Reply #1 Bill1975's post
Yes, it happens. I would guess that 85% of my attempts with a wanchai bargirl I expected to screw ended successfully, with her back in my room for fun.
But about 15% put off the vibe I wanted and essentially fooled me into thinking we'ld be screwing whenever I was ready to go --- only to get shut down hours later when I finally suggest we head off together. "I only here for drink commissions". Grrr.... THAT is a frickn buzz-kill man! Wasted hours and money.
Another group of gals is pretty open with it and let you know rather early that she's a drinks-only gal. Likewise, those nites that I am just in browse-mode and not planning to score I let the gal know it early: "Hey, I am just partying tonite, by the way, so if you want to join me, cool, but I wont be taking anyone home." Some stuck around and joined me for the evening (and asked to meet another time), others told me they needed to earn so had to move on. Fair enough.
The ones who say nothing piss me off..., but it really is up to you to ask. If you're with a gal for a while and she never brings up the offer to go screw, than you NEED to ask her if you dont want a sad surprise later. I dont (and wont) commit myself too early to any gal --- we need to click somewhat first. So I try to resolve the uncertainty without making a commitment. Just say, "Do you go out with men from the bar sometimes?". If she says "yes, sometimes" or whatever, then great.. I know she's in the game, but havent committed yet. Usually by the end of a drink, or maybe two, I have a good sense whether I want to commit my nite, and money, to her.
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