What’s your guys’s go to before starting? Personally me I’m a honey packet a shooter of tequila type of guy, would love to hear what you guys do/take before going into it

Probably not exactly the answer you’re looking for, but a “pregame” nonetheless

If I know I’m going to punt in a few days, I’ll start by jerking one out once per night. This helps desensitize for stamina. I’ll get to the edge of ejaculation and back off, maybe once or twice.

I realize this might take away some sensation during the actual act, but I’d much prefer to last a little longer (especially for more expensive punts with hotel girls) than to feel overwhelmed and bust early. Unless it’s a multiple pop session with someone like Momoco, then I’ll just save up in that case But usually sessions are a single pop and I want to make the most of it.

During the morning of punting, I’ll shave my pubes and my face thoroughly. All the better if I’ve recently had a haircut. Grooming matters in all aspects of life and I feel this further comforts the girls. It shows you actually care about your appearance and are likely a clean person.

I’ll leave the house with cologne on my upper neck at the jaw bone — this area usually doesn’t get hit with water during the shower, so I can carry in that fragrance into the session. A few times, I’ve brought a small bottle of cologne with me to the punt and spritzed after the shower. Women love nice smelling guys. I’ve had a few WGs compliment my smell and I feel it unlocks a little more during the session.

I’ll also brush my teeth and rinse my mouth about an hour ahead of the punt. I’ll chew gum heading into the punt. I’ll refrain from eating heading into the punt. The girl can definitely taste that meal / smoke on your breath. Best to clean out the mouth if you’re expecting LFK/DFK.

I’ll eat about 2 hours ahead of the punt so the meal isn’t weighing me down. Nothing oily. This is a physical performance after all

I’ll also have light caffeine — like a green tea — just for a little added boost of energy without the jitters.

I used to vape THC before heading in but found I have hazy memories of the session and sometimes am a little slow during the deed. I want to remember my punts more now.

Not personally a fan of alcohol since it messes with REM sleep too much (focused on muscle gains!) but I’m sure it’s fun for those inclined. However it may put girls on guard if they think your mental faculties may be compromised. Some ads even actively refuse anyone on alcohol. The safer the girl feels, the more she’ll be willing to put out a passionate session. Something to consider!

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MANY excellent points that I share!
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"If I know I’m going to punt in a few days, I’ll start by jerking one out once per night."
YES. When going to see a new girl (don't know yet her drill), to avoid some ...uncontrol release, that is what I did a while before ...(needs time (I know how long ) to reload! I am not young)
With a new partner, running math calculations in your head to last longer, does not work well.


Alcohol:
I have been told (I walked to my room, but friends told me the score) that I could take down 17 Russian vodka (no mixture for me!) shots (no headache the next day) but LB cannot.
Bar girls: 2 shots + a Blow Job cocktail is ok for LB to perform. (Wanchai waitresses bring water bottles automatically. My babysitters are really adorable.)
More => underperformance in bed = Embarassing
(Walk-Up, if not going to bars, no alcohol...unless bringing a bottle of (cold) champagne to make a mess in their room at night)
If I know that the evening might be (not my will) alcohol loaded (I worked in finance!!) so before going, I take 2 bags of SMECTA (3 more in my pockets),
and at some point during the group party (before the rest) I feel uneasy => Bathroom + fingers in throat + throat up everything + take 1-2 SMECTA + a lot of water.
Has anybody taken down 2 Harry's Bar PETRIFIANT in 90s? You know what I mean.


"Grooming matters in all aspects of life and I feel this further comforts the girls. It shows you actually care about your appearance and are likely a clean person. "
yes, yes, yes. if you expect those girls to be only "ark'N Bang" then do not expect more! Do not even ask for any "GFE"!!!!
From my personal experience, GFE is not something that you BUY. It is something that you get awarded!
Lunches, dinners, movies (HK$0.00) with HK Walk-Up and Wanchai girls (talking about what I know) happened many times with MANY different girls!
Those girls are ladies, and even when there is another guy paying monthly HK$ for their kids, they are women and do really appreciate a shoulder to relax on.


Haircut:
Recent haircut = good news if going for bar girls because....AC in hotel is unreliable!! (get your own caps too! Never rely on hotels for that)


Perfurm / aftershave:
Never for me. Being married, I do not want to create suspicions.


Shaving:
Not working, I do not shave daily anymore. Lazy.
If planning for punting in the coming days, then (subject to time on D day),
I either wait for D day to perfect shave, or I do it 1 day before so that SO could not imagine seeing a mistress...unshaved!
The girl I see went ROFL when I told her why.  My tongue was blessed with full access to LS!!


Teeth - Mouth: 100% agreed.


Meal before: 100% agreed.


Coffee-Tea-Vaping: NOT for me. No need.


Anyway, the points raised by waterbottlebear are VERY USUEFUL!
We clearly share the same values!


His conclusion is FLAWLESS!
"the safer the girl feels, the more she’ll be willing to put out a passionate session."

@HK_Legend blessed by the legend himself! Thank you kind sir To say you’re an institution on these boards would be an understatement.

“GFE is not something that you BUY. It is something that you get awarded!”

Indeed! We expect these girls to give out the girlfriend experience but are we providing them any semblance of a “boyfriend experience” ?

“they are women and do really appreciate a shoulder to relax”

Such a salient point that I believe tends to get forgotten in the face of commerce. They are the fairer sex and as such deserve our respect and attention.

To know I’ve aligned with your values makes me a proud monger

@booby_lover

“To me these seems like to much preparation and defeats the point. Why not date if you go to this much trouble.”

I can see your perspective and empathise this degree of preparation isn’t for everyone.

I also date but oftentimes sex isn’t guaranteed at the end of the night (although you may be paying the same amount, if not more, in meals, drinks and event tickets that you pay for a single session with a WG )

I do this level of prep for WGs I want to see repeatedly and have a good “working relationship” with. These small investments into yourself compound over time when you see the same WG. It unlocks more initially and over time, and will often lead to me getting their WeChat or Line.

If you’re only interested in depositing your splooge for a single session and never seeing the girl again, then this level of prep isn’t necessary.

If you don’t expect GFE, then the level of prep isn’t necessary.

This level of prep is to stand out among the stinky, unshaven zombie bros and to elevate your personal standing with a WG you want to see again and again.

@waterbottlebear

Generally I'll present ok always but when i see a wg I usually make an effort to dress down and wear nothing expensive.

I do a few of the things you mention but it's always a me focus. Like shave my balls if I want them sucked or when I eat so I enjoy myself.

I find myself wanting less and less GFE nowdays and wanting more of the reason for my visit. I like a working relationship at time with the girls but more focused on performance and that side of things. i sometimes find as the GFE increases the PSE decreases but that's also partially my fault.

So now for me I put more effort into appearing as common and forgettable as possible. I still treat the girls fine and think once things start as long as you're clean and do treat them fine the session should flow well but most of my attention now goes to toys and outfits to guide the session than how I present.

Maybe my focus has changed over time. Maybe it's because I have a pretty good technique for building long term working relationships I crave the anonymity and excitement of the unknown more nowadays. I've got a regular to scratch most itches but seek something different and exciting.

I can understand you putting in more effort if your goals are different than mine but at first thought it seemed a lot of effort for a wg.

I try to look as common as possible and wear the simplest shirt, cheapest sweatpants, and wear the crappiest sneakers. I have to wear a mask, due to some incidents of people recognizing me (cons of doing this for so long). Before, I'd psyche myself up, looking at the mirror before I go out. Now it just turned into fatigued, foggy brain, and finding stress relief. If I'm not tired enough to force myself to go out, or too tired to bother getting up, I don't go. This is for 95% of scenarios, when I just want to bang.

BUT. If I know I'm gonna have a good time with someone I've met before, I actually just do more of the same lol. Instead, letting my children grow inside before I bust them out