ok well. i read some of the posts, some got too long and i diverted my attention to guitar hero 3: legends of rock on my xbox 360. Tho in reponse to the original post. This is a business for them. imagine yourself running a business. And say your a gigolo..well what do you need to accomplish to get your payment? 1) tell the female that she looks hot even though she might not be. 2) Compliment on her figure 3) make her feel great 4) seal the deal usually. It's like running a restaurant.. you want to please the customer in any way. ex. beers on me.. or take 15 percent off from the check.. u know?? how do you want to please ur customer, so they will return back for more? Trust me.. i used to manage a club.. and u think what incentive(s) or things would you or have to do to get their return business. Whether it's free drinks on the house.. vip rooms.. etc...So, in consideration to most of these girls here.. even tho i have met one and had a really-dont wanna remember experience.. just think of it.. they are here to make dough.. and make sure u have a good time. too bad the prices there don't exist in the USA. (((Sigh))

Marsupial, you have got to chill here.  i guess you took my post as an insult.  it was merely a tongue in cheek, poking on you kinda humor.

  damn, i really don't see what's wrong with my logic.  so u're saying WG should never engage in any relationship unless its paid for?  to me, that's just extremely sad.  what i try to inject in these WG's with great effort is that thee's more to life than money.  i know you're going to say that money is important to them.  yes, no shit man!  but if u live with them long enough you know that they do indeed get more money than the average.  heck, some ppl live in HK with 7-9K a month, why can't they?  going off-topic, alot of these girls work extremely hard and they complain about life and how hard it is to make money, yet they make zero to no effort in saving this money for more civilised activities.  they go blow out their weekly income on a night's drinking with gigilo in shen zhen.  they go to macau for the weekend and find that not only did they use up their savings for the week, they are also in debt from borrowing.  many play mahjong during non-work hours, so what they earn in the day becomes a loss.  sorry for drifting away, but what i try to do during our relationship is expose to other activities besides, drinking, smoking, drugs, shopping for designer handbags and gambling, that there's simple joys in life.  sometimes take them to hiking, tennis, badminton, running, video games (you're going to laugh, but my girl loved it so much she made me buy an X-box 360 for my home).  naive to say, i can say i've enriched and expanded their horizons.  no longer do they have to spend 10K in the weekends and nights just to find that slight joy in their lives, they could do stuff which costs less yet brings a more intrinsic joy to them.

  my point being?  i might not bring money to the table (well, in fact i kinda do cause i buy them make-up, clothes and once a handbag, as well as their daily food (quality food, not the ones they buy from the phone at $35 a meal).  so what's so bad about a WG having a genuine relationship and letting them have a genuine loving experience in which they never could find even though their jobs involve servicing 40 or more men per week?

  sorry, but i gotta knock some sense in you.  i know WG's are all about money, but can't we make a postive influence in them?  i know i have at least...

I'm with you bro. If I were single [and 2 or 3 decades younger ], I'd like to take some of these gals out and show them
aspects of a life that they've probably never seen. It can only have a positive influence on their lives. Keep it up bro.   

There are WGs who really desere a better life than this. Some who are kind and loving but yet have to be in this trade to earn a living for the family or some unforseen circumstances.


However, there is a Chinese saying "Same human being, different life path".
There are things we cant; change........we are only human and not Saint.....

But your intention is noble and I fell you bro....Salute to you.

No. I'm not saying that WG's shouldn't have boyfriends. And my post had NOTHING to do with money. I'm saying guys shouldn't be jerking the WGs around just to get free sex. That fucking someone over for free pussy is not "having a positive influence" on them. That if all you want is pussy, then pay for it and let the girls walk away with a little self-respect.

But I seem to have misunderstood you. Thank you for knocking some sense into me. I get so discouraged from all the posts from guys not as selfless and considerate as you. But you certainly are a complex guy sexysax!

First you seemed an uncertain bro distrustful of all the compliments the whores were paying you; tho you knew in your heart that they were just conning you into repeat business.

Then you were giving advice of how to sweet-talk the girls into a little free sex.

But it turns out that the real sexysax is just a kind-hearted guy whose only concern is enriching the poor girls lives, expanding their horizons, teaching them that there is more to life than money and gigolos, dragging them away from gambling and drugs to walks in the country, badminton, and wholesome meals. All this philanthropy because of genuine concern for the poor girl -  (and maybe a little free GF sex from as many as you can work into your busy social-worker's schedule). I think it's great that you let the girls think they've found a real boyfriend in you, even if it's only until the job is done and you can move on to the next girl in need of salvation. And when you've gently, kindly told them it's over, I'm sure a few will even go back to school, get that degree, and make something of themselves! And when their kids ask about their mother's past, she tell them the story of sexysax., the guy who cared!

But I see you have no illusions about your motives and that is good. Know thyself, I always say. And I thought you concentrated on WG's just because they were easy prey! Boy did I misjudge you! Keep up the good work bro.

damn, i'm not sure why u have to give such attitude.  sure i wanted some free puss just like any man out there.  i just don't like the notion of services through payment.  i do it through other means of trade such as buying gifts, good meals, exposing them to other activities, etc.  not saying i'm the second jesus for the millinieum trying to save all WG's.  just trying to live a god life at the same time giving them a good life aside from their perceive notion of it (drugs, gigolos, gambling, etc).

i guess u're trying to say i'm being pretenious here.  i have no intention to impress anyone here.  this is the internet and most of u are guys, and i ain't gay.  in fact i don't even put up a front in front of girls.  just give it to them straight up and they appreciate it cause they don't see it nowadays anymore especially in their field of work.  but then, enough of that, cause i guess being skeptical is part of you.  its cool...u continue with ur fun while i continue with mine.  i personally find it MUCH for satisfying having a good conversation with a girl, maybe even taking them out and banging them for a good hour at the end instead of the mechanical strip, shower, lick nipple, CBJ, girl on top, mish, shower, pay, bye bye.  to each their own i guess.

I went through that period once, thinking that giving gifts to girls and taking them out
to places where they've never been would be good for them .... I went through that
with a few girls, and believe me, it ONLY worked for the first few months, eventually
boiling down to hard cash .... it happened with each and every one of them !
They have to think about their future and they can't live on gifts alone, so
unless you're prepaired to marry them it WILL come down to money sooner
or later !

that's true.  the WG's friends in the same field do the same.  i hear stories from my girls on that.  i can't see why some of the folks are so lonely the pay women to pretend they love them.  its sad.  some even buy the woman flats in shen zhen and end up being dump.

  i guess i've been lucky so far.  two of the gals i met have not asked for much except for one asking for LV handbag on the 5th month while the current one could care less.  took her to a trip though, but it was fun for both of us.

damn.. LV bags wot a rip-off... or did she want the one from lady street

fairplay bro.... just keep doing what you enjoying doing, cant complain if ya having fun right!... just be weary and make sure you dont fall into any traps ;) ...

do these gurls still work btw?...