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Reply #160 misspumpkin's post

Nope, not wrong at all.  But rare -- few people have the guts to do it, and society conditions us NOT to.

And like you, many of us here have chosen to do exactly what we like, live the life we like -- even if many others would judge us harshly and critically.
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Is it wrong to be open? I mean to actually hold up your scars, your mistakes,those skeletons. To actually say this is the worst of me. to hope in childish excitement that there are a few that see thro ...

Miss P,

I must say that my initial assessment was wrong about you.  I must say now that I've read more of your public persona, I appreciate your outside-the-box view on life.  In short, I like your verve.  You go girl.

JS2M out.

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Nope, not wrong at all.  But rare -- few people have the guts to do it, and society conditions us NOT to.

And like you, many of us here have chosen to do exactly what we like, live the life we like -- even if many others would judge us harshly and critically.

Sigh yes your correct Mr Wander, I'm finding it harder and harder to be true to ones self. Seems I just offend by being true...

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Reply #163 misspumpkin's post

You're in good company here missP

there's not a ... um ... "person" here who isn't doing something they would get harshly judged for by many if not the majority of their social circle, if that social circle ever found out.  With very real consequences of rejection, loss of assets, income, and for some even the threat of violence in some form.  

And yet, we do all share a certain freedom - that freedom that can only be gained after having reclaimed a part of ourselves that we hid away precisely because in our childhood we learned to survive by avoiding criticism and punishment from those around us.  

Being true to ourselves and our choices, and still respectful to others and their choices, is a challenge for sure.  But a worthwhile one, and one that can only be done by setting a courageous example.

Hang in there girl.  You're winning respect by standing up for yourself respectfully but without compromise.  You're in the company of a lot of dicks here ... but you knew that already

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It's funny. I was in a hotel spa in Singapore yesterday, and a bunch of younger guys were talking in the hot tub about the Macau sauna scene. As I walked closer, they all shut up and looked at me as if to wonder if I had overheard what they said.

I told them "don't worry bros, I was there yesterday", and the ice was broken. We had a nice chat about the ins and outs of Macau, and I learned from them about the places they'd been - Jakarta in particular ("Alexis Hotel" was recommended to me).

Anyway, this really illustrates the point: probably 5% of us do it, and the other 95% would be horrified, frightened, or even offended.

Gherk

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You're in good company here missP

there's not a ... um ... "person" here who isn't doing something they would get harshly judged for by many if not the majority of their social circle, if  ...

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Anyway, this really illustrates the point: probably 5% of us do it, and the other 95% would be horrified, frightened, or even offended.

Let me fix your post:

Anyway, this really illustrates the point: probably 5% of us do it, and the other 15% would be horrified, frightened, or even offended and 80% wish they had the balls to do it.

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Nicely done, but let me further improve it:

Anyway, this really illustrates the point: probably 5% of us do it, 15% would be horrified, frightened, or even offended and 80% would pretend to be horrified while secretly wishing they had the balls to do it!

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Originally posted by dooper at 5-4-2013 02:34 PM


Let me fix your post:

Anyway, this really illustrates the point: probably 5% of us do it, and the other 15% would be horrified, frightened, or even offended and 80% wish they had the balls to do it ...


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Wow... ...look what happens when you take a bit of a break ... 141 goes and gets all interesting!

One thing that MissP said:

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Yes I do get clients from all streams that ask me to wear a particular style of lingerie or costume even have one that
asked me to wear his wife's perfume .

A Very Smart Pooner!

But just imagine if all of us did it.  Your 'fuckbox' walkup room would smell like a department store
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HMMMM

I think this one is Photo shopped


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penpal

ummmmm yea I'm not really the pen pal type.I think my ads are clear that Im not looking for penpals.


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homer168   9-4-2013 22:01  Acceptance  +1   he likes video games? he has got a candy crush on you ;-)
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noooooooo

noooooooo thanks, i think hes worse than the car trunk clown.


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Reply #171 misspumpkin's post

he must be nuts to think a girl would trust him to just walk in and incapacitate her ... and any pro would be nuts to allow a new client to do so ... ... especially with someone who is clearly an unprepared and clueless newbie, way too dangerous

Interestingly, one of my GFs (I think it was #3) opened straight out with a rape fantasy that SHE had ... she wanted me to take her against her resistance (and yes, she told me all about safewords, so she'd clearly been thinking about it for a while).  

We never actually did it, guess I was too inexperienced with girls at the time, too shy

where was I?  Oh yes ...
just to make the comment ... if he wants a rape fantasy, he should find a girl who already wants to play one out, and get to know her.

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introduce your former GF ... LOL  ...

... except that she is now in Vegas, in her 50s, and her perspectives have probably moved on a long way

but she does still long for my kiss ... she taught me well




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Reply #171 misspumpkin's post

He says he is not violent, but he wants to put a mask in your head.   Like Petay, opening up with his rape fantasy is bound to give a bad first impression.  
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noooooooo thanks, i think hes worse than the car trunk clown.

my god the level of spelling, is this for real?
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Reply #171 misspumpkin's post

Miss P ... have you been hitting the gym!?!  

Your latest pics look awesome

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are you talking about Cl or image fap

CL

not been checking image fap




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Made me look!! Hehe

And yeah... those pics are pretty revealing, and she is mighty sexy.  Ya know, the first time I saw her Tat shots I wasnt overly keen... (I am not a tattoo guy) but I see they are a little more subtle then I first thought.

Anyway, our Miss would certainly be on my list.  

Good luck to her. I havent seen her post in a while and hope she's doing well.
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hey missP,

if you don't mind me asking, how can a random stranger, such as myself, get in touch to book a session with you?

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introduce your former GF ... LOL  

I know where she is and how to contact her

But she's now in her 50s!!!  




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