Just wondering if any brothers here can't cum during BJ??
Not saying that i can't cum at all, but during BJ, it just wouldn't cum leh.

I love bjs and sometimes i cum faste when i get it. My girlfriend takes it hard to the mouth and swallows it. She doesnt do it that muh anymore but i used to get ultra ex cited when she does. Tbh, sometimes i prefer a nice bj rather than fs. What do u guys think?

at 37D I always has at least one CIM.
my gf tried in the past but definately don't want me to do it again.
This is one of the reason I go for girl who allow me to CIM. The feeling is to be very empty to the last drop.
For me, preliminary are the most important in the sex life.

I guess I'll take the minority stance. I rarely come can finish with BJ. I guess it's more preference. I prefer body to body contact.

i am embarrassed to say i have never cum from a bj.
i consider it a deficiency, and correlated with my general non-athleticism.

i truely believe it has a large dependency on the girl.

I was similar where I needed a fair bit of hand action as well as from the mouth. But then one girl in particular just had the most incredible skill. It was the first time I had CIM from a pure BJ, no hands involved at all. Then, to my utter delight, less than a minute later she started all over again didn't stop. Just carried on going and shot 2 followed a few mins afterwards.

I come hard from bjs and I am very lucky to have a gf that does it with great skill and enthusiasm.  Icant cumfrom cbjs however

I'm athletic as hell and I can't cum during a BJ. No idea why.

Yes I can, but only if the girl is good at it.  Some girls are horrible and I can only cum with a combination of BJ and HJ.  I've never had a young girl (aged 21 or under) who can get me to cum by BBBJ alone.  It's usually older chicks.

I've noticed if I get a BBBJ and then it gets interrupted (such as me doing DATY) it's harder to cum when I get the BBBJ again.  To increase the chances of cuming, I have to get BBBJ straight through without interruption.

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Good for you bro, a girl can suck you for hours, enjoy it without cumming. I actually envy you, though sometimes you may want to have CIM.

I love getting BBBJs and get too excited sometimes, I still want to f*ck, so I need to cut the BBB short.

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even the comments above indicate that many bros can't cum from a BJ alone. i think it's common, and most important, don't worry about it!

sexuality is driven by the psychological mindset of the people involved. i'd rather have an enthusiastic mid-30s gal who's a bit chunky than some physically stunning yet icy "princess." there's communication issues, how you feel physically, etc etc. i've had flagging erections brought miraculously back to life (and culmination!) by women who really WANTED that to happen. i've had raging hard-ons slowly dissipate as some ice-queen gives off attitude. of course if it's a GF where yr having regular encounters, there are multiple factors (try living together for years and see what changes!). all this comes into play.

but BJs are usually not strong stimulation. IF a gal uses her hand(s) and varies things, it can be quite exciting. i can easily blow my load and have had to quickly switch to another activity to avoid a "misfire," heh heh. but if they're just going through the motions, well...also consider you're usually not getting feedback from yr partner. when fucking, they're usually enjoying themselves and giving you all sorts of indicators besides the flesh-to-flesh contact.

i have a friend who swore he wd never EVER be able to cum from a BJ alone. so i sent him to Lolita's in Bangkok. this place specializes in BBBJs in a big open area BUT yr part is sealed off by a big black curtain. however, u can hear guys getting sucked off and blowing their loads in the same room, see other girls' feet under the curtain as they're servicing yr fellow bros (if this puts u off, try Lolita's in Pattaya where u get yr own room).

sometimes i do prefer a good BJ to FS, and as that's the specialty of the house at Lolita's, ALL the girls are highly skilled. some are quite cute, so if u like that, go for it. but some of the less attractive ones have been there for years...for a REASON. think about it. regardless, no Lolita's tech will stop...they're like ZE TERMINATOR, they will not stop, EVER! well until u CIM, which is guaranteed, BTW.

so i sent my friend there. he said it took 35-40 minutes (damn!), but yeah, he proved to himself he could cum with a BJ. he was amazed.

bottom line: don't worry about it. there's no such thing as "normal" sex--we're all different. it's got nothing to do with athleticism, "manliness" or any other notion. whatever works for u is what's good. it's really that simple.

personally, i really enjoy watching women have orgasms!

JtB

35-40 minutes of a BJ?

I think I'd just fall asleep!

i guess you may take a "test" at 37D, seems most of the girls there are trained to provide CIM service. on the other hand, it heavily depends on her level of skill, how deep is throat, how swirl is her tongue... even the low-skilled one will assisit with her hands to unload you..

Never been able to come from bj alone. Kinda like cim after sex though.

Usually I can't come from a BJ alone unless the girl is really hot or it's a spectacularly good BJ (usually with a bit of a HJ, and I am extra horny). Sex + BJ (with CIM) is not a problem however.

Sometimes the location or circumstances of the BJ can help matters reach a conclusion. My ex-GF used to BJ me while I drove, and I have cum a few times that way (usually it's quicker due to the added excitement). A few times, I've been woken up in the morning by my companion of the night (escort) that ended up with a CIM. One of them (EJ, I posted a review of her in the International section), said that as men are usually hard in the morning, it's easier for guys to come from a BJ if she does it in the morning by waking them up. She did that to me, and I was surprised how easily she got me there.

I must say, probably embarrassingly.  that have never come from a BJ.
Actually, I have even gone limp.
Having said that,  I should note that I can count on both hands the times
I have had Bj's....the exwife was not keen on them.,,and the earlier GF's were a bit
young and inexperienced.  I guess I will have to update this when I visit Asia later this year.

Never finished with a BJ.

I don't find them exciting or pleasurable enough.

I think everyone found their pleasure in what they do.
Personally, the best part for me is in the BJ and CIM.
It allows me to feel all the presure leaving my body when the WG suck out my cum untill the last drop.
I still looking for girl who swallow, anyone know where I can find?

A funny thread.  I am a bit surprised that it seems to be the norm NOT to be able to finish with a BJ.  I rarely do myself, just not enough stimulation, I guess.., but every now and then I find a master who can suck it out of me every time.

But even then, I almost always would prefer to be fucking!

Like some of the bros say, the girl's BJ skills are the  most important part.  Age is definitely factor, an older woman will have more dicks under her belt than a younger one, she knows where and how to hit the right spots.  If a girl is no good at BJs, there is no way I can cum unless I am particularly backed up with cum, a girl who has OK BJ skills will make me cum after some time although I can hurry it by grabbing her head and doing it at my pace, sort of like jerking off but with the bitch's head on my cock and my hands on her head, the super pros, I've met plenty, surprisingly none in HK but tons in the US and plenty in China, IMHO and experience, White women do this best, no hands, just a super smooth BJ that feels more like a tight cunt than a mouth, second are the Blacks and Hispanics, again, smooth BJ, no teeth, incredible suction and last are the Asians (you name 'em)  Although Taiwanese women tend to have a better skill.  The best BJ I've ever received was from an older fat Italian lady who lived in my old neighborhood.  One day we got to talking when I was younger and somehow the topic of BJ's came up, then she was telling me how incredible she was and asked if I wanted to try, of course I would never pass up a freebie so I went to her apartment and had my pants down.  She even put our her boobs for me to play with and even let me suck them.  She started with some very ticklish (in the good way) tongue on my dick and balls and then proceeded to deep throat me like a pro, it felt like the hottest and tightest bareback anal sex I've ever had, it was soft and tight, I came in about 25 seconds with the initial buildup, I gave to her, she was the best BJ I've ever tried.