Thanks to DaBestHK for posting a photo of Kary. He posted in my ZeTeng thread, so you need to go there.

posting it here too...

One thing I have learned from the many posts is that most WGs in HK are not local HK people (PRC or SEAsian or fro even further afield). Am I reading this correctly, that most 141 WGs are Mandarin speaking PRC women on temporary visas? So Kary, being born & raised in HK is in a minority? The reason I ask is:  what does this reveal about Kary? Is she going to feel isolated working amongst Mandarin-speaking WGs. Is this yet another reason for her wanting an exit strategy. additional Q: what other exit strategies are there? I mean do some just one not show up for work anymore? Do they become Madams? What second careers do washed-up, beyond -their-best-before-date (as one poster so sensitively called her) WGs go to when they've decided to hang up their ... (I don't know what they would hang up.) ?

So DaBestHK: you've seen Kary's photo. You know much more about this than me. How would you characterize her? I don't know what the different types are, but she said she worked alone, independently by simply renting an apartment. She stays there & does not go out. So is she subjected to protection payments to Triads? I know for a fact she 41 or 42 (now). Is she typical? Is she exceptional, & if so what can I learn from this (that she has not been willing to tell me).

I don't think any bro here can answer what you're asking ... looking at her pic and you want a characterization ? ... I don't think so !

By looking at your other threads, you're obviously looking into anyway possible in trying to "help" her  -  but have you considered that maybe she doesn't need your "help" ? ...  except for the fact that she needs to find a good man to hook on to now that she's getting on in age !  doing your homework is fine but maybe you'll need to know her a lot better before you know the right questions to ask ... what I see is you are going through your phase of puppy love !

every girl's situation is different and no one here can answer your questions !

You sound like a journalist... or a college kid doing some field research.  Just say so, bro!  No need to beat around the bush.  We're all anonymous here.

Darn it all!!! You're either so skilled in the ways of the Internet...or totally clueless!!  

God, please forgive me for my moments of weakness - but I'll go along with the possibility that you really ARE clueless - and herewith answers that can be answered.

Not that much "isolation" - as its quite likely that she's in a building/ amongst other "local" WG's as that's just the way things are in Hong Kong where TRADITIONALLY, genuine local and HK Identity Card holders usually work out of buildings where other such HKID card holders operate out of.  Just a safer environment as locations/buildings with gals working in breach of their condition of stay in HKG are likelier to be raided for such breaches.

And you'd be surprised at the number of MILF's still going on strong in HKG - I guess there IS a market for them somewhere, somehow?! LOL!  But I'd think that patronage would not be all that high and as such, I've seen these MILF's just sitting around chit-chatting whilst waiting for some business....and I'd guess one topic of conversation would be the sorry state of their affairs...and them thanking God for the Gweilo69's of this world!!

Payment to Triads? well.... I'd rather concentrate on the legal payments that they usually incur in their business. a. Rent - which can be quite err... HIGH...depending on which building, which organization in control of it and of course the perceived desireablity of such location. b. Supplies like Laundered towels, condoms, Toilet paper (they use lots of this - and mebbe only have 1 box of actual facial tissues!!). c. "DB Listing fees" on website such as ours. d. Photography, photoshopping fees etc.
and of course their own day to day living supplies.

OK - enough from me - time for you to display some more of your clueless innocence!!  LMAO

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 8-1-2012 13:12 ]

Sorry Gweilo, but once the suspicion starts it is hard to break - and then you follow it up with a post with a ton of generic "how does prostitution work in HK" questions.  You DO seem like a journalist.

PS: I forgot to add:  if so.., pls go away.

[ Last edited by  wander at 8-1-2012 13:57 ]

I keep getting asked for more responses (as well as being asked to go away) so: I'm neither a journalist nor skilled in the ways of the Internet nor completely clueless (IMHO). guys keep saying it's pointless, my Qs can't be answered & then in the next posts I learn some new & interesting points --which I could not have learned anywhere else.  So I'll just continue to ignore your unfounded suspicions & post that it's probably true that she is a MILF whose expenses (rent, etc.) are going up while her income is going down. As she's getting older, she sees the writing on the wall & is thinking about what next? So my question is now: what do MILFs who are making  less & less take home $ do as an exit strategy? Do they all try to find older men to take care of them as kept women? Is this a tradition? Is this just standard operating proceedure --in which case should I be even more suspicious of her "love" for me? I wish there were a guidebook which WGs all follow,  then I could flip to the last chapter & learn how it ends. I'm guessing you guys have had thread discussions about thefirst chapter (how young girls get into the Game), well my Q is about the other side of the story. Most of us have jobs where retirement & pensions are the end. Not for WGs. They must be thinking that with their level od education & type of job experience --then once they retire that's it. They are NOT going to be able to generate much income for the rest of their lives. So at a certain age (42?) they must start to be thinking about their lives from the age of 42 to 80s --which is a long time.

I was just looking at the website linked to a posted threat called "Maybe Photoshop & makeup aren't that bad" (thanks for this, bro). I recommend it, & it made me realize that I know Kary entirely when she has no makeup on. She's not wearing any in the photo posts above. So I can only imagine how she would present herself when she's working --or how she would appear in a photoshoped picture on a website. Could be that none of us (including me) would recognize her. This may be intentional, as Kary is very careful that no one in her family knows about her work. Her friends are all WGs. For this reason, perhaps it is correct that you guys will not be able to recognize her & give me some useful specific  intel. Nevertheless, the general info I've learned here has indeed been helpful. So again, thanks.

I was just looking at the website linked to a posted threat called "Maybe Photoshop & makeup aren't that bad" (thanks for this, bro). I recommend it, & it made me realize that I know Kary entirely when she has no makeup on. She's not wearing any in the photo posts above. So I can only imagine how she would present herself when she's working --or how she would appear in a photoshoped picture on a website. Could be that none of us (including me) would recognize her. This may be intentional, as Kary is very careful that no one in her family knows about her work. Her friends are all WGs. For this reason, perhaps it is correct that you guys will not be able to recognize her & give me some useful specific  intel. Nevertheless, the general info I've learned here has indeed been helpful. So again, thanks.

I've been thinking if this thread should be closed for a couple of day now ... your questions are getting nowhere so I'm putting in my last words ...

There are no books on how to understand women for idiots, there are no books on how to understand WGs (in HK) for idiots and there certainly are no books on guys with an infatuation for a WG in HK for idiots !!!

If you want to continue with your obsession for her, then please go right ahead, if you're worried then you should worry, if all these unknowns are always circling around your head then hire a private detective and have her tailed, if you still have all the 'ifs' then come to HK and sit on her door step - make a count of all her clients, if she has anyone coming to her to pick up money etc etc

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