Being a successful mongerer takes some organising. Especially if you want to have regular access to Gals you really like. Of course, maintaining a regular line of communication has it's dangers, it can be something of "balancing act", giving yourself the ability to set up meetings with your favourite Gals and / or their agents and not getting caught by your SO.

Do you take precautions? How much trouble do you go to, to ensure your "habit" flies under the radar?

email:
I have a Yahoo email account I set up specifically for communications with WG's I particularly like. I send them an email when I know my schedule and see if there is a chance they could be in HK or China (based on my schedule). I dont use this email account for any other purpose so it's quite safe.

phone:
I have a "mongering" phone. It has a local HK SIM card in it and is ONLY used when I am in HK. It means I dont have to worry about my phone ringing at "home" in the middle of the night.

Do other Bros do similar things? any other strategies to provide maximum flexibility while maintaining discretion?

As obvious as it sounds, I make sure I have plenty of cash of me all the time, so that I don't accidently overspend in the saunas, and get forced to pay on my credit card.  That sure would be hard to explain on the invoices.

Since I don't live locally in HK, I get a prepaid sim when I get there... so no tracking in regards to communication...
ALWAYS have plenty of cash....
Fake name, of course...
Extra condom discretely in a pocket (just in case)


And even if the girl is realllly cute, and even if we really had a blast (pun intended), I NEVER give out any real personal info...
so if they bump into you in other places, and the WG starts a scene, you can call her crazy when all her info about you is false.
I'm from a different country, with/without kids, married/girlfriend/single, my occupation.
Come up with a believable story, that's memorable and SPECIFIC... so when it's "wrong", you have plausible deniablilty...
Yes... I'm that paranoid...


Take note, that in general, I try NOT to keep a regular (even here in the Philippines)... just too much risk in getting exposed.... not worth taking the chance....


YMMV though...   

I keep a spare bar of soap of my brand I use at home in my briefcase (I have a small compartment that is ideal for this) and use it when I can.  I also keep a spare bottle of cologne in my glove box and another in my office.  Never do I use a Credit Card and plan ahead with my cash withdraws.  Fortunately for me, my SO doesn't know about all my bank accounts, especially the foreign ones which allow me to withdraw from ATM's.

I just love the fact that you feel the need to share lots of information with WGs and therefore come up with different stories about who you are. Mine is simple. I am John. I am a astronaut. I live on the moon and only visit here. Or I am a pop singer in a canto pop band.... anything that sounds ridiculous that sends the message that I'm not going to tell her anything real so stop asking and start sucking.

However, i have given girls my business card on occasion as a lot of people have it and phone calls are not a rarity. most girls aren't stupid enough to send filth messages, and if the number is saved inyour phone as a mans name (john for jo-anne, jordan for last name if she is based in jordan etc, and a company name attahced with fake email which shows their nationality) then there is no real problem.

Photos are bad though. I keep this laptop locked and blocked at all time but be aware, a savvy SO will work out that there are tons of downloadable boot cd roms that will crack windows log on's - i know i did it on my wife's laptop when she changed the password and forgot to tell me.

thanks for good informations...

I'm glad you're enjoying it, but how about sharing your ideas? You do punt right? Would be great to hear what you do / don't do.

i keep a spare SIM too, to use whenever i'm not in HK, as well as a VERY OLD, worn down phone, to put that SIM into. my GF will not notice me having an old worn down phone in my possession

My thoughts exactly, in fact I dont even turn the phone on unless I'm in HK. I let the battery run down when I am home so my SO cant snoop even if she wanted to...

Actually, it's always the same made up story for the WG's.... makes it easier for me to remember, and comes out more naturally the more you say it....  

quote]Originally posted by akka at 15-3-2010 09:40
Photos are bad though. I keep this laptop locked and blocked at all time but be aware, a savvy SO will work out that there are tons of downloadable boot cd roms that will crack windows log on's - i know i did it on my wife's laptop when she changed the password and forgot to tell me. [/quote]


Actually, I have a LOT of porn in all my laptops and external harddrives...
My SO knows I download a lot of porn (vids and pics), so even if she snoops she wouldn't know what was downloaded, and what is mine...

Hrmm.. this reminds me... I should rename my picture folder from "HK prostitutes I've banged" to something else...  

I maintain, segregate and have:

1) 5 different MSN accounts
2) 3 Skype
3) 2 QQ accounts
4) 4 mobile numbers (2 hk and 2 China)
5) 3 set of condoms (for GFs and WGs). Mind you, GFs does keep the numbers of the doms.
6) 3 different nick names
7) 3 set of survival kits and travel packs
8) 2 external hard disk - to keep photos/videos
9) 3 group of credit cards
10) Only 1 DICK ...

GF keeps the numbers of the doms!  Jezuz

I have everything in a locked drawer at work, condoms, phone and sim.

Only at home danger is logging onto this forum.  SO is more IT savy than most, any advice on going beyond Tools/Delete Browsing history?

Monger at times when you are less likely to be seen, e.g. HGs midnight on a Monday, off to sauna at 11:45 am before it gets crowded.

Try to have an excuse for being where you are.

No BBBJ and drink 2 litres of water afterwards leading to a nice long cleansing piss.

And just don't get careless, be aware that everytime you are rolling the dice.

I always get a prepaid cell card when in HK so that I dont get caught by using my own cell.  I try to keep all browsing of this site on my private laptop that is passowrk protected.  Cash is the only way to deal when going out to monger.  CC just leaves a paper trail.  Gotta be as cautious as possible.  Dont want to get caught by my SO.

I am surprised your GF doesn't check the expiration dates and batch numbers of the condoms to make sure you are not using them too.  

Remember who you are, bro! If ever in doubt, call your mum!

keeping photos/videos on computers, external harddrives is very dangerous, but if you insist on keeping i find keeping it all in a rar and renaming the file and placing it randomly in your windows/system folder works good

hope you don't have any birth marks or scars thats recognizable if you are filming yourself with any WG's???

I am impressed.
But 3 sets of condoms.
Seems like a little paranoid GF you got there.

But I guess as long as you know what you're done.
I believe you have a clear routine by now.

Moot point....
I'm not willing to take the risk of any photo/video evidence of me with another girl...

I never email.  I only use a phone, and even at that, I use a Google Voice number that isn't connected to any of my phones unless I'm trying to book an appoitment.

On top of that I only surf any forums using privacy mode (no cookies stored) on whichever internet browser I may be using.  

If privacy mode isn't available, I regularly flush my history, cookies, and downloaded images from the browsing session I just engaged in.

Gotta be a