Date & Time of Session: 7:00PM
Location:  Outcall at short-time hotel I got near MRT Phetkasem 48
Name:  S
Link: Asked me not to share her profile/Line
Nationality & Language: Thai, English is fairly basic
Age: 20
Face: 10/10
Body: 10/10 (perfect if you're into spinners like me)
Skill: 4/10
Service: 2/10
Price & Session Length: 1k baht for ST, ended up being about 30 min, her usual rate is 3k which I negotiated down
Repeat: Maybe if she keeps giving me 1k price, but would hope I can teach her better service

Not sure if a review like this is kosher or not since I can't really provide contact info as girl is really private, but I do provide a bit of insight on TF and am also looking for a bit of advice on how to proceed.

As a bit of background, I'm a guy who's studied and practiced a decent amount of tantric sex in my life, so I'm always on the lookout for girls who enjoy this style of sex.  Just think of it as GFE on steroids, although there is a bit more nuance than that.  I'm also early 40s, but can pass for younger, in decent shape, and decent looking.

I've tried a few girls for FS at the shops, and while it's an ok experience, I feel they always keep a slight bit of distance and it never quite fulfills what I'm looking for.  3k gets quoted a lot, rarely more, but it does happen, but also a surprising amount of pretty cute girls only quoting me 2k and a couple even 1500.  I wonder if the latter are prices b/c they think I'm ok looking or if it's the standard.

So I came up with the idea of putting a profile on ThaiFriendly and just straight up telling girls that I'm looking for a tantric sex partner, basically a FWB, and seeing if I have any luck.  Of course the freelancers will either mention it right away or bring it up after a few messages.  

Then there is a group that seems open to the idea, but then bring up the idea of "support", so it's possible they aren't even freelancers, but I get the impression that a lot of guys are going around just offering anyone money, so as a result, even the non-pros will often be looking for a bit of extra cash.

Finally, there are some who say they'll do it, and never bring up cash, although can be quite flaky.  

I have had some pretty good successes early on though.

A late 20s girl with a 6/10 face and 7/10 body liked the idea of tantric sex, but first wanted to meet up for coffee.  So we have a 30 minute coffee and she explains that we can have a trial sex session, and if we both like the idea, then we can continue, but that for the 2nd session on, she would be expecting "support".  Coffee went well, and I liked the girl, so I set up a meeting a couple nights later.  I go to her place for a couple hours, and have to say, it's probably the best lay I've ever had.  This girl fits the tantric archetype perfectly and was just so sweet thoughout.  I get to her small studio, she says she's gonna slip into a nightie and invites me to get under the covers of her bed with her where we cuddle, make out, and gently caress for a good 45 minutes.  For the PSE dudes, this probably sounds like shit haha, but for me, this is heaven on Earth.  

We're both worked up like crazy and she caps me and gently slides me in.  We just end up spending an hour of euphoria in missionary, never changing positions, never really going to fast either, just fully in the moment, feeling energy coming off her like crazy, soaking in every moan, every slight thrust of her pelvis against men, and every little kegel she performs with her tight LS, squeezing and stroking my LB in all the right places.  This was GFE+ and then some.

In the coming days, I'm hoping the inevitable message about "support" yields an offer that isn't too exorbitant, but...it never arrives.  She asks to meet up 4 days later and this time spend the night.  I get there at 10PM, leave at noon the next day, and we make love 4x, and each time it's phenomenal.  This time she gets on top at one point and proves to be equally as skillful on top of me as underneath.  She has a way of leaning back, creating a nice angle against LB, and rapidly rocking her pelvis until I'm flooded with pleasure.

We say our goodbyes, still no mention of support, and as of today we have our 3rd session planned for Friday.  I'm still half expecting her to mention support once her rent comes due or something, but I really hit the jackpot with this one.

Another somewhat success story was a pretty attractive ladyboy.  She's prob a 6/10 face, 6/10 body, and 10/10 cock (it's a pretty nice size for a Thai, and not too big, as I don't bottom much at all, but felt nice with her).  We went to a park for first date, hit it off nicely, made out in the park, and made plans for a 2nd meet a few days later.  2nd meet we have a meal together near her place in Nonthaburi, go back to her place, and have a nice 2 hour session together.  We are both versatile, but this time she only wanted to top, which works perfectly for me.  I'm not really sure if I'm considered bisexual, b/c I don't like guys and only really go after ladyboys that look really feminine, but I do like prostate play, so will happily oblige if a cute ladyboy wants to top.  

Beyond that, there were a few flakes.  One girl seemed like a sure thing, we were sexting a lot, she was enthused about receiving a tantric massage, and even sent a masturbation vid of her getting off to one of the pics I'd sent.  But then she got cold feet and just insta ghosted when we were finalizing a time to meet.  Oh well, can't win em all.

There were a couple other ladyboys who were down to meet, but I go a bit too worried b/c they wanted me to come over directly to their place, and I'm a bit worried about safety, so it makes me think they're just constantly inviting guys over, and maybe it's a bit more risk than I want to take.  At least in the shops, I think they might be more serious about testing, treatment, and safety.

A few other girls as leads, but it's proving to be a lot of work managing everyone.  The girls won't really put in any effort on their end, and even if enthused by the idea, won't really show it.  

My absolute favorite body type is petite spinners, girls who weigh around 45kg, and there are quite a few on TF, but they're often FLs or looking for something serious.

So this leads me back to the main girl for this thread.

I come across her profile and she's listed at ~150cm, ~40kg, and looks nice in her pics.  I pitch my idea about FWB and she seems somewhat receptive, but then brings up money being important, but without listing a price.

She says she's available later tonight and so I say, let's meet up, we can be tantric sex buddies and I'll pay you 1k each time we meet.  She laughs and says "you can't be serious" and says she's never accepted that price.  Then says her usual price is 3k.  At this point, 99.5% of the time, I'm sunk unless I meet her asking price, but this time I luck out.  I say something about it being a new experience for her and I'll take good care of her, plus 1k is better than nothing.  She comes back with "but you're on Sukhumvit and I'm near MRT terminal, I'll lose 600 just on Grab fees, are you covering that too?"  So, knowing I have her hooked, I tell her I'll get a short time hotel (which ended up costing only 400 baht) and will go to a station near her, she agrees.

I get out of the MRT and am expecting that she'll look a bit worse than her pics, but hoping she still looks pretty good, but holy fuck, she's super cute and a perfect spinner!  On top of that, the negotiations didn't seem to sour her mood as she was immediately super cute and playful, giggling a lot.  She would go into these little rants in Thai, with me understanding nothing and her laughing her fool head off.  So far so good.

I check into the hotel and then room.  It's basic, but will do.  We strip down and decide to shower together and she looks damn good with her clothes off and has very nice natural tits despite being so tiny.  Natural Bs with a nice teardrop shape.  Shower is ok, she's good at being playful and cutting any tension, but seems sexually inexperienced.  She does a few cutesy things like making a sexy face or wiggling her ass against my cock, but throughout the whole session, she doesn't give BJ, doesn't even really grab my cock at all, no catbath, nothing really.  She jumped in my lap and we embraced for a minute or two, but she would only allow very light kisses.

She hops down and I ask if she likes her pussy licked and she says yes.  I'm going slow, trying to get her worked up, but she seems a bit tense and only rewards me with super subtle moans, but don't think she was too into it.  She asks if I have condom and she's ready for me to enter.  She's pretty tight and does this move where she latches on tightly with her legs behind my ass and rocks her hips back and forth rapidly.  I suspect that this move would be the finishing point for a decent amount of her customers, and I think that's her goal her, but I can hold out, even though it feels quite nice.

I get her to calm down a bit then move into CAT position (coital alignment technique), basically just a way to try and align my pelvic bone so it's rubbing against her clit while in a missionary-like position.  I start going slowly, and now she's finally getting into it, moaning more heavily, allowing more kissing, and eventually even some french kissing.  Her neck is getting a bit red and flushed so I think she may have even gotten a mini O.  This position is fairly brief though and eventually a slide off, flip her on her stomach and plan to enter like this with my other hand reaching around and stroking her clit.  Again she seems to be into it, but at some point I slide out accidentally.  She kinda assumes I've finished, and then immediately says "shower?"  I didn't finish, but don't really press the issue any, as I wasn't super turned on by the fucking.  Initially I was, seeing her naked and showering, but she didn't really add much to turn me on besides just being so sexy and occasionally making hot faces at me.  

We leave, and she's holding my hand as we walk back to the MRT.  I surmise that she's enjoyed herself and kinda likes me.  5 minutes after our goodbyes she sends a nice to meet you text.

So I'm in a bit of a conundrum.  She's hot as fuck and my exact cup of tea, but the actual sex was not very good at all.  Now, I think if she's just inexperienced she might just think that making sure the guy gets off is the only goal.  Maybe she doesn't realize yet that there's so many ways she can add to the experience and make it a memorable.  OTOH, maybe she's just a clockwatcher and it's always gonna be her intent to get me in and out of these ASAP.

If it's the first thing, then I think I would like to see her again, if she'll honour the 1k baht price, and see if maybe I can teach her a bit on the way and up her sexual game.  If it's just an attitude issue, then it's unlikely that I'll get her to open up much at all on subsequent visits.  She's really young, and her account has only been on TF a month, so it's possible that she's just really new at this.  If she were 25+ with this performance, then I'd be far less hopeful.

So what say you forum?  Have you ever had an experience like this with a young working girl where the first visit was sorely lacking, but you got her to really up her game with each subsequent visit?  Any tips on how to get her to open up?

I'm thinking the next time I might set a more intimate mood.  Dim the lights a bit, put up on some erotic, slow music and maybe even give her a slow tantric rub down which might encourage her to take her time and not just rush through everything, let her recognize that you're allowed to take your time and enjoy the process.  

Thanks for reading, hope it wasn't too much of a drag, and happy mongering my friends

Shanghai, what do you mean by in deep?  For 1k, I think it's worth another shot to see if it improves at all.

Also, I feel a bit odd leaving a review but then giving no contact info for my bros, so I'll link to one of the girls who only quoted me 1.5k on TF (ymmv here) who I think looks pretty good and is a spinner build.  Would probably be my top choice if I book another FL.

https://www.thaifriendly.com/Noojenny1995

[ Last edited by  besco203 at 8-1-2025 23:47 ]

Yes, have had this experience. The key is enthusiastic practice. The sex does get better over time. The only problem is that the better sex might not fit the definition of tantric. The massage will defnitely help!

From the original post, the girl in the attacehd photo, is she the early 20s or late 20s girl?

OK thanks for sharing your experience.

Usually I'm after a heavy-GFE tantric like experience, but the young girl looks quite good, so if I can just get her to the point where the sex is average, that would probably be suitable.  It can be a bit difficult getting people into tantric style unless they're already a bit practiced in meditation or mindfulness practices, so I'm not expecting to work miracles there.

The photo is the younger girl.

The older one has a nice ass, but a bit plump in the belly and small, but nicely sensitive breasts.  She also can't compare facially, but is still fairly cute, and most importantly, amazing in the sack.

[ Last edited by  besco203 at 9-1-2025 20:22 ]

Cool! Tantric is something I plan to get more experience with. I have not had luck yet with achieving what I think is possible.

I hope to exchange notes with you once I have more runs on the board.

Appreciate the report. A little bit too much about other exploits, just put those in separate reports and link to them, but whatever.

For the main girl in question, one thing you might consider is, did the haggling affect the price? 3000 was probably a reach for her and a cash grab, but if you were at 1500 would that have encouraged a bit more effort. Not sure. Sounds like she might be newish and hearing about all the money other girls are making via Seeking, OnlyFans and overpaying guys, so it could be get him in, be nice and the get the cash.

Honestly, I don't think any young Thai girls are going to take less pay thinking of you helping them to learn tantric as professional development, so if you think you are doing her a favor on that end, you can probably drop that. Now, if the sex is really good, she might be more willing to take keep you on as a regular which would possibly later pay dividends, but there are so many guys willing to pay for sex in BKK, what is her incentive to stick with you at 1K if she can find 3-4 to pay 2K (which if she is really that hot, she will)?

reosq, good luck with it.  It can totally change your experience in the shops once you get really deep with it and will probably drastically change your view on sex.  For example, with the older girl, when we had sex 4x over about a 14 hour period, I only actually came during the very last session.  The other times I'm just kinda enjoying dry orgasm after dry orgasm with her and don't really feel the need to cum in the traditional sense.  The session just ends and I don't feel that drain of energy that comes with ejaculation, I kinda feel invigorated and a sense of euphoria.  In the shops, I find that I also crave a woman capable of giving an hour+ of pleasure, which can often be found at Analisa, Savanna, Royal, etc.

ramont, yah, I had thought about making a TF catchall thread discussing my techniques and experiences, but didn't quite think I had enough time put in there so it turned into the muddled mess you see here!

All good points, I don't think the tantric experience is winning me any points at all with this one, she must be getting offers galore and only seeing dollar signs.  I'm still wondering how/why she even agreed to the 1k in the first place.