Well after reading all of this I thought I would trow a different perspective into the mix.
First I think there are a lot of different reasons we are punters. Some of us are single, have girl friends, or are married. For some this is something they do once a year, for others it might be some thing they do multiple times a month, so I think it's hard to lump us all into on category.
Having said all that here's my reality! I am a pig! I love women! I love sex! The only problem with this scenario is I am happily married and I have no intention of ever leaving my wife. Yes we have sex, yes it's still good and exciting, but the intimacy does fade with children in the house etc... I concede that I probably have an over active libido, but many of us here might fall into that category. I believe that punting over the past 4 or 5 years has probably saved my marriage. YES, SAVED IT! As I pointed out before, I am a pig! I love women! I love sex! Here in Japan there are tons of beautiful girls to hook up with, date, and get into all sorts of trouble with, and like a cat and yarn, I can help but chase it. I figure getting into relationships to satisfy my manly desires is a lot more dangerous than a quick hook up. An hour or two with a WG is what it is... SEX! There's no phone calls, emails, and/or dating. I don't have to hide my phone, or my email, or try to balance multiple relationships. I will try for a freebie every once in a while, but considering that I can get it easily through a WG, I usually don't put much effort into it.
I'm going to cheat and lust after women, it's who I am. WGs allow me to do it without getting romantically involved and they limit the amount of risk to whats really important in my life... My family.
I don't know if you can wrap your head around that, but it's my reality!
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