Subject: How to politely decline a walkup girl
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Post at 31-8-2013 12:41  Profile P.M. 
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How to politely decline a walkup girl

Ive read reports of bros saying they politely declined walkup girls after knocking on their door, then go to another door. Since a good percentage of walkups speak only Mandarin, I wanted to know what you say to politely decline. "Xie xie ni, bu" (thank you, no) and walk away? I'm totally clueless. haha. I understand that mannerisms also play a part in it too, but that I can figure out. I just dont know what to say. The only walkup I tried, I accepted at first glance. This time, I plan on being a bit more picky.
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Post at 31-8-2013 12:50  Profile P.M. 
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Though I have not done the 141 walk up scene, whenever I reject an individual girl I say thank you maybe next time or sorry I would like to check another. As long as you do not do a bad face and/or directly try to upset a girl and be like sorry your ugly, the girl will be understanding. Not only understanding, but trust me they go through this so many times they are more than used to it compared to you who does it once so often. So, don't need to get too emotional.
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Post at 31-8-2013 12:52  Profile P.M. 
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I sometimes ask the price for a certain service and if they say a price or no I thank them and walk away.  I also ask for full service and whatever price they say I thank them for their time and say no.

I also ask in English and if they don't speak it helps with the rejection!

Don't worry about it if you get a door slammed in your face.

I've seen some Chinese punters go door to door and reject them all!

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Post at 31-8-2013 13:21  Profile P.M. 
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haha, not getting emotional, but just dont think i could just knock on a door, see the girl, then walk out without saying anything if i dont like. so from what you guys are saying, a simple "thanks" then walking away is good

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Mister   1-9-2013 23:18  Acceptance  +1   xiexie with a nod or smile (don't shake your head!) is good enough
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