I think I get some problem of myself.... I loss the libido and motive to having sex recently...

I loss the interest to looking for HG/WG even loss the interest to sex with my wife.

My little brother still work normally, I still jerking twice a week...I still peep hot girl in street

But I loss the intention...how can I do to get it back..please help me

Ask yourself are there other things like stress at work or home or other issues. I tend to lose the apetite every now and then and I can trace it down to problems or distractions with work or family. The fact that you still jerk off means you still have the urge.

I suppose you can give up jerking off too and see how long you can old out for.

Could you let me know your age? This can happen some times for no reason at all but the urge will comeback sooner or later.

Those symptoms could also be caused by lowered testosterone levels in your body, which can happen to some when you get older. You can get your levels checked, and get medication if your levels have dropped below standard.

some times it could be because:

1. you did it too often in a time frame
2. you are under tremendous stress

seems to be the common reasons

you still jerk off twice a week?  why? to what?

also state if this was all of  sudden or a gradual change

Most likely stress and a lot on your mind. take a vacation from work and go somewhere with the wife and see what happens

I'd agree that stress is a likely cause, but don't just ask the Bro's on here (as knowledgable as we are   )... I would go to a doctor and get professional advice. They should be able to help you out, whether it is stress or testosterone or whatever.

Life is too short to be missing out on sex, right?

Are you gay?  

Seriously, I'm not calling you names ... just that I've noticed a pattern in the coming out stories I've come across over the years, the guy (or the girl) goes through a period of soul-searching before making the connection.  
Heck there was even one on www.fmylife.com recently: a woman who's husband was bugging her for years asking if she's lesbian, and her denying it, then just discovering she gets hotter with a girlfriend than she ever did with a guy.  
Give yourself some space, think it over.  Your anxiety is hurting you more than the truth ever will.  

Having said that, much more likely is one or more of:-
  stress
  depression
  overwork
  physically sick (flu is a biggie, can be just enough to make you feel run down and depressed without putting you into bed)

BUT

if your stress is associated with you being picked on (esp by bitchy wife / SO / girlfriend) or you being unlucky and pulling a string of hard-bitten hookers, it would be totally normal for you to withdraw in reaction.  

Stuff like that - the 'drip-drip-drip' of persistent criticism - is something that we can ignore for a long time - years even - and then it suddenly catches up on you.  Check out the hygiene of your environment, and make sure you've got some (male and female) friends you know you can trust and rely on to care about you.  And if you have to hire a trained counsellor just to be sure you can talk to her, do it.

There you go, a couple of ideas to explore.

perhaps seeing a doctor may solve your problems.

DArtagnan: sorry, meant to be +1.  will add +2 to another posts of yours

yeah9911

I jerk off from 10+ to now (30+) It's my habits and I working very smooth everyday so that I dont think my problem come from stress...

geoduck
I am 32

SkinnyForum
I know when I come old, I will losing the motive to having sex, but I dont think it come the right time.

rockypop
same as I answer yeah9911, my job is very "flat" and I have no any stress from family and money... that why I ask for help

sirtiger
I jerk off from 10+ because of curious and fun at that time, now on I only jerking when I watch AV.

I think the problem is sudden come. I have no idea why it happen.

catmando56
I already take many vacaton for rest when it happen, at first, I guess the problem come from strain, then I take a week for rest and dont have any sex, but the symptoms still winding me

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Check your blood pressure, bro, several times over a few days to get an average.

If it's consistently above 140/90, run, don't walk, to see a doctor.

It could save your life!

On the other hand, it could be acute depression. How's your appetite for other
things that you've always enjoyed, like food, music, movies, etc? Do you have
friends that you hang out with?

If there's been a sudden change in these areas, too, go see a doctor. No shame
in it, but dealing with it before it gets worse will improve the quality of your life.

neo,

Its happened to me, but i am a bit older than you.
There were a few times i lost my drive for a few weeks, but it always came back.
Maybe it is jerking off? jerking off makes you less sensitive and harder to get off with a real girl.

some times it's good to not get off for a week to help rebuild the urge.
you could pop some porn in between to tease yourself if that helps but dont let off! =)

I stopped jeffing about a week, but it seem not diff between before and after...I will try to stop it more 2 week to find out the answer

Hit the gym! Working out or playing sports always gets me going. If that doesn't work, there are testosterone pills you can take which I'm almost sure will work. I've taken them before forbulking up and they turn me into an animal...

I having weight training twice a week, recently, I focusing training my leg for preparing Standard Chartered Marathon. I guess my testosterone iis moving up now...

taking pill is very danger...It will disturb the normal production of testosterone from your eggs..

You are right, taking a pill can be dangerous. However if you do some research, and take it for a short period, it can give you a boost you might be looking for.

maybe take some zinc and magnesium, this i believe is helpful in increasing low T levels
also get plastics out of the diet- from what i have read plastics can decrease T, ie do not drink out of bottled water- this advice may be helpful if it is a T issue

Viagra does wonders for your life.  There are other factors like stress, or something that might be part of the problem.
There is always aprodesiacs.