I thought my presence at a massage place that normally gives HJ is already indicative of my naughty side. There is no need to tell the girls. The thing is to the girls, 99% of the guys who go there are both 'naughty' and a 'self-fish taker'. My mission at these places is to convince the girls that I am 'naughty' and a 'generous giver'.
My current MO to get these girls to go farther than the usual HJ is when the girl tells me to flip-over, instead I sit-up facing the girl and hug her around the waist like a bf. Then I tell her that I really appreciate her massage techniques and in gratitude I would like to daty her. Of course the girl wants me to lie back down to receive the HJ, but I persist with soft words, soft pecks/breathing around her neck, and caresses of her waist and back. Soon after, she will conclude 'oh what the hell' and lie down to allow me to slowly pull her panties off for a nice daty. Then I dine for at least 10 mins to make sure she is enjoying it.
Like a great relationship with the back-and-forward in giving and receiving, the girls will soon feel guilty and want to reward me for taking the time to daty for a long time. I may get a bbbj out of this on this 1st visit and promise of a fs on the 2nd visit. If I am lucky I may get a fs out of it.
Like everything in life, if you give first, without wondering if there is a payback or not, you may be greatly rewarded.
Too many ppl, esp in Asia, are always calculating their possible rewards for the amount of effort they may make. They don't like to come 'out at the bottom' of any deals, relationships, work, etc. Hence they are always amaze at the benefits/opportunities that occasionally come my way.