I think u should start focusing on anything else, dont think about that "guilty" again,
coz when we make love with WGs, we r already guilty.

If u imagine a sex scene in your favorite porno movies, i think it will help u to come faster.

I only feel guilty when with CIM.

You raise an excellent point Ramont--I do like BJs (and HJs) but a big part of why it is so hard for me to finish probably comes from my own masturbation experience.  I think my body is used to a certain kind of speed/stimulation and most girls can't replicate it (or keep it up, because it has to be pretty high-speed).

CIM is great if the girl wants to do it for you...

having her spit it out after and clear her throat chinese style...it makes you kinda guilty yeah

I would feel guilty only if she's going on and on and I can't cum.  I feel bad for the girl.  Ironically, the more guilty I feel, the less able I can cum.  Guilt breaks my concentration.

I'm lucky...I can cum easily with BBBJ.  There was only one time I couldn't, and that was when I was in Pattaya.  The poor girl looked so guilty too as if she did something wrong.  I had to assure her that it wasn't her.

Here are my tips on being better able to cum with BBBJ:

- Have her drink hot water.  It enhances the sensation.
- She should not just go up and down, but make a bit of a swirl.
- While BBBJing, she needs to do something with her tongue.  I know it's hard to request this though.
- I found out that sometimes, I need to visualize something very perverted in order to cum
- Have her play with your balls while she's giving the BJ (or play with them yourself)

[ Last edited by  furryfriend at 27-8-2011 13:19 ]

No guilt, as it is part of their job. Nowadays, those who do not do BJ will be less marketable. Most times I prefer BJ to FJ, as there is more sensation, especially with WG, some of them are already so loose that there is no feeling. This recent trip, I had a covered CIM, I felt is was just as good as bbbj, the condom these days are so thin that I get just as good a sensation, also cleaner and safer.

yea, I am the same. That's why you should build up a week or two's worth and allow yourself to get real sensitive!!

Guilt from receiving a BJi have paid for - I can't see that happening any time soon. I feel annoyed if I don't get a satisfactory BJ when I have paid over my hard earned cash. Mostly what I feel when getting a BJ is pretty damn good!
The only thing that could cause me guilt would be forcing a WG to do something she didn't want to do and I would not do that under any circumstance. If in doubt I ask before committing to a punt (where language barriers do not prevent) and go elsewhere if I don't think there will be a mutually satisfying transaction.
Always interested in hearing how guys are concerned with making their WG cum, never been my thing - probably just a selfish bastard - but if she wants an orgasm she can pay me!  Mind you, when overniting I work harder to satisfy to create a better environment but, if I'm honest, it is about my pleasure not hers.
My underlying view it that he/she who pays the money is the one to be satisfied. If you want guilt get married or become a Catholic.

[ Last edited by  halfclover at 30-8-2011 15:35 ]

maybe we should be feeling more guilty about the big picture and how we are sinning and all going to hell!!

Hi bro hkm,
read ur post.

Ok get a 15-20 minute BJ is nice and quit long (in this clock watching fucking sessions).
"I wonder if she's getting tired?"
In no bible stud how long a BJ must last.

"I know I'm not going to come anytime soon"
That is ok.
Linking not ur brain with a Bj and a command: "I must cum now."

Why you not tell her to stop?
Like: thx darling now i like to fuck u a little bit"

U do not must cum.
Fuck her ur way until u cum.
Hj by ur self is ok too.
I think it gives some parallels, same like position changings.
If ur feeling unconfortable in some positions, u change.
same it is with a bj.

Ok for WGs it is there main goal to jerk ur off (some as soon as possible)
If u cum in 5 minutes they will love u as an easy customer.
I am not an easy customer.
Made it clear before what u like.

clear before a programm like 20 Minute BJ, 20 minute 69 and /or Fucking, and 20 Minute final Bj for cum.
If u not can cum by her Bj, then Hj by ur self and cum on her face or some other bros mention here: CIM
i am not talking about girlfriend-sex.
U use a WG for ur sexual desires, but
no feel guilty bro, about that.

[ Last edited by  inbkk at 1-9-2011 01:43 ]

no need to feel guilty as long as you paid, and maybe tips  

I actually never feel guilty.

I love bj so it doesn't take me a long time to blow if its a good bj and bad ones I just tell them to stop.

a silmutaneous prostate rub will do the trick. And if she does it right and kind of 'milks' the prostate, you'll get a mind exploding orgasm

I assume you're referring to the external prostate rub technique?  This truly is a wonder   However an internal/anal probe prostate rub is more of an acquired taste . . . and I ain't acquired it yet!

Hey, I had that feeling for a while, but soon came to terms with myself.  Strictly business. No love, no gilt.

Was refering to an internal rub. If the girl knows how to do it right its truely amazing

how can u be guilty? lol..
the prostate massage is teh trick. but i haven't experieenced.  it's written by a lot thogh.

wow, never loved BJ?     i love it, shame i don't get enough of it.  

just the pussy don't do it for me.

Totally agree furryfriend.  Sounds just like me.  For this reason I have never been all that impressed with a BJ.  

Now on the other hand (or on the other mouth) I can't stop DATY with a beauty.  And I will gladly spend the majority of time trying to get her off with my mouth.  

But the other bros definitely have some good advice given here:  prostate rub, drinking hot water, etc.  These must be tried.

Bro, I love BBBJs that end up in , though not as much as doing it in between the heavenly gates. Here's my two bits from my experience, so far. I have cum only once with a WG, but with a GF, it was a different story. I did feel massively guilty with the GF, especially as she would get down on me when she was having her periods and it would take her a good bit of time to get me to blow my load. I told her about it as well and suggested, it's ok not to carry on. But she loved to BBBJ me and finally I ended up moving over the guilt by focussing on the sheer pleasure of it. IMHO the pleasure is differently and better derived from the vertical lips, until the time, I had a short stint with a civvie. Oh man, she loved my LB. And her technique was par excellence. She made me in less than 3 mins and I was far far away from DSB at that point of time, more like driving on fumes! Then I realised that it was her technique, because it happened multiple times during that short four months. Somehow, she repeatedly managed to touch the right spots, at the right time, with the right amount of tongue, with the right amount of eye contact. I have never had a repeat of that pleasure so far, but I believe there is some babe out there, who will be equally talented. Time based guilt is a heavy sedative, but with the right flute player,   will never be a consideration