OK, I misunderstood what was written.  It's only on the Member's profile that was stopped.

phew ...   I thought something's gong wrong in the system !  

Shit I messed up !          

I gave As instead of Ks for the contest winners - now I need to find somewhere to award the Ks in the reports section !!!

so ... the four of you got extra As as a bonus   

Just give them 1500 'A's.  It would be an A bomb!

guys, haven't found a good solution to award the Ks so I will ask our Adim to do so asap

I check in quite often for the reports but I rarely write. I tell a lot of bullshit stories IRL and this is where I come up with the material.

Just a heads up that Moasis has posted a really good report on the Polish scene in ROTW.  Well worth a look!

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... mp;page=1#pid452352

Hi guys, instead of starting a new thread, I might as well post here.

Speaking of the informative Polish scene, I do have a thing for white girls so will definitely go there. This vanilla fever of mine is kind of annoying at times. It reduces the size of my dating pool in Asia， and makes me pick for sup par service pricier talent. Still haven't tried the hotel walk ins, but the Macau saunas were decent. I dated one before, and it didnt turn out well in the end but the trimmed bush and less hang up with sex revolutionized my sex life. My white friends were not impressed with her looks. I know, it's cheesy and there are definitely ladies of all nationalities that can play ball.

But for me dating them and going out with them is harder than a Chinese or asian girl. There's a language barrier - my "A game" is not English, dating/power dynamics, and I'm not as tall as other guys. So I don't fit into their normal parameters to be with, doesn't mean it's impossible I just have to throw myself out in the field more. Sometimes, the prospects are just too much work for too few returns. A lot of friend zoned and uninterested with the western women here in Hong Kong oh well. It's actually easier in Shenzhen, Beijing and Shanghai but I'm in the south.

Probably will spend some money on free lancer Megan （with report of course), but meeting a cute nerdy white girl who plays video games and is interested in Chinese food/culture is like jack pot for me. I can only dream, but I'm happy enough nowadays. Even my awesome SO gave me that OK to go casually 141 (I cheated in my life and I don't want to do it again). But she ain't white.

Why can't I just be happy with Chinese girls and be done with it instead of going after the exotics

Asian Fever in reverse, huh?  

Bound to be a few Bro's out there with this condition.  Methinks it is nowhere near as common as Asian Fever, however.

I think you're last sentence (last word) is what has you hooked at the moment.  "Exotic".  Or at least these white girls are exotic to you...  (I am a gweilo myself, so a white chick is about as exotic as bread).  You've given yourself a challenge, however.., not a ton of hot, single, available, white gals in Asian.  Why not relocate to europe or ammerica for a while?

sounds to me you have a success-formula right there bro!

Set up a search pattern: Hang out in video-game places, until you see a cute white girl, walk up and say "Say, what's your favourite Chinese food?"

If she has one, you're in
and if not, continue your search

If you wait for fish to come to you, you may never catch one.  You find and catch them by casting where they are feeding.  

What have you got to lose?

A thread made by a guy here whose wife suspected him of seeing WGs made me think about this topic. Below are some random thoughts I had as well as from my own experience about keeping your hobby secret. My rules are 1.) Don't be stupid; 2.) Don't leave a trail; and 3.) Don't get caught.

- Don't shit where you eat. Women talk and many have a network of eyes and ears to know what their husbands and boyfriends are up to. If you live in Causeway then just forget about the walkups and HGs there because you don't want any friends or family to see you. Also know that you might not know all of your SO's friends, even though they might recognize you.

- Never use your PC at home to check sites like Sex141. This is rule #2. You never know when you may slip up like forgetting to clear the browser history and cookies. And even if you do clear them, your SO may find it suspicious that your PC never saves any history when most other people's PCs and web browsers do. My gf has her own PC so this makes my life a little easier.

- Don't save anything to your personal phone or computer. A lot of us like to have trophies, e.g., photos of girls, and this is a huge mistake if anyone other than yourself can access it. I email photos to myself to a secondary email address use just for this and then delete them from my phone. I do this ASAP after I leave the WG's room.

- I create fake names for WGs in my address book. Actually, this breaks rule #2 so I can't really recommend it. Always assume that your wife can and will go through your phone. You only want stuff on it that you're not afraid of her learning about. Also realize that even if you have codenames for everything she can just show it to someone else to try to decrypt.

- Use a second, hobby-only phone. If your employer gives you a work phone, then buy the same one and make it your hobbying phone. Your wife needs to see you carrying and using your work phone so that she gets used to seeing it with you. Then you can make the crazy attempt to hide your hobby phone in plain sight.

- Use drop boxes. I don't know if you can do this in Hong Kong, but in some parts of the world you can rent a mailbox for real mail to be delivered to. Obviously you're not going to be sending mail to it, but you can use it as storage for your favourite condoms, cialis or cologne. This way your "tools" will never have to be in the house.

- Plan far ahead. If you see a WG during the day and then at night have sex with the wife, she's going to ask why you had so little cum from orgasm. Trust me, women can tell and they'll ask. If she knows that you're a chronic masturbator then that can explain things. But you're not a masturbator. You just need her to believe this and that your balls are always out of spunk because you can't control your masturbation habit.

- Use scented soaps and body washes. Use the same ones that women use. That floral and sometimes fruit scented kind. If the WG uses a scented soap then this is easier to mask because you use the same at home.

- If you see WGs after work then make it a habit of getting home late from work often. You want to get your wife accustomed to the routine that you often work late at the office. This requires some long term planning as well as wasting a lot of your own time if you finish work at 5pm but want the wife to think that you finish at 7pm.

- Use condoms. The last thing you want to bring home to the wife is an STI. At that point the game is over.

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One time I copied a directory from my camera's SD card to a computer.  I always copy onto my computer and then delete the pictures on the SD card that I don't want my SO to see. Pictures like girls, business cards, locations, etc.

I went on a trip with a SO and took some pictures and afterwards, she wanted them.
While going thru the copied pictures on the computer with the SO, a picture of a girl in a hotel room popped up.  I am 100%
sure I deleted the picture on my camera. I quickly deleted it on the computer. I am NOT sure if she saw it or not because I
wasn't facing at her. She didn't saw a word.

I went back to my camera looking for the picture and it's not there. I have a strange feeling, when copying files from a
camera's SD card to a computer, it can UNDELETE files.

Now I use a completely different SD card.

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I was watching a new crime drama last night called 'Line of duty'. In it the main character is having an affair with a woman called Jackie Laverty, but when she calls him on his mobile it shows the name Jack Laverty. I thought that's an excellent subterfuge for anyone here worried about a SO perusing phone contacts.

All well and true but sooner or later if we keep doing this "Hobby" we will come close to being caught out... Touch wood it has not happened to me yet but I have came close a couple of times... I.e. a sms I forgot about & my ex SO used to go through my phone.

A couple of friends have been caught out in the past couple of years, one is now single & the other was forgiven.

One small comment for the iphone users. I have an 2 iphones and an ipad. They are on the same apple id.... If you have the same be very careful. Some apps downloaded will be synchronised on all devices (warch out for the "uh what is this chat app u installed") and be very careful with anything that is linked to cloud computing (i blocked it, anyway think this is useless).
A have in addition an android phone because of this. This has two advantages: a) my SO has no clue of how it works b) no risk of having some cloud issues.

Yeah... frickn watch out for that GPS feature if you have an Apple household!!  If enabled your wife can track you on her Ipad while you're groping a gal in Wanchai instead of at a business dinner in Soho like you told her.  

Bros... everybody ALWAYS gets caught if the wifey wants to start digging.  Be careful.

Yeah me & a couple of friends had an app called 'Find Friends' - it would give your fricken EXACT address!

Once got a message off a friend: "Dude why are you in Tsuen Wan?"

Yeah have to be very careful of the digital trails we leave behind...

Aww... Grow a backbone...  Alcohol induced courage ahead...

Cerventes:
May I set the stage? I shall impersonate a man....

DON QUIXOTE :
Oh thou bleak and unbearable world,
Thou art base and debauched as can be;
And a knight with his banners all bravely unfurled
Now hurls down his gauntlet to thee!
I am I, Don Quixote,
The Lord of La Mancha, þ
My destiny calls and I go,
And the wild winds of fortune
Will carry me onward,
Oh whithersoever they blow.

You are a man.  Call who you wish...

making a trip to CP and am planning for some bros who want to try some new places... I remember there was a site I looked at before from an agent in CP with various hotel prices and the discounts they can get you.... anyone have any info on this stuff?

Thanks!!