Example:

I was in LA Cafe in Manila when a cute petite girl comes over and starts talking. She was nice and I was randy as hell, so I end up taking her back to the hotel. I had discussed shooting a little 'special' video in no uncertain terms, and she had agreed. We get to the hotel and I grab my video camera, and she is all smiles - Great! Then I prompt her to get undressed, and she renegs.. Damn! Okay, no problem (I'm not about to force a girl to do something like that) We shower and get down to it. Just terrible. BBBJ was average, but her pussy was too small and couldn't take my dick. I ended up making her bleed - what a turn-off!

So then she admits that she usually only goes with Japanese guys who are smaller. She only approached me because business was slow and she needed money to buy some food.

In summary, she lied about what she would do and sex was awful, but I couldn't help it and gave her $2000 pesos (maybe $350HKG) because I felt so sorry for her. (we originally agreed on $1000 including video!)

I know I am a bit of a sucker, but am I alone in doing this sort of thing?

although this has never happrned to me i can share your feeling. i try to be nice to the girls and not force anything on them. also you hsve to remember thst this is their way of earning their money.

That'was your reaction? Yeah, I can feel the empathy.

it is easy to feel sorry for the situation many of these girls are in. No doubt about it, life is not fair.
I tend to think about how few options they really have and that at least they have this as a means (at least in the short term) of making ends meet.
As long as it is their choice (and only their choice) i try not to judge how someone chooses to live. In some areas girls are forced into the trade by 3rd party influences, that is intolerable, but more often then not it is sheer economics.

--8th

I am far from being a saint and dont get me wrong but sometimes I feel like if I have millions of dollars, I would try to help as many of these WGs out of the business as possible. yeah, I feel bad for them and know that someday it might get better for them.

I dont feel sorry for working girls unless they are working against their will. If I thought this was the case I wouldnt go with them. Would never force them to do any thing they didnt want to do.

OK, some asian girls do make a bit of a fuss about my size in the shower but when they relax and get wet they can take it - I always take it slow and that pays off. But no qualms here

I would probably feel bad in 3rd world countries, there was an excellent UK programme about thios called my boyfriend is a sex tourist.

but in 1st world countries HK/Taiwain.Korea no as the women here most definately do have choices and you think of the amount of money they make its pretty obsene,

With girls from China its less clear cut as they have choices but they are terribly limited, ie a shitting factory job, a shitty farming job or working as a WG, I suppose its even worse for men as they don't even have as many options.

when i first started punting i felt bad for the WG's thinking how shitty their job must be.  So i used to tip pretty good.  After a while i started to realize how much $$$ they are making.  In fact I recently saw a regular girl i visit drive a brand new 911 carrera 4S.. LOL.. so yeah, no longer feel much sympthay for her.

One word answer. only lengthened to reach the min.

NO

your answer was expected ...  

not to rain on your parade & change the topic.  Perhaps your technique was flawed to make that happened.  Well, I agree with the majority here that as long as they are not forced, its ok.  They can make in one year in what a shitty job can make in a lifetime.  Of course there is a price to pay with that

I once got quite close to a wg in the UK...She was a young lassie of around 23..( She is from HK..) I used to see her a lot because the service she gave me was next to none.. She had my phone number..( Thank god i never took her home..) She used to ring me all the time..(Most of the time just for a chat...) Then one day she rang me and started crying, telling me that she had over stay her visa in the UK...( FUCK.. I just hate it when a woman cries.. )
I did some asking around and arranged for her to go to the home office in London...To cut a long story short...I drove her down, told her to tell the home office that she was born in China...She got temporary residence in the UK and a flat to live in Liverpool...She told me that she didn't want to work as a wg anymore, so i arranged for her to work at a local takeaway in Liverpool...I lefted her to it then....But she kept on ringing me and i sorry bros..I had to tell her straight.."What she wanted of me was not possible..."( FUCK..I am a softie at heart really..) From that day on...I have never seen the same wg twice..( I still keep tabs on her on the sly and i know she has a boyfriend and is doing fine..) It's a shit feeling to have bros but we are all just human...

You learned your lesson bro. Ive also been there and learned the lesson.

The lesson is to keep your mongering and your affections in totally seperate compartments!

Worst thing you can do to a girl is fall in love with her. Shes offerring a service and we need to respect that and not big ourselves up to be more to the girl. Were not missionary's that have to SAVE or RESCUE the girls we pay for a fuck! Sorry if this sounds hard hearted but its the truth

Theoretically, keeping our mongering and emotions separate is possible. In practice, it is easy to be smitten when you visit a WG more than once or when the 'chemistry' is right even the first time.

I would not say that falling in love with a WG is the worst thing you can do to her. Many bros have taken WGs private and will continue to do so (irregardless of how many of us will deny this fact). Handling this matter is best left to the individuals affected. There is no right or wrong. Society perseive that it is not right (especially Chinese culture) but hey, it is between the bro and the WG. We may not agree or do the same, but hey, if they are happy, who are we to criticise. That's the same thing I learnt when my cousin did the very thing recently. Though in my mind I say that it won't last, I do hope it will.

But no matter what, it would be wrong to 'rescue' the WG if you only want to play superhero and don't love the girl enough to stay with her long term. Now that would be disaster to her. Better to leave her in the industry for someone who really love her to take her out or private.

I respect what you say mate . We are all free to choose what we do and feel . But I dont agree with crossing this line - basically beause the relationship is all about $$.

Dont get involved - thats my motto respect to you mate.

Yup, I don't agree in crossing the line. Dangerous stuff due to several reasons.. primarily cos you just don't know if you can trust a WG. I remember in another thread some bros were saying this - what if you take her private, just for her to see others on the side, get STDs, infects you with it, leaves you. Now that will be disaster!!!

Keep it up Pauley. One more and you are good to go for RA30 stuff.

hey mate thx - you just made the point I left out - WG's are very unfaithful der

Perhaps like all women...

You guys are great! You should start your own comedy team: "The Two Morons".

For your next act, how about a little skit about how a WG ate your puppy.

ARE YOU FUCKING CRAZY????????   no ur just human.

Dude, the WG's (in the modern world) are enjoying themselves probably more than you with your own money. I saw a WG roll out after "work" in her high-class Merc. Damn, you technically helped her pay for her car and all the other shit . Fuck she is so good looking she can have ANYTHING without ever "WORKING" for it She can get anything from any guy. MAN WHAT A FUCKING WHORE.
Do you reckon if you were a girl ur life would be much easier?

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My short answer would be the same as sexpert's...

A long answer would be the same as Kennichi's!