Hello everyone,

I'm new to all of this and decided I wanted to give this a shot, but I'm still hesitant to go out on my own. I've read all the FAQs on these forums already and online as well, but still feeling a bit uncomfortable.

Are there any experts or anyone who's been around a couple times that are willing to show me the ropes?

Just looking for a tour of some of the more well-known places and kind of how it works, because reading it and doing it are not the same.

I'm also relatively young (early 20s) and haven't been around in general (if you know what I mean).

One friend warned me that sometimes the girls will pull you into their rooms and not let you leave until you pay them or use their services. Also heard they sometimes perform "extra" services without asking you first and then ask for more after.

If there's anyone out there that wants to meet up or maybe I can follow around to learn a thing or two, please let me know.

Thanks!

where is more convenient for you?
HK side or Kowloon side?

One thing is for sure: this hobby is not for any wilting violets ...

you can go for months meeting only the sweetest girls, getting great service and kindness from them, and then sooner or later you'll meet one of the ones that give a bad name to the whole profession.  

so ... time to man up ... mentally prepare yourself for saying "no" in a variety of different ways.  In the end, most scenarios are worse when you're thinking about them than when they're actually happening.  They're only human, and it's actually good for you to learn to be assertive with a girl.  Especially so when they're misbehaving!!  

Nothing wrong with going out with a wingman though ... when you've done it you'll find the forum is amazingly accurate in its reviews and its guidance ... and you'll be flying solo in no time.

I'm in the Wan Chai area (HK Side), but I head up to Kowloon side a lot during the week. At night, probably HK side and during the day probably Kowloon.

@DArtagnan

Yea I know it is. I would just prefer going with someone who's been around as I'm not experienced in this at all. I've read most of the reviews and it would not be easy for some of them to be fabricated.  It'll take time and practice. I'm not looking for someone to hold my hand, just someone to maybe give me a tour of the area. I just recently moved to HK (less than a month ago).

I'm hesitant because I was reading many shady things about what goes on in bars in Wan Chai and you could easily get ripped off or drugged and robbed. I would hate to go out these places alone and have that happen.

[ Last edited by  darkelfx at 15-9-2014 19:57 ]

I understand your worries. I wouldn't mind showing you around during after work hours if you'd like. Not during the day because I am working normal office hours. I stay and work in Causeway Bay area which is right next to Wan Chai. Just give me a PM. I only speak English though since I am non Chinese.

Wanchai is certainly a blast - definitely more fun with a wingman, at least at first!  There are definitely dangers, as you'd expect in a place that's fuelled by a cocktail of alcohol testosterone and hunger for money, but HK is much much safer than any other city.  

Doing walkups or HGs, you could pretty much just dive in

I certainly empathise with your nervousness, it's daunting the first time you knock on a strange door with the intention of fucking whoever's behind it.  

Just reassure you the second time is easier ...
and the third is even easier ...

and of course, no amount of preparation will make it easier the first time a girl demands more money or calls time on you.  It'll happen ... you can't avoid it ... but you can choose to respond as a gentleman at the time, gently but firmly.

Yea I keep reading about HK being very safe, and then I read about something bad happening that makes me think otherwise.

I heard sometimes the girls might try to pull you into the room and convince you to use their services and if you refuse, they still try to get money from you.

In the meantime, I don't think reading more reports or research will make me any less hesitant.

Brother, I am a foreigner. It's way simpler and easier to do it than you read about it in a report. Go to any of WG buildings, walk around and don't knock any door, see how the other brother do it.
Or go to any of the brothels, or may be any of the full service Massage places which is even easier. or start your punting life with just a massage+ handjob. You just need to do it not to read about it and all your worries will be gone.

I've been around for about ~3 months now, punting here and there.  The bad experiences will happen, but I've never been coerced.  Granted, I usually read reports on a girl before knocking on her door.

If you want, I could try to find some time and go with you.  I'm also early 20s, and my working hours are odd (not your standard work hours, and vary day to day).  Even better, I'm also HK side, though a bit further east than Wanchai.  If you're interested, PM me your number (hopefully with Wechat or Whatsapp) and I could show you what I've learned.

For HK side,
you can go to Fuji Building at Causeway Bay.

For Kowloon side,
you can go to Champagne Court B at Tsim Sha Tsui.

These 2 walk-ups are very accessible,
you don't have to be shy, as there are many punters going up and down the floors.
you just follow any of the punters there, and see what they do. (which is basically only pressing the door bells)

typical prices for these 2 places are around HK$400~500 per session.
once you confirmed the price at the door, just step in, and the WG will guide you all the way.

trust me, you do not need a wingman for walk-ups.
just try it once, and you will become an expert.

I'm in wan chai and I agree with the above bro (or all of the above bros) and Fuji in cwb is like a hodgepodge of good stuff.  

I think having another person with you punting might ease your nerves (like how i help some foreign gentlemen translate BBBJ at fuji on the spot one time, pretty hilarious experience haha), but yeah, once u complete the first mission, it's aint hard to start going solo

Yea I understand. I sent you a message.

if you think that's bad this may not be the right hobby for you ..!!!

It's a walk on the wild side, don't expect romance or sophistication

If you can handle the downside, of course, the upside makes it well worthwhile!!

really? when'd you sent it? I think my inbox was full earlier