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blast77 Throbbing Titan UID 51432 Digest Posts 0 Credits 4454 Posts 316 Karma 4422 Acceptance 636 Reading Access 70 Registered 8-9-2010 Status Offline

#21 Post at 9-11-2017 15:12  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I newbie at SA,  and i have yet to have an encounter, but as i will be soon away from home for a work trip, i want to try and i prepare for It. My main issue is privacy, I don't want to reveal my identity to girls, but was asked to, as well as real pics. (no pics in my profile,  even private ) i think i will follow bros advice to put blurred pics. I respond to the demand, i reply they could see me in real when we meet firstly outside (bar, Coffee,..) But it seems real pics are for most girls a requirement. For those in ongoing relationship (wife, S.O), do you conceal your status? Other question about narrowing searches, excluding the   many the obvious GPS and GD girls, is better to go for fresh registered girls or those in already for a bit of time ? Recent Ratings jeffzeke   10-11-2017 13:07   Acceptance   +8   better to disclose your marital status up front. For some it's no biggie. ♬Ain't asking you for nuthin' I'm just giving up somethin' If you got the price If you the price yeah yeah Street walking woman Street walking  woooman"♬

jake.houston Master Mongerer UID 93098 Digest Posts 0 Credits 6884 Posts 610 Karma 6748 Acceptance 2715 Reading Access 80 Registered 21-7-2012 Location USA Status Offline

#22 Post at 10-11-2017 05:49  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I would upload pics but not have a main profile pic. If you like a girl then give her access to your private photos. If that is too much risk you may be in the wrong game. If you give a girl photo access and she doesn’t respond in 24hrs, I’ll then remove the photo access and block her and move on. I search for recently active and recently joined. I’ve had luck with all kinds, regardless of tenure on the site. Recent Ratings blast77   10-11-2017 11:05   Acceptance   +6   Thanks, will think about it “I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural, wholesome things that money can buy.” ― Steve Martin

aurufc Forum Moderator UID 111346 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3187 Posts 408 Karma 3081 Acceptance 2126 Reading Access 150 Registered 11-11-2013 Status Offline

#23 Post at 10-11-2017 11:15  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #21 blast77's post I have an old partial face pic which only really shows 1 eye as profile pic and a couple of non-descript private ones whihc, similar to Jake, I only share after a couple of chats.  i also go back and remove access if not moving forward. In my experience you do have to share photos before a meet and having some private photos on SA gets more responses Recent Ratings blast77   10-11-2017 16:38   Acceptance   +6   Thanks all y'all for your precious insight jeffzeke   10-11-2017 13:08   Acceptance   +8   completely agree, girls like to see what you look like as well.

jeffzeke Section Moderator UID 158404 Digest Posts 0 Credits 12610 Posts 547 Karma 12427 Acceptance 3654 Reading Access 120 Registered 11-10-2016 Status Offline

#24 Post at 10-11-2017 13:10  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #20 jeffzeke's post @ Macau81  I will be heading to TPE soon and will report back any good finds from SA.

aurufc Forum Moderator UID 111346 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3187 Posts 408 Karma 3081 Acceptance 2126 Reading Access 150 Registered 11-11-2013 Status Offline

#25 Post at 10-11-2017 13:38  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #24 jeffzeke's post posted this on other thread so apologies but starting to get to details with some HK girls. Haven't used SA in HK in over 2 years so can any bros share current rates they are experiencing? Cheers, Au

VictorDelta Nookie Newbie UID 221266 Digest Posts 0 Credits 1 Posts 5 Karma 0 Acceptance 26 Reading Access 10 Registered 15-11-2017 Location West Coast Status Offline

#26 Post at 15-11-2017 06:52  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Question about Sugaring So I'm a long time lurker and a 1st time poster.  I'm think that sugaring will be the way to go but need to run things through with some of the more experienced SD here.  Let's say you're using SA in your home base, how do you handle logistics after the m&g go well?  Do you let your SB know up front that you prefer her to host?  Also, I'm reading the reddit on SA, and it's concerning that you have SD offering private jets, first class flights and 5 star hotels.  I'm just hoping that the SB don't have these types of expectations from more modest SD.  All responses are appreciated. Recent Ratings Macau81   15-11-2017 20:14   Acceptance   +1   Had a look on reddit and it's a great place to learn about SA.

ramont Fucking Legend UID 26912 Digest Posts 0 Credits 14331 Posts 2263 Karma 14172 Acceptance 3189 Reading Access 100 Registered 27-6-2009 Location HK Status Offline

#27 Post at 15-11-2017 08:33  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #26 VictorDelta's post I think most SB would be okay with you hosting as long as your place isn't a dump or extremely isolated/inconvenient. Private jets are NOT the norm. You can weed out some of that junk by doing due diligence on your initial search through profiles. Women that list Substantial or High as their lifestyle expectations are more likely to want that crap. If they talk about being spoiled or other key words, beware. But if any SB has outrageous financial compensation as an expectation, she is either: spoiled, delusional or a professional and probably not worth your time and effort anyway. Pick another one and move on.

jeffzeke Section Moderator UID 158404 Digest Posts 0 Credits 12610 Posts 547 Karma 12427 Acceptance 3654 Reading Access 120 Registered 11-10-2016 Status Offline

#28 Post at 21-11-2017 09:35  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #26 VictorDelta's post I agree with ramont's comments above.  Do not worry about SB's expectations if they are outrageous.  Just move on to the next candidate.  The ratio of SB to SD is at least 5 to 1, maybe closer to 10 to 1.   The ratio is in your favor.   Just ask yourself, are there more good-looking young ladies who need $$ or are there more guys who have enough $$ to afford them? Not every girl is available to host, so I would either find a cheap hotel room or host yourself, after you meet them and feel comfortable.

liveabroad9 Lustful Lord UID 179024 Digest Posts 0 Credits 726 Posts 61 Karma 715 Acceptance 223 Reading Access 40 Registered 13-2-2017 Location China Status Offline

#29 Post at 21-11-2017 20:44  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L BANNED: So, after only a month (less 4 days), my account has been permanently banned. I don't *think* I said anything overtly sexual, in direct messages. But they stated the reason as solicitation. Surprising, and not, that they would go to this extreme with paying members. What do they expect, for real?

aurufc Forum Moderator UID 111346 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3187 Posts 408 Karma 3081 Acceptance 2126 Reading Access 150 Registered 11-11-2013 Status Offline

#30 Post at 21-11-2017 23:33  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #29 liveabroad9's post @liveabroad Did you move onto other messaging apps or just keep chatting sorting details/offers etc on SA? After 2 or 3 exchanges in SA (some which include some details but vague at best) I am always on wechat, line etc

jetsetting2much (Tally-ho!) Throbbing Titan UID 86214 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3734 Posts 574 Karma 3677 Acceptance 1143 Reading Access 70 Registered 13-3-2012 Location usually 30,000 ft Status Offline

#31 Post at 22-11-2017 02:58  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L I got away with a 24-hour slap on the wrist for using the term "per meet" (or variation thereof)--even though that term was taught to me and used by the girls on SA!.  See this thread. Since then, I've been very careful to chat only generalities on SA--and quickly, if theres any online rapport, move to Whatsapp or Wechat. Recent Ratings sirtiger   22-11-2017 03:01   Acceptance   +1   Favorable

jetsetting2much (Tally-ho!) Throbbing Titan UID 86214 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3734 Posts 574 Karma 3677 Acceptance 1143 Reading Access 70 Registered 13-3-2012 Location usually 30,000 ft Status Offline

#32 Post at 23-11-2017 02:34  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L QUOTE: Originally posted by liveabroad9 at 21-11-2017 20:44 BANNED: So, after only a month (less 4 days), my account has been permanently banned. I don't *think* I said anything overtly sexual, in direct messages. But they stated the reason as solicitation. ... SA only takes action if they receive complaints.  Something liveabroad9 you said, in multiple communications, generated multiple complaints to get you banned from SA.  (BTW, i'm not judging...just making an observation.) What you say and to whom (and where) has a correlation in terms of generating complaints related to your account. Case in point (reference my previous post in this thread).  Asia/HK girls have no problem with "per meet" verbage... whereas I learned girls (not all, just some princesses) in USA may take offense to that term.  I therefore DO NOT USE "per meet" verbage with any girls on the SA interface any longer. Note: see SA blog post on "per meet" verbage here http://blog.seekingarrangement.c ... to-reportable-salt/ [ Last edited by  jetsetting2much at 23-11-2017 02:37 ]

ramont Fucking Legend UID 26912 Digest Posts 0 Credits 14331 Posts 2263 Karma 14172 Acceptance 3189 Reading Access 100 Registered 27-6-2009 Location HK Status Offline

#33 Post at 28-11-2017 09:01  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L non-sexual meetups Just wondering if any of you have had any non-sexual meetups via SA, not including an initial meeting. If so, how did you handle money/payment with that? For example, if you were to take a SB out for dinner and/or drinks or some other kind of date, but you did not have sex during that meeting (maybe because of timing or whatever), do you just cover the cost of the date or do you compensate extra for their time? Same rate as a sex encounter or different? Recent Ratings drunkmunky   5-4-2020 13:41   Acceptance   +3   i met some girls that gave me a tour of their city and i bought them dinner and drinks and snacks. jeffzeke   1-12-2017 04:15   Acceptance   +8   I compensate for their time at a lower rate.

aurufc Forum Moderator UID 111346 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3187 Posts 408 Karma 3081 Acceptance 2126 Reading Access 150 Registered 11-11-2013 Status Offline

#34 Post at 28-11-2017 09:26  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L Reply #33 ramont's post If it was a regular SB ie on a monthly allowance, I would just cover dinner etc as that is kind of part of the deal and fun - not all dates were pure fuck meets.   If it was a repeat on per meet basis, I think that only happened a couple of times - once because of an unannounced red river so I just covered the dinner as not really my fault and once because I had completely forgotten a conf call so I paid dinner & gave her HK500 for taxi money with apologies which she seemed alright with. I think it all depends on the girl, the number of times you have seen her and the reason for not getting it on [ Last edited by  aurufc at 28-11-2017 09:28 ] Recent Ratings jeffzeke   1-12-2017 04:16   Acceptance   +8   Agree! liveabroad9   28-11-2017 12:38   Acceptance   +3   Good Answer.

drunkmunky Forum Moderator UID 20322 Digest Posts 0 Credits 812 Posts 117 Karma 794 Acceptance 358 Reading Access 150 Registered 14-2-2009 Status Offline

#35 Post at 5-4-2020 13:44  Profile Blog P.M.  Font size: S M L I've learned to avoid those who say that they want a long term SD because I believe their expectations are too high for what they are worth. I have to ask how you evaluate their photos? I had an amazing SB experience in Mexico City and I want to go BACK to CDMX just to experience more girls like her. She had one photo, I barely thought it was attractive, and she turned out to be one of the hottest and most stunning women that I've ever had in my life. Our exchanges were brief, and it took about 3 weeks for us to connect because she has a full time job but oh my god the fruits of labor were wonderful. Recent Ratings jeffzeke   6-4-2020 04:05   Acceptance   +10   thanks for sharing, and please share some SA reviews on the Restricted Area section.

americafirst141 Throbbing Titan UID 238519 Digest Posts 0 Credits 3164 Posts 231 Karma 3129 Acceptance 708 Reading Access 70 Registered 29-4-2018 Status Offline

#36 Post at 10-4-2020 09:45  Profile P.M.  Font size: S M L @jeffzeke your reviews of SA have made me interested in giving it a shot. Do you have to pay for premium? Recent Ratings jeffzeke   10-4-2020 10:52   Acceptance   +10   yes, definitely pay for premium for at least one month to try it out. A bit time consuming, but use some of the suggest ... drunkmunky   10-4-2020 10:42   Acceptance   +1   you need to pay in order to have dialogue with the SB. pay via the website and you get 3 months @ $80 usd rather than $9 ... ramont   10-4-2020 09:57   Acceptance   +1   I believe you have to pay for premium to read/reply to messages. Or maybe you can bypass that with a photo

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