Thanks bro for your insightful reply.
Yes, those two forums are mongering related. The first one is particular. Actually, it's a forum about prostitution in France and it's is host by an legit forum talking about any issue related to health. The member on this prostitution forum has members who are customers of prostitutes, prostitutes as well, and people who are neither customer nor prostitutes. The forum is controlled by a small group of prostitutes and some moralists customers who slag off and despise anyone who hold a different view from theirs. And everybody seem to surrender to their dictatorship of views but a few people. I was just a lurker on this forum, I didn't want to waste my time debating with them.
The second forum is my
Mecca !!! I mean, it has become a kind of holy place for me. That's the forum where I discovered mongering and its full potency, late 2006. It's even through this forum that I discovered sex141 two years ago. I was like a child when I discovered that forum and they guided my paths into this hobby. Only a few people replied to the question of the guy who wanted to offer money for sex to a gal looking a baby-sitting job saying it was not on. So, it cannot reflect the view of the majority, and nobody showed contempt to the questionner.
I fully agree with you when you write
So these guys are happy to pay for sex once the girl is already prostituting, but they would not want to be the one to start her into it? Personally I don't differentiate between working and normal girls, but obviously the guys on this other forum make moral judgements between the two. How can you be happy mongering and then say it is immoral to offer a girl money for sex? That makes no sense to me!!!"
As far as I'm concerned, I would not offer money for sex to a civilian for the only reason I wouldn't feel confortable doing so. Otherwise I would have already done it. This is because there's great chance she would feel offended and I'm only bound to get insulted for this move. There's no benefit with this kind of move. It's like going to a girl and saying:
"Hey...you wanna fuck ?". You know all you gonna get is at least a
"Fuck off...looser !!!".
Now, if one is a skilled talker and can find a way to offer this without the girl to take offense...I say lucky guy...but I'm not that kind of guy, thus I would refrain myself to do so.
I would feel more confortable in a situation where a girl that I fancy (and we're not goo friends) comes to me with a sob story asking me if I could lend/give her a significant amount of money (I mean equivalent to what an average escort would ask). I would let her know I don't trust anyone enough to lend them money and I don't give anyone the money I had hard time to earn. I let her know I fancy her and I'm willing to satisfy her need of money if she satisfies my need of her charm. There's still big chance she gets offended, but in this case she needs the cash, so she might put her pride aside.
So, the only difference is, unlike the other situation, here I might offend the girl but still get what I want if that's the only way she thinks she can get the fast cash she needs. In the other situation, I would offend the girl needlessly in as much I know it's almost impossible that a civilian girl not in need would accept money for sex.
Cheers.
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