I'm a total newbie here so pardon my ignorance!

So I really wanted a massage the other day and where I live there are tons of massage joints (the ones with the smiley LED feet signs) so I decided to check one out. I wasn't sure if these are genuine massage parlors or places that offer something 'extra'. I was greated by a woman aged around 40-something who kept saying I was beautiful; at the age of 25 I suspect her usual clients are a bit older. Anyway, I opted for an 'all body massage' - I changed into these little shorts and she started giving me a dry massage before giving me an oil one. As some of you are probably expecting, she eventually removed my shorts, massaged my arse and after turning me over offered me a HJ. I politely refused (as I have a GF and I genuinely only wanted a massage!) and it was a bit awkward from that point on. Nevertheless, the massage was good and I paid $148 ($20 tip included) and went on my way.

I guess my questions are, do people go to these places expecting a happy ending or do people go (like me!) just expecting a vanilla massage? Also, I have no idea what she was offering specifically as she was speaking Cantonese, but do they offer generally BJ/sex or just HJ? The place was just a run-of-the-mill walk up massage joint...do they all offer 'extra' services and if so, are there any massage joints that are strictly no-sex? Are the women who work there prostitutes or just masusses who happen to offer HJs? There was a much younger much more attractive girl there but sadly I got the older woman!

[ Last edited by  spunky_monk at 3-10-2012 22:01 ]

Should it matter to you? You're just there for the massage!

I guess my questions are, do people go to these places expecting a happy ending or do people go (like me!) just expecting a vanilla massage?
Most people on this forum, i.e. mongers, go to this type of massage joint expecting a good veggie massage and hope there is a HE or more to finish off. Most "normal" people go expecting a good massage, and are pleasantly amused if a HE is offered.

Also, I have no idea what she was offering specifically as she was speaking Cantonese, but do they offer generally BJ/sex or just HJ?
In this type of joint, the vast majority of the masseuses that might offer anything at all offer only HJ. Occasionally you come across more, but nearly always only if you are her regular. Most don't offer any HE.

The place was just a run-of-the-mill walk up massage joint...do they all offer 'extra' services and if so, are there any massage joints that are strictly no-sex?
Actually, most are veggie only. If extras are found, it is often/usually dependent on the individual masseuse offering it discretely, rather than a general policy of the management. There are ways to be proactive, or at least let her know you are game for extras, but you must be careful and assess the situation, in case she gets offended! Don't be touching her up as part of your assessment though!

Are the women who work there prostitutes or just masusses who happen to offer HJs?
They are masseuses who might offer HJs if the mood strikes them.

Thanks for answering my questions! I love a good massage so I guess I'll go again; just hope I don't offend them when I turn down a HE (she looked a bit bemused/offended!).

lol 90% of massage parlours i went to offered HE.