Guys,

My girlfriend is scared, embarrased, and dont know how to buy birth controls here.
She wont buy condoms, pills, or anything. So i have to do it.

I am sick of condoms, and dont want to put that rubber on. She wont agree to
take birth control pills. So what are other options without her needing to see a doctor to get
a prescription?

How about the birth control patch? Can i buy it for her? If so, where?
or what other option do i have?

I need one where I can buy for her, without wearing anything.

You can buy her a morning-after pill.
Just walk into a pharmacy, the ones with the R symbol, it'll cost you around $100-$150 for a single shot of a reputable brand.

But that's actually not a solution to your problem: morning-after pills are actually worse than taking scheduled pills properly under medical prescription.  

If she won't take pills, the only non-chemical approach is the IUD (google it), but that also requires a doctor to fit it.

Bro: you have a BIG problem.  
You MUST assume that you will be using condoms with her for the rest of your relationship (and marriage if you marry her)

Cutting to the chase: you need to grow a pair, and give her an ultimatum: "Honey, you go see a doctor, or lose me".  
And you gotta do it now
because the longer you wait, the stronger her conviction that she has you under her control,

and, if you man up and face it, the truth is

she does have you under her control.

So the choice is:
do you love her enough to use condoms for the rest of your sexual life?  Or
do you love her enough to confront her with the truth about what it will take from her if she wants to keep you together?

get married and make babies.

Vasectomy (Male Sterilization)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasectomy
http://www.fwhc.org/birth-control/vasectomy.htm

You also have the option to try natural birth control method:

http://contraception.about.com/o ... Control_Methods.htm





Reason for edit: misspelling

[ Last edited by  disktroyer at 14-2-2011 16:37 ]

Where are you at currently? In the States you need a prescription for birth control pills. However in HK you can get them over the counter at any drug store like Watsons.

Why is your girl embarrassed to see a doctor to get birth control pills? Is she too young? Is she embarrassed of her body? There are many female doctors in many govt family planning clinics that can help her.

You are on a slippery slope here on your relationship with her. First she wants you to buy her the birth control pills / patches, then later you will have to help her buy the tampons/pads...then later the feminine washes/douches....  And if she should accidently get pregnant she can blame you for getting the wrong pills or not buying enough pills etc. It is best she accepts responsibility for her own body and visit the doctor and take the pills religiously.

Maybe she just wants to start a family?

you can buy her some spermacide...but your better off probably getting her to go along with getting an IUD or a nuvaring.  If your in the states she should be seeing her ob/gyn once every year so just tell her to tell the doc I want to go on bc pills.  I dunno how it works in HK...

Maybe she's a good Catholic girl. In which case perhaps he should get acquainted with the rhythm method or timely withdrawals.

as DArtagnan said, you have issues.

1st, assume you go to WG since you hang out here, you know that using pills doesn't eliminate your chance for STD right?  It helps prevent pregnancy.  I recc. u keep using condoms; perhaps you need to switch to condoms that are better for you.  Unless u stay monogamous, birth control is the way to go. I recc. seeing another doctor she is comfortable with.

2nd.  Morning after pills has side effects. Think she will dislike it. Also its not as effective as you make like it to be.  All these other methods listed above are not as effective as you make like them to be.  

3rd.  I don't know where you are located. be careful if you go outisde of the perscription world, there are FAKE birth control pills in various part of the world.

shit, when I first read the title of this thread I thought you meant birth control pills for men!!! I had never heard such a thing! Anyway, dont like condoms and dont want babies... your solutions are:

Oral
Anal

do you guys know that there was a injection for men that prevents pregnancy? I read it somewhere they were gonna test it. Dunno how the result came out.

calculating the safety period, but dangerous as it's not always accurate...
in fact, using a condom shows how a man cares his girl...

omg, explain this backward statement!  

Maybe he means using a condom with a WG sends a passionate message of love back to your SO.

I might even raise that point next time I forget our anniversary / valentine or whatever