Originally posted by Asslover at 24-9-2010 19:21
She's playing a powergame, but I don't know what to do. ...
She's looking for you to respect what she's doing for you.
It's called a "snowball" - get over it and drink it down like you want her to
you'll get the effort back 10x over from her.
IMHO the ONLY alternative is to find something else that she would love to receive but feels uncomfortable about doing to you (rimming maybe?) that you can do as an exchange. You can get away with an imbalanced exchange for a while, but in the long run reciprocity wins.