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Poll Subject: To Monger or NOT?????  single choice [Show Voters]
Who cares just do it!!!	16 (45.71%)
You can take off one day.	19 (54.29%)

jayson420 Lustful Lord UID 3111 Digest Posts 0 Credits 642 Posts 377 Karma 638 Acceptance 83 Reading Access 40 Registered 4-9-2007 Status Offline

#1 Post at 4-10-2007 05:51  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L To Monger or NOT????? Guys, I have a moral question for everyone.    My 5 year wedding anniversary is coming up next week.   I am going to miss it and be travelling in HK during my actual anniversary.   Just so happens the anniversarry will be my one day in HK.    Now the poll question is "should I go out mongering or not?" or should my moral compass tell me to just sit alone in my hotel room.    I think I have made up my mind but I am real curious to see the thoughts of others on the forum.   I know this is kind of a strange poll but......... thanks for the feedback, Jayson

DonJuanInHK Nookie Newbie UID 3474 Digest Posts 0 Credits 61 Posts 52 Karma 61 Acceptance 0 Reading Access 10 Registered 1-10-2007 Status Offline

#2 Post at 4-10-2007 06:06  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I wouldn't do it. But if your wife is expecting you to do it, then just do it because she'll think you've done it no matter what. But then again, you might not get good sex and if that happens then it's not worth it. [ Last edited by  DonJuanInHK at 4-10-2007 06:07 ]

escritic (Just a teddy bear) Throbbing Titan UID 3478 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3423 Posts 1679 Karma 3356 Acceptance 1338 Reading Access 70 Registered 2-10-2007 Location West Coast Status Offline

#3 Post at 4-10-2007 08:01  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Really... Just be honest with your wife and yourself. Don't jeopardize your marriage over a temporary urge of busting a nut (assuming that you value your marriage and feeling of your wife). If she doesn't mind you to do it, follow your heart. If she doesn't want you to do it, you probably don't want to do it. Live your life without any regret or sense of guilt.

jayson420 Lustful Lord UID 3111 Digest Posts 0 Credits 642 Posts 377 Karma 638 Acceptance 83 Reading Access 40 Registered 4-9-2007 Status Offline

#4 Post at 4-10-2007 09:05  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I guess I should of mentioned that I monger on a regular basis and my wife has no knowledge of it. Its only a matter of a moral question to myself.    How will I feel inside if I monger on our anniversary.

sulasno Master Mongerer UID 190 Digest Posts 0 Credits 6524 Posts 6414 Karma 6523 Acceptance 22 Reading Access 80 Registered 23-2-2007 Status Offline

#5 Post at 4-10-2007 09:41  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L if you feel guilty, then don't do it on your anniversary; and that's will be HK$100 as consultation fees ehhhh................. how do I send you my virtual invoice ? and you can pay me by virtual cash ................... on second thoughts I will accept a virtual beer

escritic (Just a teddy bear) Throbbing Titan UID 3478 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3423 Posts 1679 Karma 3356 Acceptance 1338 Reading Access 70 Registered 2-10-2007 Location West Coast Status Offline

#6 Post at 4-10-2007 10:21  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Well... I think you have already answered your own question. Cheating on your wife on the anniversary is no different than cheating on your wife on any other day. Cheating is still cheating. The date difference doesn't change the nature of the behavior. Just my two cents.

Marsupial (Saint Marsupial) Throbbing Titan UID 2909 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3497 Posts 3164 Karma 3478 Acceptance 370 Reading Access 70 Registered 18-8-2007 Location Lost in Space Status Offline

#7 Post at 4-10-2007 11:19  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Well, if you monger on a regular basis, you've already made an arrangement with your conscience, the fact that it's your anniversary is then just a matter of sentiment not morality - the moral question is whether to monger or not, not on which day to monger. What you want from us is just a few words of encouragement - no?

jayson420 Lustful Lord UID 3111 Digest Posts 0 Credits 642 Posts 377 Karma 638 Acceptance 83 Reading Access 40 Registered 4-9-2007 Status Offline

#8 Post at 4-10-2007 11:39  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by Marsupial at 4-10-2007 11:19 What you want from us is just a few words of encouragement - no? Exactly!! Like I said, I have my mind made up.   But there are very good points being made here that are actually making me think.   That maybe why I posted the question. Later, Jayson

Marsupial (Saint Marsupial) Throbbing Titan UID 2909 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3497 Posts 3164 Karma 3478 Acceptance 370 Reading Access 70 Registered 18-8-2007 Location Lost in Space Status Offline

#9 Post at 4-10-2007 11:50  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #8 jayson420's post OK, now that that's clear, here's a friend's particular take of this which seems to fit your predicament. He chooses to see the whole matter of fidelity in a very narrow legalistic way. For him it's simply a question of jurisdiction, if the wife is not in the same country, he feels free to do what he wants. Tho for REAL encouragement, start going through the Gal'DB. [ Last edited by  Marsupial at 4-10-2007 13:12 ]

bluehound Nookie Newbie UID 2896 Digest Posts 0 Credits 78 Posts 46 Karma 78 Acceptance 0 Reading Access 10 Registered 17-8-2007 Status Offline

#10 Post at 4-10-2007 14:32  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L now u guys give me a complex never been with another girl (ever) other than my wife for over a decade  now..but am tempted to wander while all alone in the strange big city ....... the temptations are irresistible........... forbidden fruit can b tempting........  wonder what its like on the other shore [ Last edited by  bluehound at 4-10-2007 15:41 ]

Jake (The Snake: King of 141) Master Mongerer UID 2553 Digest Posts 0 Credits 5607 Posts 3938 Karma 5594 Acceptance 259 Reading Access 80 Registered 20-7-2007 Status Offline

#11 Post at 4-10-2007 15:37  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #1 jayson420's post Never thought about it before. I'm a relentless mongerer who loves his wife. Usually I'm a very logical guy but this time my answer has no logic, so don't ask me to explain. I wouldn't do it. I'd sit in my hotel room with a bottle of very expensive Brandy.    Of course, the day after .....

bluehound Nookie Newbie UID 2896 Digest Posts 0 Credits 78 Posts 46 Karma 78 Acceptance 0 Reading Access 10 Registered 17-8-2007 Status Offline

#12 Post at 4-10-2007 15:42  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #11 Jake's post thanks buddy i know its a hard one , and  yes I love Brandy............. [ Last edited by  bluehound at 4-10-2007 15:47 ]

escritic (Just a teddy bear) Throbbing Titan UID 3478 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3423 Posts 1679 Karma 3356 Acceptance 1338 Reading Access 70 Registered 2-10-2007 Location West Coast Status Offline

#13 Post at 4-10-2007 16:18  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by Marsupial at 4-10-2007 11:50 OK, now that that's clear, here's a friend's particular take of this which seems to fit your predicament. He chooses to see the whole matter of fidelity in a very narrow legalistic way. For him it's s ... According to the movie "Road Trip", it's not cheating if you aren't in the same area code. And it's not cheating if you let your dog lick the peanut butter off your balls...

zeroz Lustful Lord UID 3388 Digest Posts 0 Credits 761 Posts 552 Karma 744 Acceptance 341 Reading Access 40 Registered 27-9-2007 Status Offline

#14 Post at 4-10-2007 17:22  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L With few insights to what you really think about mongering, it is quite hard to determine for you what is right or wrong... However, for myself, I look at mongering as just a physical thing.. something to satisfy my physical needs.. Relationship with my wife is not only physical, but also on an emotional... I don't share any emotional links with any of the working girls, and that's the way I justify myself morally... For me, if I decide to go mongering on my wedding anniversary, that would basically mean to me that I've lost my emotional link to my wife as well...

Jake (The Snake: King of 141) Master Mongerer UID 2553 Digest Posts 0 Credits 5607 Posts 3938 Karma 5594 Acceptance 259 Reading Access 80 Registered 20-7-2007 Status Offline

#15 Post at 4-10-2007 20:06  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #14 zeroz's post Excellent response bro. You're exactly right. Suddenly, my illogical answer becomes totally logical. Thanks.

Marsupial (Saint Marsupial) Throbbing Titan UID 2909 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3497 Posts 3164 Karma 3478 Acceptance 370 Reading Access 70 Registered 18-8-2007 Location Lost in Space Status Offline

#16 Post at 4-10-2007 20:29  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L So Jayson420, there is no moral answer to your question - do what feels emotionally right. If mongering on your anniversary is going to make you feel like a shit, abstain for a day. Find something else for the little guy to do.

sirtiger (the banana) Erotic Emperor UID 3407 Digest Posts 0 Credits 2609 Posts 2588 Karma 2586 Acceptance 465 Reading Access 60 Registered 27-9-2007 Location other side of the planet Status Offline

#17 Post at 4-10-2007 21:42  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by escritic at 4-10-2007 10:21 I think you have already answered your own question. Cheating on your wife on the anniversary is no different than cheating on your wife on any other day. Cheating is still cheating. The date differen ... I agree

jayson420 Lustful Lord UID 3111 Digest Posts 0 Credits 642 Posts 377 Karma 638 Acceptance 83 Reading Access 40 Registered 4-9-2007 Status Offline

#18 Post at 4-10-2007 23:06  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I love my wife very very much.   And there is no other women that I would rather spend my life with: but..... -she doesnt really like sex much -she doesnt want to try anything special out -she only like mish position...ONLY -the sex is pretty bad with her -but i still love her to death So with that said, I also kind of look at mongering as a physical thing.   Like playing a sport or something.   So we will see.   Next week I have two days in HK and probably my last two for a couple months.   So you may see my reports or you may not.

chris_powell Musky Member UID 196 Digest Posts 0 Credits 116 Posts 111 Karma 116 Acceptance 0 Reading Access 20 Registered 23-2-2007 Location I'm everywhere.... Status Offline

#19 Post at 5-10-2007 00:00  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L na, not something during your anniversary, you can come back next time. just like me, I went out to check out some good stuffs then half way my gf called me, errr..I was on my way out of the building but didn't go for it. anyway, it's something a  treasure you will remember when you date her or marry her, so during these day, you can try to abstain from mongering. she deserve respect, so give her one.

sulasno Master Mongerer UID 190 Digest Posts 0 Credits 6524 Posts 6414 Karma 6523 Acceptance 22 Reading Access 80 Registered 23-2-2007 Status Offline

#20 Post at 5-10-2007 10:26  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L @jayson420 whatever is your decision, remember that in the end you are the one to bear all the consequences of your actions I rest my case .................

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