This happened a while back and once in a while I’ll still think back and ponder over my decision. So the cover story goes, I was straying in the small streets and found this health spa area. So I just went up and after getting into the rooms, I’ve got couple of chicks changed though I realized they were much older crowd albeit sexy and slutty for some.

So I convinced myself to take this particular nice C rack babe and she’s skilled with the licking, catbath, milk with bbbj. Service wise was great. Then she came whispering into my ears, “Do you wanna come my place tomorrow noon and have fun?” And I did ask, it was for no charge. She mentioned meeting up at 11am near her area where we could grab some food then off to biz. She did say getting caught having sex in the center will result in a fine of 5k RMB each.

So before she leave the room, she dialed my phone and kept my contact. Just somehow in me says, something’s not right, so I didn’t save her num. Too many ‘What if’ went past my head so bummer I just told myself heck with it. Besides, the next day I slept till 4pm in the noon and I did not get a call from her anyway. So gone a couple of days, I clean forgot the offer.

Perhaps one of the biggest rock I stumbled onto is free, nothing comes free. Well, beats me.

So, what’s your take on this? Would you have just gone up her place and take the freebie? Did I think too much? Or yes, it’s a trap!

If its your first time and a new customer with her, i doubt they give out freebies.  would seem more normal if she offered paid stuff outside to avoid the spa costs or ur a regular.

i suspect some is amiss here and wouldnt bother, take care

Of course by inviting you over to her place, her main motive is to earn extra cash from you and perhaps just enough for her not to report for duty that day.

Chances aren't bad.....but always best to play it safe. Meet in the lobby of your hotel is probably best.

~UD

curious if anyone would ever pay this.....ever.  I would just assume people would quit or be fired.

Sounds odd... Please share the details of this venue, bro.

devilgodspeed: I'm fine with that. In fact, I feel more at ease when it's a money thing. Somehow we just gotta pay, somehow.

UncleDad: Me worry most would be halfway through the deed, some bf comes back home and starts ransoming... then it's reality check.

CunningLinguist: Can't rem well. It's somewhere in Nanshan where it's close to the furniture wholesale/distribution center. It's one of those small roads dwindling down. It's got a big fancy Club beside but mostly factory workers hang out there. I think it's gui miao area. Didn't bother to rtf.

I think the most likely thing going on here is she would have asked you for money when you got there - and claim a "misunderstanding" if you disagree.  Most Bros will pay something to quickly solve the situtation.  Seen it before.

That's  my guess.

Hence why meet in YOUR lobby. You can see if there's anyone with her. Of course... If you're gonna punt... There are always certain risks. But... There are safer ways to punt... And less safe ways.

Ie.... Going to a sauna...vs. Picking up some random WG and finding an equally random alleyway for some BDSM. Hahaha

~UD

If it sounds too good to be true, it likely is.  Trust your gut instinct and I agree with the above comment of having her come to your hotel lobby.  Too many risks otherwise which outweigh the rewards.... cheers

She has sex for money and knows you would pay for that... Am pretty sure you wouldhave paid, one way or the other....

Remember: there's no such thing as a free lunch, even at the Y! ;)

Why would a girl offer something for free when that's what she gets paid to do? Are you so incredibly good looking and great in bed that WGs can afford to go overtime without pay (time is money!)? Absolutely best case scenario I see here is that she saw that you had money and planned on a longer term strategy to ask for help with expenses down the line. Worst case is you get kidnapped/robbed when you try for a free lunch.

as hockeywander says, If its too good to be true, it usually is.

It sounds like either she had you pegged as someone with money who might be up for paying well for private services or its a set up.


Trust your instinct, if you don't feel comfortable with a scenario walk away. There are a million other ladies out there but putting yourself in danger is not worth the risk.

I agree with the above comments, instincts are surprisingly good keeping you out of trouble. The reptilian midbrain as an incredibly strong survival instinct and if you listen to it it will sometimes say your civilized human ass from any deadly or at least embarrassing or costly situation. the problem is, however, that the breathtaking midbrain is surrounded by the higher order cerebral cortex where all of the other emotions such as shame, guilt, embarrassment come into play and when these emotions overcome the impulses provided by the reptilian brain, this is where you are too smart for your own good.

It's not exactly related that I have read of cases in the US where basically white guys have been in the wrong part of town and seeing large packs of nonwhite guys and rather than turning around and running for fear of either being considered a coward or as the article I read highlighted, giving offense to the nonwhite guys or otherwise resulting in the individual being called a racist, he ignored his reptilian midbrain.

Yes, I studied psychology in university, and also had a course on the neurobiology.

When mongering, keep your midbrain active all the time.

Keep on mongering

It's that brain that gets most of us into this in the first place

What you're saying makes total sense though. The idea that we often do something dangerous, not because we ignore our instincts but because we're frightened of other emotions (guilt, shames, embarrassment etc.) coming into play.

I once knocked on a door and the girl on the other side was amazing (without exaggeration) - amazing body, tall, slim with not an ounce of fat, very very pretty face. She looked like a real-life anime girl. However, I asked her the prices I scanned her up and down and immediately I started seeing signs of someone who really didn't take care of themselves. Very tired-looking face with no-one-at-home eyes, odd posture and just looking generally unwell. I made the decision to make my excuses (politely and apologetically) and leave her.

On reflection she might've just had a cold or something but there was something 'off' about her and I didn't want to take any risk.

If you met up with her it would of been a great night of playing games such as naked twister and strip poker... of course after you dose off who might know what would happen xD

  Now I feel great to not have turned down a 'nice' offer... Insightful to see my worries are not just mine. Punt safe!

I would have just went for it and let things take its course. If she wanted money, I'd pay.  If not, all the better.  Just be prepared for anything, that's pretty much it.

Wander,

The OP mentioned RMB, so I assumed it was in PRC and not in HK. I think other bros have reported shady WG dealings in PRC in the past.

Someone who took my advice

midbrain said no, it means you have somehow dodged a bullet and of course the higher brain says walk down the hall and knock on the doors as there is no shortage of talent on offer

Good on ya

Keep on mongering