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furryfriend Lustful Lord UID 421 Digest Posts 0 Credits 995 Posts 568 Karma 957 Acceptance 769 Reading Access 40 Registered 7-3-2007 Location USA Status Offline

#1 Post at 2-4-2011 17:01  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Performance anxiety? I have an embarrassing "problem"... I think I have performance anxiety.  I just finished a session in Pattaya without cuming.  The girl gave a BBBJ for a long time but I didn't cum.  Her technique wasn't good, but normally, I have no problems cumming nevertheless.   Last week, in Macau, the girl BBBJ'd a REALLLLLLY long time before I came. Other times, I go limp during penetration or oral.   It usually happens if I feel the girl isn't into it.  Her bad attitude rubs up on me. Do drugs like V or Cialis help?  I'm only in my early 30s!  I'm too young for this shit! [ Last edited by  furryfriend at 2-4-2011 17:04 ] Recent Ratings sexpert   6-4-2011 10:18   Karma   +3   Why embarrassed? sexpert   6-4-2011 10:18   Acceptance   +3   Why embarrassed?

milkystain Musky Member UID 62945 Digest Posts 0 Credits 187 Posts 87 Karma 185 Acceptance 39 Reading Access 20 Registered 28-3-2011 Status Offline

#2 Post at 2-4-2011 22:28  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Do you have the same problems when it's with a girl you didn't pay for?

charlesspore Musky Member UID 62398 Digest Posts 0 Credits 114 Posts 49 Karma 113 Acceptance 28 Reading Access 20 Registered 18-3-2011 Status Offline

#3 Post at 2-4-2011 22:54  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L If you normally take a very long time to cum, then your gf or wife will love you to death. However, if you go limp when you are affected by surroundings, WG performance, using condoms, then you should try Viagra. It will get you Rock Hard for 4 hours and since you are hard you will be able to feel confident and it will resolve your psychological issue. Do not use Cialis cause it will not really have you stay hard as Viagra. Get the 100mg Viagra and split the tablet into 2s or 4s, for me a quarter of a tablet of Viagra is good enough for 4 hours. I only use it when i visit WG or when i use condoms with ONS, with gf I dun need it. Viagra or Cialis do not prolong discharge.

fjackass (Henry1980) Erotic Emperor UID 60555 Digest Posts 0 Credits 2415 Posts 633 Karma 2401 Acceptance 272 Reading Access 60 Registered 13-2-2011 Status Offline

#4 Post at 2-4-2011 22:59  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L What if you stay hard (so no need for the viagara), but can't cum so easily? I found out I can only cum when I'm doing the controlling - in missionary or doggy style. I can't cum when it's girl on top or ifshe's giving me a blowjob or HJ (unless I'm helping her out).

abigdummy Kinky King UID 44697 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1224 Posts 164 Karma 1216 Acceptance 165 Reading Access 50 Registered 11-5-2010 Status Offline

#5 Post at 2-4-2011 23:49  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 furryfriend's post Dont rely on drugs! If the problem still exist then u should conbsider consult doctor.

furryfriend Lustful Lord UID 421 Digest Posts 0 Credits 995 Posts 568 Karma 957 Acceptance 769 Reading Access 40 Registered 7-3-2007 Location USA Status Offline

#6 Post at 3-4-2011 10:14  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Please forgive this silly question.  But once I take Viagra, do I need to get horny to get hard?  Or do I just get hard?

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#7 Post at 3-4-2011 10:26  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Issue sounds like it is psychological, ie. you worry about it and then it happens, I've been there before and it's not a good experience. Viagra/Cialis will help with the erection but I don't know about the inability to finish off. However, as mentioned above, you should see a Doctor before you take these tablets as they can be dangerous and you need to understand the possible side effects.

furryfriend Lustful Lord UID 421 Digest Posts 0 Credits 995 Posts 568 Karma 957 Acceptance 769 Reading Access 40 Registered 7-3-2007 Location USA Status Offline

#8 Post at 3-4-2011 11:22  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L ^ But it seems lots of guys on this forum use these pills quite wantonly without prescrption!

jgaw88 Kinky King UID 1073 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1197 Posts 988 Karma 1195 Acceptance 39 Reading Access 50 Registered 14-4-2007 Location Hong Kong Status Offline

#9 Post at 3-4-2011 12:31  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I say try viagra.  It works very well.  You do need to be horny - but one you see bare tits and ass you should be hard as a rock.  But having said that I am clealy not a doctor - so you should ask one first.

charlesspore Musky Member UID 62398 Digest Posts 0 Credits 114 Posts 49 Karma 113 Acceptance 28 Reading Access 20 Registered 18-3-2011 Status Offline

#10 Post at 3-4-2011 13:09  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Viagra was originally developed for high blood pressure, trials patients that took it noticed a side effect which is a Rock Hard Boner. Hence, the world most famous failure is the world most successful drug. Since Viagra is meant to lower blood pressure, people with low blood pressure should not take it.

genji88 Carnal Conqueror UID 32513 Digest Posts 0 Credits 258 Posts 213 Karma 256 Acceptance 35 Reading Access 30 Registered 11-10-2009 Status Offline

#11 Post at 3-4-2011 14:07  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L V or c may help you stay hard, but I find that it is actually harder to cum.  I think it'sthe situation. If it was a hot new gf and no condoms, it prob wouldn't be a problem right?

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#12 Post at 3-4-2011 19:19  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L it's the opposite for me, I take a long time to cum with the SO but often very quickly with WGs. It's the "sex with stranger, don't know what to expect" factor that gets me off.

charlesspore Musky Member UID 62398 Digest Posts 0 Credits 114 Posts 49 Karma 113 Acceptance 28 Reading Access 20 Registered 18-3-2011 Status Offline

#13 Post at 3-4-2011 23:05  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L So it is just psychological. So get the thinnest condom and V to try and build confidence. As they say, practice makes perfect, just punt more and you will get more comfortable. You have to choice of hundreds of beautiful WG with near perfect bodies, I am sure you will not be able to get the same standard as gf. So enjoy and relax.

lean9088 Carnal Conqueror UID 29244 Digest Posts 0 Credits 406 Posts 351 Karma 403 Acceptance 51 Reading Access 30 Registered 13-8-2009 Status Offline

#14 Post at 4-4-2011 23:36  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by furryfriend at 2-4-2011 17:01 I have an embarrassing "problem"... I think I have performance anxiety.  I just finished a session in Pattaya without cuming.  The girl gave a BBBJ for a long time but I didn't cum.  Her te ... Just do more and more bro.  Experience makes perfect.

meeni Lustful Lord UID 60996 Digest Posts 0 Credits 701 Posts 308 Karma 691 Acceptance 191 Reading Access 40 Registered 21-2-2011 Location Hong Kong Status Offline

#15 Post at 5-4-2011 03:06  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Here are a few things I've learnt over the years because back then I had pre-mature ejaculation which, believe it or not, is another form of performance anxity: 1. Never drink alcohol before sex, it either makes you screw like a rockstar (bad with WG = no time for cum) or make you cum in seconds (PME) 2. Tug one out during the day.. it relaxes you and removes a lot of that anxiety 3. Practice Kegel excercises 4. Empty your bladder first before sex! (A common thing that many men forget to do) 5. Close your eyes

sirtiger (the banana) Erotic Emperor UID 3407 Digest Posts 0 Credits 2609 Posts 2588 Karma 2586 Acceptance 465 Reading Access 60 Registered 27-9-2007 Location other side of the planet Status Offline

#16 Post at 5-4-2011 06:38  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by meeni at 4-4-2011 02:06 PM 1. Never drink alcohol before sex, it either makes you screw like a rockstar (bad with WG = no time for cum) or make you cum in seconds (PME) I believe one drink to relax is ok.  too much causes issues imo. Maybe seeing a urologist would gives some insight to your issues.

roundtripper69 Carnal Conqueror UID 59564 Digest Posts 0 Credits 298 Posts 65 Karma 295 Acceptance 59 Reading Access 30 Registered 26-1-2011 Status Offline

#17 Post at 5-4-2011 08:07  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L If I get a girl who's not into what is going on I'll say that lil bro is affected.  I think the easy solution is to find the ones that are into you and lil bro, and ignorethe rest, and you'll be fine.

Bottom Carnal Conqueror UID 53902 Digest Posts 0 Credits 283 Posts 294 Karma 282 Acceptance 27 Reading Access 30 Registered 21-10-2010 Status Offline

#18 Post at 5-4-2011 23:38  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L It just happens sometimes.  Not only w/ punting, but in real life.  There are many factors, like stress, mood, etc.

dwinski Lustful Lord UID 22984 Digest Posts 0 Credits 579 Posts 549 Karma 576 Acceptance 59 Reading Access 40 Registered 4-4-2009 Location Manila Status Offline

#19 Post at 6-4-2011 08:21  Profile Site P.M.  Font size: S M L Sometimes proper and regular exercise coupled with good diet and sleep works wonders for me to be "sexually fit". I agree with the Bros. this could be psychological and the best way to treat this is to try to get the girl of your dream (a porno star look-a-like of your dream) and then fuck her as hard as you can.

JJJ37 Throbbing Titan UID 59774 Digest Posts 0 Credits 4048 Posts 1785 Karma 3990 Acceptance 1153 Reading Access 70 Registered 30-1-2011 Location US or Thailand Status Offline

#20 Post at 10-4-2011 10:03  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Relax, take a deep breath and think about the sex not the situation

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