Got that right!  So just go for it and stop second guessing yourself, that goes for you too sik.

too many stories of banging girl from china, immigrate to US/Canada, have baby, then disappears. not sure if worth the paranoia and stress

Yea, so true. Just some words of wisdom to fellow bros out there. There are also many cases whereby upon marrying a girl from China, she will start bringing and migrating her family members over one at a time from China, and now instead of just marrying and financially supporting the girl you married, you have to financially support her entire side of the family as well. A bro will marrying the girl and her family, literally.

Of course, not all China girls are like that. Just some cases that I've heard. No disrespect though.

Sometimes it is hard to really differentiate between a WG and a regular girl you meet in a bar or night club.  Seems they are all after $$.  The WG is just more honest about it.  I agree with some of the other posters who suggest that coming from a poor background limits choices.  I believe all women deep down like knowing they are fuckable.  Sex is just Sex.. it is meant to be enjoyed.  Still too much stigma and double standards of WG.

Bro don't ever get into a relationship with a WG. 9 out of 10 times she's after your money, and the remaining 1 time, she might actually like you but the difference between you two will end up being disastrous. Bro find yourself a real decent gf.

This is common with most Asian cultures which includes China, Taiwan, Indonesia, Vietnam, India, Thailand, Philippines, Korea, Japan, and others, etc.  If the girls can, they would at least try to bring over a family member esp if that person(s) is her elderly parents.  If you don't want her to bring over her family, then how about you moving over to her hometown and so she can help take care of her parents.

This happens alot with foreigners bringing China girls to their countries.  If you happen to sit on top of the social/financial totem pole, then you will have less of a chance she will leave you.  If like most bros here are just ordinary joes, there is risk she will meet other guys who are higher up the totem pole and leave you.

I think you have a point.

I used to guess that some of the foreigners who marry thai WGs (sorry, I always go back to them) and have encountered these unfortunate situations, seem to have sexed up their financial situation when they met the girls. Sometimes playing the 2 weeks millionnaire during their holidays in Thailand, thus misleading the girls to believe they're well off. Once the girls go to their husbands countries to live with them. They realise, there's a gap with the lifestyle they were expecting and the one the guys are living. Some decide to head back home after a while, others just stay in the foreign country trying to live a better own their own or to find a better off guy.

Sometimes, when I see those Thai WGs on UK escort agencies websites, I just wonder if they are girls who married some British dudes then, when they broke up because of the unexpected lifestyle, chose to start again their old job in UK.

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What is most interesting about those marriages that fail because wifey leaves hubby once she moves to his home country or gets citizenship is that more often than not, these guys do not treat dating these Asian girls to the same standards they would to dating girls at their home countries.  It is an universal concern of guys everywhere to find a potential wife who is not materialistic or gold-digger, is not a nag, respects him, loves him sincerely, is down-to-earth, is great in bed, etc.   

If these guys took the time (at least a few years) to date these girls in her home country, they would eventually find out if she is the right girl or not and save themselves any potential hassles.  If they wait until after quickie marriage and she is over at his country to figure her out, then he is basically gambling with his time and money.  These guys really think they are 'God's gift to women' and that these girls will stick with them always and give them awesome sex 24/7.  

Of course you can say, these guys don't have time to come over to Asia to work and live so they can find an Asian wife.  But if they don't spend the time in her home country to understand her friends, family, extended family, and culture, then he will have to bear the high risk.  If he really wants an Asian wife, I would suggest he go looking for those who are available already in his country so he can properly spend the time dating her.   

Here in HK, alot of my friends and I have SO who want us to stay in HK forever if we can.  In fact one way for us to screen out the gold-diggers/passport hunters from the crowd of single women is to tell them that we are willing to stay in HK forever and live together in a small 600-700 sq ft flat in a middle-class district and not buy a car.  

Also to let you know, because of the culture here to 'give face and keep face', ppl here are really good at hiding their true feelings until they can trust you.  One really has to date an Asian girl at least a year before she is comfortable enough to drop her 'public face' in front of you so you can get to really know her.  Time-consuming I know, but worth it.

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If a WG would like to have a serious relationship with mongers like us, then she must be dumb .

But if mongers like us would like to have a serious relationship with WG, then it must be dumber

Yes, people can change, but don't bet on it. I remembered  sentences that my friend told me "if you want to drink milk, just go to convenience store and buy one. Why bother to raise a cow if you just want to drink milk?"

lol..
some civilian girls get fucked by more men than WGs.
worse still, these girls get banged bareback!

that depends on the status of the monger..
any WG who doesn't like to have a serious relationship with a rich monger is plain dumb.

The discussion here seems to be about the women.
What about us? What condition are we to be in a relationship?
Some (MANY!) of us are in relationships; still we monger around. After getting used to this new girl, will we return to our old ways?
For me it's as much a game as sex only. A game and a desire to collect.
How can we judge the girls anymore than we should judge ourselves?
For sure, if youre gonna make a relationship of anything, jump both feet in. Don't lead anyone on, whether it be paid sex or just plain cheating.

I have seriously thought about being with one of the regular girls i've seen, but how would that work out? No matter how hot she is and how much fun we have, I can't get over the fact that she is a wg and that's what she's paid to do is to look hot and allow us to have fun. A relationship will be different because then you wouldn't really be a customer, so she doesn't have to put up with your shit. It's easy to fall in love especially with a young hot wg but don't take it to serious cause someone is going to get hurt, its all fun and games. I can easily fall in love, but that defeats the purpose of why I'm with a wg in the first place. I there just to relax and get pamper with sexual favors. Just some time away from the real world, but if I fell in love then it will be something real and something I will have to devote time to. Unlike a 1hr appointment this will be a serious 24/7 kinda thing. Blah watever I better stop yapping.

Yeah, there are a lot of questions and much of what has been said here has been very one-side. Would we be willing to give up our mongering activities in favour of just the one ex-WG?
Many WGs have regular relationships with customers they've met here or on the Mainland and meet up professional from time to time and even as friends from time to time.
The temptation to make a buck while the so-called boyfriend isn't around might always be there. After all, he might be out mongering and also he'll never know if the gal has just one more punt. And so it goes on and on. Can both sides really remain faithful to each other?
I think from the man's side its safer to just control emotions and have a relationship that kight result in the occasional free or less expensive fuck and from the gal's side it can be nice to have a regular who is like a friend rather than just a customer but there must also be a certain amount of honesty in not leading each other on in the hope or beliefe that there is anything else on offer.
I recently became quite friendly with a WG who worked here in Hong Kong and I hate thinking of her being shagged by other guys, but then I have also been out screwing other WGs since she reyurned to her home province and technically it could work the other way around too.
I'm not prepared to give up very much in exchange for an exclusive arrangement with this WG and she has financial obligations that I couldn't possibly afford to take over in exchange for such exclusivity so we're both best off just being occasional fuck buddies with a special relationship.
I sometimes take her out and make her feel like a 'normal' gal and she sometimes makes love to me, as opposed to servicing a client and its a win-win situation as long as neither of us gets carried away and falls in love. That's where the danger starts and ships start to sink.

sup ppl
i actually have a goal which is to marry one of these wgs and hope to spend my life with her. can any1 tell me my chances?
im from uk, bbc and 20yrs 0lddddddddddddddd
peace out.

Your chances are very very high then unless you have no money. Passport will get you dating, money will stop you dating if you have too little. But why? You really want to be stirring someone elses congee all your life? .

Dont think theres anything wrong having a relationship with a WG. Even in 'normal' relationships there could be some financial interest from the girl. Do think you need to be extra careful, and don't be too surprised if it all goes tits up.

Personally, don't think I could have a relationship with a WG, not even had the slightest of a feeling towards them. When I get in that room I think I'm a pornstar. But I won't say it'll never happen, just not searching.

The thing that i learned from those girls are they surely good at lying. They lie to their parents, their friends, their lover, and sometimes they don't realize that they're lying. I can't imagine any relationship happens with someone you can't trust. It's just a fantasy, not reality.

It may not just be money they are after either, I was seeing a Korean WL on the side, and she didn't ever ask me for money (not straight up anyway) so I thought it was a casual NSA fling. We went out for dinner a couple of times and she came back to my place several times for sex, I wasn't really that interested but she was a good fuck, but that was far as it went , or so i thought. After a couple of months I was contacted by an immigration lawyer, who informed my that she was applying for residency and would i confirm that she was my girl friend.  Well I told him the truth, and then I immediateely cut off all contact with her, although she still tried to contact me via phone, email etc. She is now back in Korea but is still sending me emails, like "I'm coming back soon and I want to see you" but I know now she just wants me so she can stay her. Well fuck her!