Not trying to get Shakespeare here......

I tried a massage joint in SZ, just the massage and hj. Been a few times and saw a few girls.

One of which was quite horny and even mentioned that I could have fs with her! For a cool $1K.....declined.

When back a week later, as another little petite girl caught my eye from the last session. Had the massage and hj. Telling me she is new to the game and from observation what she said looked legit. Asked her if she would lilke to see me one day outside of her work. She said no problem...

So back I was in SZ a week later, got my hotel and called her. She came over to see me. Very sweet girl, we had dinner and she was telling me about her history...supporting mother, sister and brother. Dad ran away so she's the sole bread winner.......So I thought here we go.......sob story. Saying she does not like what she did but had to make ends meet. Saying that because she is seeing me and not reporting to work, had to compensate the company at a $1K. Saying thatit's her first time to do this (as she likes me) and would not do it with anyone else (mmmmm). She asked her 'big sis' on what to do and as they are hardened pros said going rate was at least $2K.

Anyway cut a long story short, she stayed overnight, we had some great fs (X2), with lots of dfk and me going daty, but no BJ (as she was scared). She moaned like hell when I daty and pumped the living daylights out of her! Pumped her till skyfall! Got really juicy. And she was really into it! Looked clean with white skin. No marks etc It was really like GFE and BFE. She kept cuddling me in bed to sleep (so I didn't get a proper sleep...).  Morning came and she departed with the cash and additional just for her.

Hooke on her and when I was back in SZ called her, she came. Vey happy to see me and again same as before and only X2 fs. And again the cash for company and her. At $2K total.

Third time around again, same. And I really like her. But I alway wondered whether she was interested in me and my LB or just the cash. For all I know she's bagging the whole cool $2K. Not that I mind, but abit of honestly wouldn't hurt (or is that asking too much).

She said that she would love to be my girlfriend but saying that she was at the bottom of the ladder whereas I was towards the top. So would never work. Though I kept asking her not to say that.

So gents, any bos out there who was/is in the same position? Any advice? Do I just shag and pay or go further (though I don't even know how far to go....)

imho i think you should continue or take it further try to become one of her regulars and take it to the point where she see's you as a part-time bf and doesn't REQUIRE you to compensate  her anymore. Just do NOT get attached keep her as a FB a  lot of benefits come from having a good FB.

I have had this situation before, it has now gotten to the point that when I am in town she takes  the entire time off and spends it with me. we spend days together and FS like animals and she refuses to take my money now. She tells me that she is just happy that i seek her companionship everytime im in town.

and again do NOT get emotionally attached!!

stay safe.

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[ Last edited by  jilluk98 at 25-11-2012 03:01 ]

I suspect you are being taken for a ride, it would be a huge leap of faith for her to pay the 1000 to go out of the night not knowing I you would "refund" her.  Whilst I'm sure you are a fabulous catch it is all too easy (as I have found in the past) to forget that thy are in it fo the business primarily where we are looking for something else.
I may be wrong but I thin you should be very careful of reading too much into it.

whatever you do... remember not to get emotionally attached.. it is after all, just a hobby.... If it makes you feel better you are helping someone and have cash to spare, it doesn't hurt to believe whatever story she tells you...

My two cents: Think of it as a charitable donation. Whatever the specifics of the story she tells you, she's not in the profession if she doesn't need the money. Have fun, show her a good time, help her out by being generous, but don't get too involved.

Guys,

Points noted and thanks for the tips.

Yes, I guess at the end of the day she has to make a living. So seeing me for free (well at this stage) is out of the question.

But at least seeing me and having a good time and not having to do massages and hj gives her that special breakaway, even if only for a night. At least I know that she would not be doing it with others! (So she says)....

Who knows, in time as 'looking4cfc' mentioned, she maybe just become a good friend and do me for free! (I hoe so)

And as the rest of the bros said, if not free, think of it as charitable.

And you guys are right, don't get emotionally attached.

I am in a similar situation with a regular WG that I visit in SZ.  I pay a set monthly fee and have FS and BBBJ as much as I like. It is much better to pay a regular month fee instead of paying a fee for each visit.   This way both you and WG can do better financial planning.  This is how you should sell it to your WG to pay a set amount each month.

Take it for what it is. Depends what you are looking for. If she is really a GF, how you treat her is a lot different. you either keep your distance and pay the money or take her out and spend money on her and still get FS. To me, sometimes it's all the same or can be cheaper. I mean you can take her out for cheap dinners buy a few things and still be under 2K. I'd try to keep her as a regular but the fact is, she will continue to work at the massage place until you start giving her money like a salary. Note: almost all girls will have a situation where they work and send money home to their family, so having her as a GF will mean money for her and her family. This is what it means to some girls about being at the bottom of the chain, sad to say.

Valley King is right on!!  If you can be a regular with her in SZ, it is much better to pay a monthly fee than pay for each visit.  I did this and came out WAY ahead with regards to my out of pocket expenses.  I went from paying 4k per visit to paying 4k a month with unlimited visits.  Much better deal.  Of course FSx2 was just the morning with my girl.  She would go as many times a day as I could take.  I also got the real deal with regards to GFE.  Massage, BBBJ, HJ, CIM, everything but anal.

no need to over-analyze.
as long as you are happy with her, and can afford the 2K..
then enjoy while you can..


once she stops taking your money...
that's when the real shit comes.

sorry dude I think you are being taken advantage of.
Not many girls in Shenzhen are able to demand 2k per day, unless she's a model.
Remember, an overnighter in DG is only 900 or so from a decent ktv. And a sauna session can range from 400-800.

yes, its no biggie that you may be overpaying her. its not a huge amount of cash out of your pocket.
but please be realistic to yourself - she wants the money.