Yupe once they get the status of residency, they will dump the dude straight away and look for another richer and handsome bloke.

The local interpretation of this is:  live in HK, play in Kowloon, live in Kowloon, play in HK.  I think it has more to do with getting caught...........

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In my younger days I had a regular WG.  She got a bit aggressive and wanted to get together outside of our business arrangement.  I finally broke down and had lunch with her.   After that it was just not the same for me somehow.  I lost my interest in her sexually.  I stopped seeing her, but she kept calling me for a year or 2 after that.  For some reason I was always out - and she would leave me messages.  I always worried my GF at the time would be over and I would get an awkward call from this lady.  Luckly it never not happen.  I would be careful about starting up anything serious with one of these ladies - but who knows if you young and unattached it might be interesting.

That must be a punter's worst nightmare

True.

I'm not saying that I have any interest in wife-ing one of the WG's, but I think if it were to happen, they'd probably stick with you for a good long time.  If you are providing both the girl with a good lifestyle and her family with some spending cash, I doubt she'd go running off.  Even if she obtained residency, she's running the risk of losing everything by leaving an arrangement that's already proven itself.  It's no secret that the girls come to work to earn money either for themselves or for their families.  So, I think that if you manage to stick a ring on her finger and keep the green flowing, you'll have one for life.

Would it really be a fairy tale ending though?  Sounds just like a summary of Pretty Woman just about

I don't mind sharing a little of my cash with these gals but, fuck, I don't wanna share my LIFE with them.  

There is a saying in HK about milk and cows,

men often say about their GFs , why buy the cow when you can drink the milk for free?.

Similarly I like milk doesn't mean I have to buy the whole cow now does it ?.....

point noted!

Agreed.  

You're pissing into the wind here bro. You're showing bad form.  Thinking of these girls as normal people will NOT impress the bros who spend all their on-line time strutting and striking studboy poses for each other - and Studboy Protocol has it that the more you diss the whores, the bigger your virtual dick. So if you want to come across as an experienced punter, you got to say things like, "yeh fuck the shit out of the bitch!'; 'I'm going to teach the bitch a lesson all right heh heh'; 'Wait till she gets a taste of my cock!" A few posts like that and the bros will be calling you a genius and high-fiving you all night long.

So much for sarcasm. Look, reason with me here kids, does anyone really think these girls want to spend the rest of their lives alone, unloved, unmarried, without family or children? Don't the Chinese place great importance on family? Well how the fuck are they going to do that without finding a man? Or are you guys saying that yes, of course, these girls want to settle down and have a decent life, but we're all such pathetic losers that they'll dump us at the first opportunity for a real man? Not a very self-confidant way of looking at things now is it?

Anyway ccsutmem, it's all smoke and mirrors; the guys who are the most vehemently against relationships with WGs, are the guys who most dislike prostitutes. Girls who sell their bodies are dirty, don't you know.   The dislike of prostitutes is the polluted ground from which spring these opinions on how WGs could never make good companions. All the other argumentation is just a lame effort to appear thoughtful.

And Gwailoplayer, not speaking a word of Mandarin, far from being an obstacle to these clowns, is a great advantage, for if they could communicate with these girls in their own language, they'd have to see them as real people, and the Studboy prefers to deal with one-dimensional stereotypes. Just having lunch with a WG was enough to cause jgaw88 to lose all sexual interest in her!

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Fella I work with [50 yrs] married a Phillipina [22 yrs] but he got her to sign a pre-nup, though she didn't know what she was signing. She came to Australia and after 3 years told him she wanted to leave and was going to take him to court for 50% of everything he owned. He showed her the pre-nup which said that if she left before 10 years of marriage or the marriage broke down within 5 years, she would not be eligible for any monetary compensation. Since he knew that she only married him to take him to the cleaners he divorced her before the 5 years was up and didn't pay a penny.

Also he had a recording of her telling him during one of their heated arguments that she only married him for his money and to come to Australia so she could help her family in the Phillipines. Told her he would give it to Immigration and have her deported. She left with nothing.

So looks like a pre-nup like this, if marrying  a WG, would be the way to go. Cover your bases and see if she really is in for the long haul or only using you. Either way you get at least 5 years of great sex.

Smart punter getting a pre nup.  Was it tested in court or did she just fold?

...858 WG's listed on the database.  Assuming they pay an average of $500-1000 per month for the ad on here (some hotel gals maybe prorated for the time they are here), that's a lot of $$ this guy makes in running the database.....plus the ad revenue that they get from Loveshop and the infoline services...

She  just folded. Didn't want to be deported back to the Phillipines. Found another younger bloke and he lost track of her.

You don't say anything about the emotional relationship between the two, but isn't it a reasonable assumption that any young, attractive 22 yr-old girl, WG or not, who marries a 50 yr-old foreigner, is doing it for material benefit? Your little Sad Tale from the Lives of Men says a lot more about human nature than it does about WGs. It was a business transaction right from the get go, and the relationship failed not because the girl was a whore, but because these two people should never have been together in the first place. A marriage requires a lot more than economic convenience to succeed.

I wonder how many of these sob stories of WGs screwing over some poor Joe actually involve some middle-aged fuck marrying a child three decades younger than he is! A 50 yr-old Australian guy goes to the Philippines, pays hard currency to spend a week rutting around between the legs of a beautiful young girl, knows nothing about her, has nothing in common with her, marries her anyway, and things go wrong. Duh! Does anyone actually think that it would have worked out even if she were not a WG?

I've never said that a significant percentage of marriages with WGs aren't in danger of ending in failure, but isn't that because the relationships were never built on anything but money to begin with? Seems to me your friend's marriage was a dead man walking from day one!

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And what is it with so many older gweilos and their younger oriental girl friends/wives?  Is it something thats becoming more and more the normal thing to do?  You walk down the street in wan chai or causeway bay and you're almost certain to run into a couple.

if you only run into a couple, how can you call that many? Consider the size of HK population, thats nothing. I will be one of those couple when i hit 50!

Agree 100%.  But hope springs eternal for everyone, including bald, fat middle aged anglo guys who think they are longed for by talented, good looking, 20 something WG's.