as the title says - how do you think your looks - face (good lookin', average, ugly) / body (tall/short/fat/skinny) affect the way girls treat you in your sessions?

obviously it pays to be tall/good lookin --> more receptive girl - but what about the rest of the spectrum?

edit: also, little bro no shave, trim, or complete shave? make any difference?

[ Last edited by  hermilang at 1-9-2009 01:28 ]

Well I think if you look like you live in China, ie, poor fashion sense, china brand-names, I think the WGs in China dont expect a tip from the punter or know the punter doesnt expect a GFE.  If you dress like you are an outsider or have bucks, the girls seem to do more of that fawning flattering remarks like 'lo sai, lo sai' (boss) and try to like them so they can become ur g/f, but they do ask for ridiculous gifts, after just seeing them 3 times.

mmmm thats interesting. from some of the reports i read, i get the impression u'd be more entitled to bonuses if you look good.
so maybe looks dont matter that much. i suppose a lot would be used to a decent portion of customers who would be a turn off for sex based purely on looks

lol...... but gifts? like what? XD

[ Last edited by  hermilang at 1-9-2009 02:34 ]

I think looks definitely play a big role. I consider myself a relatively good looking guy and have better built than average in HK. That plus I'm Chinese also makes the session more initimate as the WG takes pleasure in fucking a good looking guy also. That plus respect is usually the recipe for a good session for me.

I believe looks definitely play a big role especially with the younger and newer WGs. As some of the girls have told me, when being selected from a lineup, of course they want a younger good looking guy choosing them instead of some older worst looking guy.

Plus if they are attracted to you, they would natural get aroused when making out with you too. You would know just by their wetness level =)

But at the end of the day, if you are clean and well kept, you should kept a good session.

in china, it used to not matter...girls just want to make money...

however, i noticed in recently in the last year or two, girls can be selective...and looks def affect things...went to a ktv recently w/ some friends...and the oldest guy was not getting any love..even from the chick that he selected.  this wasn't the first time...now the girls make enough money that they don't care if they don't get the 200/300 sitting fees..

I noticed that if I get a little more personal with the WG that you tend to get better service.  Try to be fun with them.  If they seem ashamed of their profession which probably applies to newer WG, then just level with them and feed them bullshit about how you're new at this and blah blah blah....  being on the same frequency tends to help.    If you know how to work the girls emotions, you can make up for looks.  I'm the type of guy who likes a bit of challenge.  For instance, some girls for some strange reason squeal when their boobs are touched.  That's when I put on valentino's mask and start saying a bunch of romantic bs until I break down her resistance and climb those twin peaks!   Then again, sometimes I don't want to talk too much and enjoy hearing her moan as loud as she can.  I'm all about the experiences and certainly prefer better over worse.

Sometimes it can also be because the girls don't want to be selected to go overnight. A lot of times, they have regular customers that call them up and let them know they are on their way and wants to spend the night with them. So, they usually find a way out of the current commitment and go off with their regulars.

I've seen this happen a few times in the past with my friends' girls, would hear them or see them SMS their regulars.

Quite true especially for KTV gals, ost of them are biatches, always fly aero with fucking stupid excuses. If they wanna leave the room, I make sure she is drunk or wasted before she can leave, not that easy to earn my RMB200/300, sad but true, these are the kind of WGs i would not pity. Stop messing with me........they think I am Do Do.

But then, I got to say I do have fellow mongers who looks like a dickhead and dress up like salty fish fish monger, but those gals fancy him a lot, not his look but his convo and they way she treat the gals. And he aint no party pooper, he shake, get drunk and sing like a ugly duck. You dont need the look, you just need to party......


However for SN, the gals are obliged to service the customers no matter how you look. Well of cos option such as DFK or bareback offer might be off the table......

So, look is not everything to the WGs.....

For KTV in China, having good looks might not necessary get you better service unless you give them the BFE...but being a fat ugly bastard will definitely be a turn off for the girl who might then suddenly recall that she has a period.

The more desirable the woman is, the more she will (or can) elect to exert choice.  I stopped to see Abby of Wan Chai tonight (see...  http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=12793).  I'm a tall, slim, greying, balding American...  no one's idea of a sex symbol, but decently successful with women who go for the "distinguished Western gentleman" look.  She opened the door and said, "I'm tired" faster that my ex-wife could say, "Not tonight...  I have a headache."  Then she immediately broke into animated negotiations with the young French guy who was also waiting.  

Do looks matter?  Yes and no.  They only matter if the woman feels that she has a choice.  And then they can matter a LOT...

Have fun, CGP

hunter, that is a great point...i guess an add on is that in addition to looks, your personality also makes a difference to these girls...be nice and they will be nice to you as well..at least most of the time...

yeah - but not too nice so you don't end up creepy ...

The only things that should affect a fuck-session with a WG are her looks and your dick.

But I'm a young, good-lookin guy, so what do I know, haha. But I read Reports like Siklong69 and he's an old guy who seems to have a great time.

KTV is different.

The way people react to each other is always influenced by appearance - why would WGs be an exception? And considering the intimacy of the transaction, your appearance is going to be even more decisive in determining the enthusiasm with which she goes about her work. Of course, if you don't give a shit how she reacts to you, it won't matter, but how many of us fall into that category.

honestly, i am one fat dude but I have always had the aww so cute treatment from WG, so its where you go and also what time you go.  if you go during rush hour, like after work , or after 9pm and girls know guys will be waiting, then your service might be rushed.

i personally dont think they give much of a crap about looks as money is money.....plus its like human interaction, how do you get to know them, u may look like Rain or Brad Pitt but if your facial expression is blank and you dont talk, then what do you expect?

fat or thin, tall or short....be yourself. and enjoy

Exactly, it's a human interaction, and the idea that a WG is going to DFK some 90-yr old, obese, pock-marked dude with the same enthusiasm that she'd tongue suck Brad Pitt is horseshit. The are services these girls have to provide and others that are performed at her discretion; at one end of the ugly scale you get the basics, at the other, you're far more likely to get something close to an enthusiastic fuck with all the options. I've had WGs tell me as much.

And I suppose you always believe what they tell you? Or maybe just when they tell you what you want to hear? But, oh yeah, isn't that part of their job? I truly cannot understand why anyone would even care what a WG says. Maybe it's true, maybe it's not, who knows? But if it makes you feel better, fine. But please don't make a fool of yourself by saying something must be true because a WG told you so.

Huh?! I'm not so naive as to believe something must be true simply because a WG, or anyone else for that matter, says so; that is not what I said in my previous post. You have to learn to read my friend -  but then when your only concern is to score points, it's easy to misunderstand what's actually being said.

Listen UnJake, like your old dad, you confuse your cherished half-ass ideas for wisdom. Seeing things differently from other people can derive from superior insight, or, as in your case, it can result from having your head so far up your ass you wouldn't know the truth if it offered to buy you lunch. The idea that a WG would fuck the ugliest guy in the world with the same enthusiasm that she would fuck a really handsome dude is so counter-intuitive, so contrary to human nature, that if you really thought that, the burden would be on you to explain why WGs are emotionally unlike every other human on the planet.

So instead of trying to score easy points by concentrating on the last 7 words in my post, why don't you deal with the substance of my argument as expressed in posts #15 and #17.

btw, you seem not only to have inherited Jake's ideas, but also his grudges.

[ Last edited by  Marsupial at 4-9-2009 12:34 ]

I think we shouldn't fool ourselves, looks does have an effect on the session. If WGs are attracted to you, then obviously the session would be better. That's not to say that for some WGs who are true pros they cannot provide a good session if they are not attracted to you, but if they can give you a good session if they are not attracted to you, you can imagine how much better it be if they actually were =)