Subject: General attitude of Hongkongers to punting
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Post at 18-8-2013 23:46  Profile P.M. 
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General attitude of Hongkongers to punting

Hi. I just read that Hongkongers have a generally tolerant attitude towards prostitution. But how tolerant? If I casually mentioned that I'm visiting WGs (and I like it) to my Hong Kong Chinese colleagues/friends (mid/late 20s, they're also jokingly discussing meeting girls with me sometimes, but our relationship is not that close), would they think I'm a lowlife or would be happy to hear more?
I know people are different, just want to know your general idea about it. Any experience you had?
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Post at 19-8-2013 00:58  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 russex's post

I would definitely not disclose your hobby.  Chinese guys are gossip queens and it will be a form of a career suicidal move. Just discuss it here, afterall that's why you joined the forum.

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Abalonelover   19-8-2013 15:59  Acceptance  +1   Yeah the world is small. Don't want too many familiar ppl to know about your hobby
hunter   19-8-2013 11:11  Acceptance  +1   gossip queen, nicely put
russex   19-8-2013 07:16  Acceptance  +1   i see, thanks
Mister   19-8-2013 05:10  Acceptance  +3   Gossip queens, lol! Good advice.
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Post at 19-8-2013 13:30  Profile P.M. 
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HK people are the see no evil speak no evil type.
They know its there and accept its there, but prefer to ignore it and not speak of it.
That's what you mean by "tolerant"

NO-ONE  will speak openly of this stuff unless you are will known friends in a private setting.
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Post at 19-8-2013 14:53  Profile P.M. 
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If you are beating the system, whether its taxes or business or permits or marriage, you will be seen as clever. But none of these are to be spoken of in public, except among very close friends. As others have said, gossip rules.

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Post at 19-8-2013 16:16  Profile P.M. 
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Most of my friends joke about it but real talk about it ? No. They laugh at the guy going to DG everyone knows what he went doing up there. As for many of my friends they don't consider getting massage and a HJ is a big deal as most of the HK men are doing this for relaxing. But real punting it isn't spoken off. And really I won't let any of them know if I am doing it or where I am doing it. They too close to my family. And last thing you want is to let your family know about it
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Post at 20-8-2013 04:39  Profile P.M. 
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It's an unwritten rule and out if respect people don't talk or exchange info about it
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Post at 20-8-2013 04:42  Profile P.M. 
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Obviously there are going to be some that are accepting of this and some who will think of punters as low lifers. But many hong kongers that i know are accepting of it as they usually go and as they say 'kau leui' or 'diu kai'.
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Post at 20-8-2013 05:53  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 russex's post

Many people do it due to availability and its low price, but like others said, it is not something you would discuss at yum cha.  Best to leave unsaid.
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The first rule about wg club is that you don't talk about wg club

You've got a whole forum to chat about your adventures.

The fact that you said you're not that close to them means that its not a done thing.
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Reply #9 cat8's post

Yeah, everything that has been said is bang on - especially around your work life!  One must keep up appearances.

That said, it can be fun when the ice gets broken (within your close friends) and you can discuss it with one and become bar-hopping, punting mates.  Fun times!

But NEVER bring it up at or around work.  Keep your two lives separate -- office rumours like this are never good for a career.
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Post at 28-8-2013 08:21  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #1 russex's post

i have a group of very close friends. Long term friends. We have a punting "crew". We have some business interests together. We often travel together and we "play" together. It is great fun going out, drinking, make your selection, punt, meet the group for breakfast in the morning to discuss how everything went. We share some great laughs. Always look out for each other.
we all have slightly different tastes in WGs as well so it's fun identifying targets for each other. We have our "code of ethics" where by once one of our crew has had a WG no one else will take her unless he gets the green light from the original Bro...

Having said that there are plenty of girls we have all had at different times. It's also funny because sometimes someone will find a real gem but want to keep her to himself for a while and so make up a story she was mediocre... but then you see the Bro take her 3 nights in a row... and you think... how mediocre can she be? LOL.

However...

we never discuss this outside of the group. We automatically assume newcomers are not participants until they PROVE they are... and we are very careful with this... even when a new Bro "says" he's a punter... we let them PROVE it before we declare our situation. We also like everyone in our group to have a wife or at least long term SO to ensure we "all" have something to lose.

I have found lots of Bros like to "brag" about what they have done and what they are going to do... and when the time comes... suddenly "I've got an early meeting tomorrow" or "I'm too tired".

russex, you have been given good advice by other bros above, I agree with their sentiment that you should remain discrete except with your most trusted (fellow punting) buddies.
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Post at 28-8-2013 16:34  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #11 TonyToro's post

Absolutely

as in so many areas of life, the most valuable asset you can have is

Mutually Assured Destruction ...

without that, zip it up.  If they talk about it hypothetically, you can also talk about it hypothetically




Hear Ye!  The Mayor has spoken!
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