Subject: Are Freebies in CP etc really fair game?
SEAJ (***Call me Sean Sweet Swede***)
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Post at 7-1-2010 14:07  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #40 TheButler's post

LOL!!  Yes, this is true too.

But I still go along with buying some little trinkets or another - when it costs so little in China and it does make for a more enjoyable "engagement."

It's when they start talking about Nokias or dragging you to window shop at a some jewelry shop that I just gently tell 'em to get stuffed!

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Post at 8-1-2010 01:03  Profile P.M. 
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Getting a freebie through lies is despicable, IMHO, but mongering is a business like every other.  Actually, it is more dangerous because of the level of intimacy between traders.  You proceed with the transactions as your morals allow.  And, like business, greed often leads to bad consequences.

If a WG falls for a cheating mongerer, it's technically her fault.  Yes, she may be innocent and naive to do so, but after working in the industry, i doubt you can survive without wising up.  I'm sure we've all been ripped off before.

However, she may try to cheat mongerers in return.  And not all mongerers are worldly and educated.

It becomes a vicious cycle there is less and less trust in the industry, but the dilema lies in the fact that if we want more security, we may have to give up certain freedoms.  Personally, I quite like GFE's and going on dates with WG's here and there (all payed for).

Anyway, cheating your way to a freebie is like conning someone.  And it will come full circle back to you.

End rant.

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Post at 8-1-2010 04:25  Profile P.M. 
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So it seems we all agree that lying is wrong to get a freebie. Heck, with any type of girl, working or not, its not right.

There is definitely a better feeling when no money is involved. Say, whether you go on a date, a dinner, or just a hotel. It just proves that you are both enjoying it for the sake of enjoyment, and its not a cold business transaction. So, freebies do feel better I think.

The irony of this all is quite funny - part of a WG's job description is to flirt, tease, suggest, and entice a man that she really wants to get it on because he's so handsome, special, masculine, strong, etc - which essentially are all lies.

And here we are questioning the morality of it from the man's side, but its accepted as ok from the woman's side.

Think about that......
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Post at 8-1-2010 09:39  Profile P.M. 
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Reply #43 bonkers89's post

And I'll muddy the waters a bit more....

It's NOT only WG's that does what you suggest - there ARE suppossedly regular gals that do the same when hunting their quarry.  

The sweet dynamics of man/woman relationships!!

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