If you really must resurrect these ancient threads, try at least to say something original.

bro jake,

sometimes you know.. love is blind! so if there is enough love it might just work.. but in life nowadays..just unfortunately it's just about money money and money.........

sadly that is. don't know what to say..!

but u know, so many girls out there..just shag and go..!

no strings attached..!

I'm sure Jake has been waiting around for 2 years to hear what you had to say in response to his Sept 2007 post - if he's still alive that is.

Date a 141!  Honestly, if you think about your ex-gf, they all want to latch onto you so they don't have to work.  You fell me?  So many bitches in Hong Kong, Singapore, and Malaysia who just stop working once they find a man.  What's the different?  It's the same same.  

Except with a 141, you know she will suck yo' dick!  I hope he went for it and had a 141 for a gf!

Also, you ever think what she thinks about dating a guy who is a john?  seriously, if she is cool with you being a punter then it's all good.  You can invite her along sometime.

And when you are at home and she is "tired" and don't want to fuck, like so many ex-gfs, you just pay her and be like "okay, git to work!"

Dating a 141 seems like a very good situation.  I hope the bro married her and now has stories to share with us.

[ Last edited by  jchow88888 at 19-9-2015 17:52 ]

With respect, I don't feel comfortable with your sexist tone. If you have not written in such broken English, I almost thought Donald Trump has just visited our forum.
I for one have met many working girls who are interesting, cultural and well educated. There is really no need to insult them - and women in general. I love women and this comes with respect and appreciation. You may think your money goes a long way but my experience is courtesy will get you even further.
Zebra

Post # 63 , posted on 27 - 7 - 2009 :


its been 6 years since that post !  why on earth are you doing digging this up ???

and if you didn't know (please read forum guidelines)  we do not allow posting reports of GFs in this forum !

Don't think this is a good idea.  keep things separate

I thought there was a shelf life to threads - like after X months it is automatically locked.

Did not see the this thread back in the day but an interesting read...

Only in the reports sections …

Agree with all the posts above.  There is no right or wrong. Everyone has their own opinion shaped by their experiences. It's difficult and dangerous to generalise particularly because we don't know the girl. Based on a lot of bros' experiences it seems like a typical scenario where she's in it for the money.  

Life is short though. YOLO is how I've been living life.  Who is to say the girl that you meet at a social gathering or the colleague that you have feelings for isn't likewise in it for the money.  Once again it is probably innate in humanity to associate WGs as deceitful girls because they're in this business.  However circumstances are different for everyone and most of them wouldn't be doing it if they had a choice.

I once discussed with a WG about being a WG.  She said the hardest part was making the decision to be a WG. The second hardest part was opening the door for the first punter. She also said that for her and her friends it was difficult to stop after that as it was the quickest way of making money.  She would separate her job from love and affection as doing so otherwise  would be treading a fine line.

We focus so much on how we think of them. I remember I asked her how she thought of punters. She saw punters as dishonest and unfaithful men. Someone that cannot be relied on as a spouse. Especially those already with a gf or a wife. This gives them insecurity if they were to settle down with one.  This perspective is useful for punters to step back into reality and view the punt as an ordinary commercial transaction.

So what some of us think of WGs is the same as how they think of us punters.  There are obviously exceptions to the rule but it is probably fair to say the majority of us view it as a commercial transaction.

The only way for the author of this thread to find out is to try the relationship and see where it takes him.  Just remember to exercise caution and be prepared that things may not work out as you had hoped.

But the problem then becomes at what stage am I able to put down the heavy burden on my shoulders of suspecting possible insecurity of the WG being unfaithful or may be in it for my money. At what stage can I put complete  trust in her? It really makes the relationship brittle if you are on the constant verge of suspicion. Alternatively if I believe in her should just believe in her from the start? Truth is no one knows.

I'm sorry for creating more problems than answers.  I'm also not in any position to give any advice but just thought that I might share my thoughts with my bros.

Hope that everyone turns out well.

Totally agree with you, and very good points for us to think. I have a girl told me the same feeling about the punters too. Maybe the most important, but hardest, point of this kind relationship is building a mutual trust...

I've never dated a 141 girl but encountered similiar situations with girls in VN. I would take them home from their jobs(in vn they are not straight up hookers but they aren't the nicest of girls either).  They all say theyve' fallen for me, request me to take them back to US, tell me sob story. So I would recommend to be cautious.

I just left HK and a WG that i'd date.  There's no way in hell I'd get in a long term relationship but it's always better to NOT pay for sex for someone that you really like AND love fucking the hell out of...  my two cents.

I heard that VN girls usually had a big and extended family that you also need to feed if you are in a relationship with them....