater the chances of being infected by one. This isn't opinion. It is  fact. That being said, who am I to say what risks one should take or not take? Some  are willing to engage in bareback sex, some are willing to get bbbjs. Some arewilling to daty, some are willing  to do ssome salad tossing. Fact is, all of these activities, even DFK,  exposes us to potential infections.  Just like some of us drive fast, some of us drive slow. Some people are more risk adverse than others. Neither is right or wrong.

The only thing that matters, is to please be safe. If you're going to engage in risky activity, make sure you're regularly checke.  Not just fo hiv,  but herpes, crabs, gonorrhea, syphilis, hepatitis, etc, etc etc.  Be safe for you, and be safe for everyone else.

Cheers,

~UD

@Mister:

I am mainly talking about civvies.  I personally know girls who do this and it's been reported on the news too.  IIRC TW has a high case of HPV.  I've never had a TW WG so I can't comment.  

Local TW girls banging any race.  This may be racist or w/e, but alot of local girls here LOVE Caucasians.  

I suppose the lack of sex education here (South mainly.  I heard Taipei is more modern) and TW girls' tendency to please their man.  They are extremely loyal generally.  Almost no girls go c a gyno here.  I've only met 1 local TW girl that did.  A mixed TW girl said all the old ladies always gave her a dirty look when she went like having sex pre-maritally was a sin.

I have 2 American friends that only do it BB.  They don't bang WG, but one of them ended up getting something from a civvy.  Fortunately it was treatable.

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