Sorry if I misunderstood you post, but the language was a bit ambiguous.
As I pointed out myself, Herpes is always something to be wary of. And the scenario you describe is exactly what I'm afraid of. But, to be consistent, you would also have to avoid kissing, since genital herpes and oral herpes are the same viruses, and just as easily passed from mouth to mouth/genitalia as genitalia to genitalia/mouth. So when visiting these girls, no oral sex, no kissing, always wear a condom - why not just stay home and jerk of?.
It's a bit unfair to say that I'm more concerned with facts than people. And in a war of Chinese sayings, I'm at a distinct disadvantage. Give me a couple of days to come up with something good.
But I'm surprised after all that I've written in this forum, that you think I'm not concerned about the welfare of the girls.
Call me lucky or not but from 1968 until now, I've never given or got any STD. But yes that is no guarantee against future problems, but at least I've built up a bit of good Karma, no? No pat on the back?
Give up BBBJ, yes; but don't ask me to give up DATY, it's not in my nature.
Supposedly great progress has been made in the production of an effective vaccine against herpes.