Since there is in general little info on Japan mongering, I thought I would start my a thread gathering my not so extensive experience there. I hope guys find the info useful.  I want to give a bit of background info also.

First part, background info: non P4P japanese experience and some insights into difficulty of dating.

I have been into Japanese women since as long as I can remember.  I do love Japan and have travelled there lots.  
I have had the chance to have a long week end romantic experience with a Sapporo girl I met during a scuba trip in Thailand.  Eeventually I made way way to Sapporo for a visit.  She spent the week end with me (though not the full nights...).  We visitied her hometown close to Sapporo, went to eat + drink at izakayas and ended both days in bed at my hotel.  She was sweet, affectionate and definitely good in bed.  This is where I learned that all those high pitch screams and "iku iku" were totally real... Wow!!
Sadly, she felt uncomfortable and likely frustrated communicating so things died off-- this was about in 2012, so you can understand that AI translation was non existent.  

At about the same time, I met a really pretty and nice Tokyo girl, whose English was "much better".  She was an adventurous soul, loved to travel,  had had a gaijin boyfriend before, was single and seemed interested.  We met multiple times, went out, even went on a 3 day holiday to Kyoto together, sharing the same room... But eveytime I tried to get closer (like really close...) she would clam up.  Once I succesfully kissed her, she let me do a little, then said "chotto mate kudasai Hormone-san!"  (wait a little, Mr Hormone!).  The sudden use of "san" honorific with me made me understand that she was putting up a clear "polite" barrier between us and this would not progress.  Up to now we had been "kun" (for me) and "chan" for her, whihc is much friendlier ... Had I misread signals?  Was she hesitant because I did not live in Japan?  I clearly had real feelings for this girl and would have been ready to make a move into a real committed relationship then... But alas...

What I did subsequently learn (from other nippon contacts) was that it is totally possible IF YOU LIVE IN JAPAN to get a Japanese GF as a Gaijin.  Many Japanese girls actually seek out Gaijin... As long as you live there!!   But most Japanese girls will consider you as "not serious" if you don't live there.   There are also some girls who just want to have fun, go out to clubs especially in Roppongi area and are open to meet for fun some gaijin, but this is not my scene and my style (I am pathetic to meet strangers in a club...I suck at small talk, especially with language barriers...).  SO while I know this is doable, I have not tried.  Maybe also I am too old for this and the age difference would make it awkward, as opposed to a more P4P location like Pattaya/ BKK...

Next, my early experiences...

My experiences so far: most of these were between 2010 and 2015...
Japan has a lot of P4P options.  While many japanese marriages end up sexless shortly after marriage or after the 1st child, there is not shortage of opportunity for Japanese guys to get their rocks off...

Massage, pink salon (BJ places), delivery health, soapy establishment, meet-ups for compensation (often with a high school or university aged girl who only does this part time).  Some areas of Tokyo, Osaka, Fukuoka (and other cities) are very obviously offering this -- Tokyo has actually many red light districts.  
There are also some street walkers offering massage or even FS but many if most of them are not Japanese.  Talk to them 2 seconds and you hear the FIlipino accent or say something in Thai and you'll see...

In Tokyo, I have tried the pink salons once before. A pink Salon is basically a dark place where you get a BBBJ often TCIM on a kind of sofa... in public. The seats are arranged so you get no direct view on your neighbours.  It's darkish so hard to see details of neighbours also. But...  I was utterly disappointed. You walk up into the shop, can chose from not so accurate pictures or let them chose for you.  Choice of girl is restricted by being Gaijin.  Then sitting in a dark environment on some shitty sofa with a red light as the soul source of light… Being given a girl that I don't even find attractive… And having neighbours who are doing the same as I am… not my cup of tea. I could not even get hard let alone finish. Such a waste of money.

Another time, I've had a chance to have a very horny guy Japanese friend bring me to a soap land. This was better… although my choice of girl was also restricted because I'm a foreigner. Nonetheless, the girl was moderately cute and super nice so we enjoyed our time but it's not something I would repeat in that kind of condition.   Same as in Thailand, you get soaped up, wash, BJ in bath, then go lie down and more massage/ tease/ BJ and FS eventually.  Cannot remember the cost, but over $200 USD for sure.  I would have rated the girl as a 6-6.5/ 10.

Another time in Okinawa I also got to try a soap land, which this time was much more open to gaijin. (AMerican military base not so far makes for more Gaijin customers I guess).   Then, again, my choice of woman was restricted by my ethnicity… But she was a notch up from my first soap land experience.  She was more slim, a good performer, we did about the same routine as the previous soapy.  I had a good, but not cheap time.  But I would again rate the girl as a 6.5 / 10 ...

In Osaka is where I've had had my better experiences.  There is a small area, Tobita Shinchi, which is quite famous and more "freely" accepts foreigners (though it’s not the only one…).  Not all girls do Gaijins, but quite enough will smile, wink and call you so you get decent choice.  Many girls are pretty.   You walk on the street and… It's a little bit like Amsterdam… The girls are sitting inside an open space from a house that is open to the outdoors.  There is also the matron, who does the dealing.   But at least you can look at them in good light and they can see you and you can have some sort of interaction like in a fishbowl where the girl might smile at you in motion to you if she's interested in you. This way you can weed out the girls who don't want any foreigners.   You smile at them, say hi if you’re interested and approach her.  The mamasan will show you a price list, point what you want if you accept, pay up and go up with the girl to a room upstairs.
Officially these houses are "tea houses" (that's their licence...).   The girl usually starts by offering you some tea and a small snack.  There is no shower, she literally cleans you off with a hand towelette and you do the deed there.  It’s quite wham bam thank you ma’am.  But both times I went, the girls were cute, the ones who motioned to me were super open to foreigners, not scared about size and gave good « efficient » GFE.  If I remember correctly the price comes to about 1000Y per minute… yes!  That much… Worth a try.  Usually 15-20 minutes is the time limit!  If you overstay, you hear mamasan screaming something at the girl to remind her of her obligations...

Some people find Tobita Shinchi "weird" / dangerous looking.  Remember you are in Japan, in an area heavily controlled by the "powers that be" ...  You would be in trouble if you were drunk, misbehaving and trying to impose yourself or really overstay with a lady.  I am sure you would be "evacuated" outside the neighbourhood... But otherwise, I felt totally safe in that place.  Remember the yakuza have vested interest in everything being "safe and good for business".  They would lose a lot more if the area were full of physical agressions (even if all robberies) vs if the business runs smoothly...

Next up: my most recent fun times!  Delivery!!  To be continued soon enough...

Some contextual info on P4P in Japan.  A lot of the info might be known already to lots of guys, but I thought it could be useful to find as much info as possible in one thread... Feel free to skip this particular post if your reaction would be "meh, it's all been posted before..."

I tried to put in the Japanese words to help people search on the internet, as obviously searching in Japanese has a much higher yield for what you want!  
Of note, Twitter/ X is very popular in Japan as social media and you will find a lot of P4P announcements there.   When you use a translator for websites such as on Google Chrome, it's not bad, but Japan internet pages still contain many images (yeah like a real image pasted) with a lot of info, so the translator function cannot translate the text in the picture... Eech.  

You need to know that OFFICIALLY vaginal penetration is not permitted in Japan with sex providers.  So prostitution definition includes only vaginal sex between unacquainted people…  Oral, HJ, masturbation, rubbing are all allowed, not being considered prostitution....   
**Notice that in Thailand, the kappoo massage places (and many girls who work there part time) also play on that notion.  "I am not prostituting myself, because the guy does not penetrate me... "  Yeah, sure.
Soap lands have different loopholes and other places too.  This is why FS is commonly found in soaplands.  Remember that police and yakuza usually co-manage these areas and as long as everyone pays their dues and no scandal erupts, life goes on...

Most escorts who come to your hotel or whom you meet and then go to a love hotel work for a kind of shop called "Delivery Health".   Yes... THey deliver a healing massage, but no prostitution.

Most  delivery health shops (DH, or deribari heresu, デリバリーヘルス ) will mention « it is not legal to do vaginal intercourse » and they compensate for that with intercrural sex, called sumata (素股), where you rub your cock on the girl’s pussy or her buttocks, often while she is holding your cock in her hand to make sure it does not slip where it should not.  BUT (or should I say BUTT… ) anal sex is allowed!!  (Let’s not start a debate on how « logical » this is… ).  Obviously the BJ is BBBJ.  For sumata, it will depend on the shop and the girl.  From what I know some allow BB ("nama" or 生) sumata, while others will insist on condom.  Now, can you progress from nama sumata to BB penetration sex (生 ハメ or namahame) ?  Of course!!  I've read countless reports where the guy said that the girl spontaneously offered for a large sum (usually 10 000yen or more) full vaginal penetration or "nama" for another large sum...

The delivery health scene in Japan is probably the most easily accessed part of Japanese P4P.  Basically you call or visit a « store », pick a girl which they can send to your hotel or you can have her join you at a love hotel.  At times the girl will meet you at the shop and you go to the love hotel together, at times she meets you there.  The catch is most of the time either they pick the girl for you or you pick from a picture album, where photoshop is king…

Another particularity (not unusual in Asia) is that many places will have a local price and a foreigner price.  You can complain all that you want about it, but it's pretty useless to argue if they try to charge you the foreigner price and you're not happy.

If you look at the agency website (and ALL agencies are the same), there's Japanese prices and Gaijin prices. For example, 60 minutes would cost a Japanese person 22k Yen but would cost a Gaijin 30K yen… You also have to add strange fees which are admission fee and nomination fee. The latter means that you pick your girl otherwise you can have them pick a girl for you. an extra 2000 for each each fee… since I knew the cost would be high, I've been saving up for my little gal escapade….

NExt episode: my DH experience... with a Gal!!

First:  what's a Gal?  Pretty obviously it's a girl... Gal (in Japanese is actually "gyaru" or ギャル .   The world "girl" in English was adopted into Japanese, but it is pronounced Japanese style to make it compatible with their sounds: gy-a-ru ...  The Gyaru phenomenon started mid '90s with rather rich high school girls who would die their hair blond and go to tanning salons regularly.  They would up their high school skirts into mini-skirts and wear baggy high socks.
Eventually at about the same time, "compensated dating" known as enjo kosai (援助交際)  started between high school girls who would meed older men who fantasized on a young fresh teen/ late teen girl wearing her school uniform.
Not all gyaru were doing this, the majority of girls taking part in enjo kosai were not gyaru either... but the association nonetheless persisted.  And gyaru made their way into porn movies also...
Nowadays amongst some of the most famous gyaru in J-porn we would find Aika (who goes by this name in romaji), Erika Mocha (also goes by her romaji name) and Rumika.  An up and cummer is Rumina Sena...  

Back to my quest...

So since P4P prices are usually high in Japan, for what amounts to a super quickie, I was not intent on summate experiences… Now you can tell me that lots of girls doing sumata will offer full vaginal sex for the right price… True.  But some don’t and you can’t know in advance… FS is more the norm in soap lands, but Gaijin admission is also much more limited.
So I started doing some research for Tokyo DH stores.  There’s lots, but I wanted to find something « wow ». I found this shop, Galdeli (for Gal delivery) in Ikebukuro which specializes in black gals (black for tanned, not « African** »). Many of them are gaijin friendly, which is also natural as many Gals are more gaijin culture curious.  Actually, many of the shops in similar area have lots of girls that are also gaijin friendly!  

GalDeli website: https://galdeli-ikb.com/

I like Japanese porn, but in general, I'm not so crazy about the gals (gyaru or ギャル ).  But some of them I  find totally hot…. @ Galdeli I found two that are gaijin friendly and very much to my liking. One of them is actually an actual Japanese porn star: Rumina Sena (瀬那ルミナ) -- Rumina the one I was mentioning just above!
… and the other one well I guess she could be too an AV star, but I've never seen her in movies.  This is Ciara (シアラ)   (picture)
On her pictures, I thought that Ciara was totally cute… I love her eyes the way she looks at the camera… She also has a great butt and she does anal fuck (AF), which is to me a garbage of fucking for real.  According to her postings on Twitter, she seems to like it a lot…  
Ciara's X account: https://x.com/ciara___galdeli?lang=en

BTW Rumina also has an IG and  Twitter/ X account for the curious and numerous porn movies, some of the available without pixels... T
Rumina's IG account: https://www.instagram.com/senarumina/?hl=en
Rumina's X account: https://x.com/senarumina?lang=en

AND NOW THE MEETING!!  

So I had set my eyes on Ciara.  If you look at the agency website (and ALL DH / soapy agencies are the same), they put a schedule for the upcoming 7 days usually.  I thought I should make a booking in advance.  And save up... I was expecting about 50 000 yen for my encounter.  Far from cheap, but it was like a birthday gift to myself....
You can book by telephone or many also accept by LINE or by X.  Telegram is not very used in Japan.  Whatsapp is not so common either.  You can make reservations up to 3 days in advance in general at the most.  FYI I am unsure how most agencies accept or do NOT accept advanced bookings from Gaijin...

Ciara freely advertises herself on Twitter, posts her schedule sometimes in advance of the Galdeli website and states you can make reservations with her by DM.  As soon as I knew that my next trip to Japan was coming up in about a week, I sent her a DM and asked to make the reservation.  I had had a few exchanges with her in the past, so we already had an existing prior conversation.  Contact with her was easy, she is sweet enough, she speaks better English than a lot of Japanese and she's really trying to learn more.  She clearly has a thing for foreigners maybe more than for Japanese people.  
Eventually by reading her posts on X, which are explicit with pictures of her ass with a dildo in it, I also found out that she does Nama AF / 生AF … or basically BB AF (Nama =no skin… ).  It is restricted to "penises without STDs" as she posts.  She also posts regularly her results of STD testing so I decided that this would likely be my option, but I only booked AF. I asked if it was OK to decide "nama" on the day of our meeting?  "Yes, no problem, but it is a different price, you need to have the money".      Crazy maybe but once in a lifetime.  And as it turns out, I would be visiting her relatively shortly after her most recent testing.  Clearly in my eyes, she was a fantasy that I have been nurturing for a while…

Making my booking by DM, she was quite responsive, and even helped me to understand the system. I asked her a few questions and she generously answered while pointing out what would be to my advantage or disadvantage.  When I gave her my options requests, she quoted me the total price which turned out to be the same prices for Japanese people.  Was it because I was booking directly with her (she told me: no need send message to agency, you book with me, I will tell them).  I made sure to save this conversation and make screenshots of it in case I were to be charged the gaijin price at the office. I could at least try to negotiate some kind of rebate based on the Japanese honour system. (yeah.... sure...!! lol).
On the morning of the meeting she checked with me by DM that everything was still OK and we were still on.  Of course we're on!!  And my penis is STD free!!
I made my way to Ikebukuro ...

At the right time I made my way up to the GALDELI shop.  It's in an anonymous building, at the end of a blah corridor, elevateor up and barely a sign... Just go in.  Ciara had given me the address, but as Japanese addresses can be hard to find, I had also check on the Galdeli X account, they even posted a video of how to get there from the train station!!
I was greeted by 2 young, very polite, but obviously very yakuza guys.  I told them I was coming for my appointment with Chiara. They seemed quite aware of that, showed me a picture of her to make sure that we were talking about the same girl. They showed me the price to pay on a small calculator which my surprise was 2000 less than what Ciara had quoted me!   She had also warned me to pay cash, cheaper...

I had not yet picked a hotel so I asked the guy to recommend one, and he actually called a hotel to make sure they had some room and once this was confirmed they showed me on the map where it was, even put it on my google maps (with katakana). They asked me to give some Japanese name on arrival.  When I would have the room I was to message Ciara (on X) and sent her the room number then I would wait for her...  The hotel was <4 minutes away…  I paid the hotel room and as soon as I got to the room, I messaged Ciara with the number; within 5-7 minutes she was there.

Smiling and seemingly happy to meet me,  her face was very similar to what I could see from the pictures.  No disappointment there!  She was still very good looking to me.  She's a nice brown tan and has lots of tattoos, some bigger some smaller.   None of the tatts looked like your usual yakuza girl dragon/ japanese theme, it was more western style tattos.   She's actually slightly thick compared to many other Japanese women her age.  She has large hips and a small belly which would be considered normal/ thin in North America.  She goes to the gym a lot, which might explain a certain "cross fit" body type.  In a Soi 6 bar Pattaya nowadays she would be totally normal/ on the slimmer side... I did not take pics as it is extra $$...
It's hard to tell exactly how old she is given her style but I would say around mid 20s.

THE SEX:
She proceeded to the bathroom to "clean her ass" as she said; when she came back, she was in sexy underwear, we exchanged some nice kisses, and we moved to the shower together for her to clean me.  No shower play.  She just soaped up mini me who getting hard and she complimented me on my endowment.  We bowed in thanks to my father... 5555.
We moved to the bed where she started by giving me a nice slow, but delicious blowjob. She paid a lot of attention to my balls first, and then licking the shaft and then sucking onto the tip and sucking on everything.  From what I had seen in movies I was expecting this to go on for longer, and eventually to move to 69,  but after maybe four minutes, she told me it was my turn to pleasure her.   She laid down and so I obliged.  She was responsive and got wet.  I inserted some digits, and she seemed to like that a lot at some point I just continued fingering her and towered over her with my cock rubbing on her pussy.   She was quite receptive to that, and did not move away at all when the tip was close to the entrance. I continued playing with her like that, and eventually pushing my cock harder on her pussy and then proceeded to go into her (vagina).  She moaned a convincing « sugoi » and we proceeded to fuck that way, at times exchanging some LFK, at times, going harder, faster and slower to maintain control.  she then eventually requested doggy.  She has an amazing ass. I indulged in that doggy again with multiple changes of rhythm and intensity.  I was playing with a finger also in her ass. She then requested lying doggy, saying it was her favorite, because it goes in even deeper, so we did that next. She started fingering herself in the position with one hand, and holding onto the pillow with the other hand. At some point, she whispered something that suggested she had come. At this point, I was pounding her intensely. I was thinking of going into her ass and took out my cock and put it there but she squeezed her buttocks closed.  She said to wait a while… OK.  This service is unlimited waters, so… I can certainly do AF on 2nd shot!

So we've been actively fucking for maybe 15 minutes so I decided it was time to let go and release. I chose to come outside, on her butt cheeks… well all over her back actually…
Boy that was good!  After a few minutes, she got up and went to the bathroom and I joined her. She prepared a bath and rinsed herself off.  We both went into the bath, but the water was cold, and she did not seem intent on snuggling or starting some new escapades in there.
Everything was going smoothly and chill and we went back to the room drying ourselves up when her phone alarm rang and she said time is up!  Whaaaaat??  She had been with me for about an hour and five minutes. I said, but we still have 25 minutes… I'm still horny… I'm still so hungry for you… We did not do AF… But she was politely deflecting my objections.

I felt utterly disappointed and cheated. I did not feel like getting into an argument with her, not because she is so nice so cute… But remember the two yakuza guys at the office four minutes away? I don't need to have to make an appointment with a plastic surgeon to set my nose + face straight after some unpleasant "explanations" …
So, even though I hinted quite clearly, that we still had time, she slowly took her time to get dressed, and was unrelenting in her quest to leave.

In the end, after a few days of "cooling down" -- and a few days of amazing food + sake tasting indulgement !! Here is my take on it!

--> I did get to live a fantasy fuck with a hot gal chick that had driven my hormones up for the last six months.  Check!
--> The sex was actually very good... In any other case, I would not complain, as she is a pleasant girl, a sexy girl and well we were fucking for a while!  Check!
--> There were no issues of being "scammed" in any other aspect, which could have been plentyfull... I felt safe throughout the whole process... maybe a bit hesitant in the hallway to the elevator (see picture below... ) but otherwise, no issues at all...
--> But instead of getting unlimited shots, I was cut off at one while I'm sure I could've at least done another one if not, two.  
--> Would I repeat?  No, especially not when the total price is just below ¥60,000 including the hotel room and the nama option...   
--> Would I repeat... differently?   Without the nama option? (-10k)... Shorter time booking? (-5-10K)  And rent the room for only 2 hours (-2,5k) instead of 3?  Or get DH to my hotel instead?  And maybe try another agency which has lower rates?   Hmmm possibly yes, but not on this trip.  I did not want to risk further disappointment which would have totally killed the good feelings of the Ciara fuck!!

I believe from my research that I could get some anal fuck for about 30k yen as long as I take one hour only, and book a love hotel for a shorter stay.  I could get DH to my hotel (but either not pick the girl, or only pick from pictures) for <15-20K yen, but no garantee of penetration, though some girls will offer it for extra (hence back to the 20+k yen category).

All in all I am quite happy I got to meet + fuck Ciara, as this is what sustains us in life: living our dreams!!

I will likely add more info with more DH stores in similar area.  I just need time to do the posts...

[ Last edited by  hormone6969 at 15-3-2025 11:47 ]

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