Jake, sure; I'm willing to meet. How you want to do this? Let me know.

This may be controversial...

I don't agree with the OP, but I would tangentially add that it's annoying as shit when Asian girls that I try to date here tell me that they've tried dating white guys and liked the experience, but they didn't work out because those guys won't take them for a serious relationship (because they're attached and just slamming them on the side or for other reasons). So they turn to guys like me (overseas Chinese) and think they'll get something more stable and won't play them. The fuck am I, Captain Save a Ho? I certainly don't mind if a girl has dated other races (hell, is there an Asian girl in HK who HASN'T slept with a white guy?), but being stereotyped as "the good guy" who'll save them from their past fuck-ups is starting to grate on me.

from all the replies in this thread the only ones I see are you trying to start a fight - with anyone that disagrees with you or your rational
... so what gives ?  did you take offence to wander or jake"s comments to you in other threads or what ?

You don't have to play the 'good guy', you can just play the Chinese version of the white guy, ie...charming, romantic, good at flirting, whirl them on the dance floor, and look at every hot girl in a bar/restaurant/street when you are with gf, because that is what I do. I don't mind Asian girls having had dated white guys because it gives them a reference point to judge me on whether I am as good or better. Besides all girls like confidence and some cockiness which still amazes me why my SO doesn't leave me whenever I pull a male chauvinistic move/act.

Two anonymous netizens discussing where and when to meet to fight it out has me shaking my head.  Take a step and think about what you are saying since it is pretty obvious this duel is not going to eventuate. Jake I am surprised you would stoop to his level since you across as pretty cool in your posts.

The little pussy actually PM'ed asking me to stop.   Dumb shit.  Sticks his dick in a vice then bitchesand whines when it hurts.  

Some people can't be taught shit in life..., they have the learn the hard way.  Well, Nooblier, I'll finish when I"m good and ready to.  it's fun now.  And I can see you're the type of little angry man that really deserves it.

.. and now a break from our flame war with some angry lunatic upset about white dicks penetrating asian snatch and our sane and stalwart   heavy hitters Jake, Hunter and twiceAweek for a station editorial

Doghead: that's 1000% correct .

The last 10 years I have become married to a former small time model (really, she has been in 2 meter long posters in the HK MTR stations, and on the sides of buildings) and started to enjoy modest business success. It does amazing things for my confidence and ego , and the confidence just seems to come out without my being aware of it . Local girls who would ignore me now initiate all the contact and extend their non-verbal invitations for me to chat them up, even more so when I am with my wife .

Alas, of course I never deal with civies, only P4P .

People have said that the best way to attract girls is to get married .

Keep on mongering.


… We now resume our regularly scheduled programming

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obviously iloveasian is Chinese all he says is they look like shit but I have all the bling. why Asian girls don't take me ???. because they have seen that its
shallow. they have watched their mothers aunties sister live a sad loveless life. Too many Chinese boys offer the thin façade of Bling then complain when all  
they get is the gold digger............ I would take a tattooed unshaved dirty jean wearing MAN any day if he can make me feel like its real . I will Turn down
the Bling flinging mommas BOYS always.

Its not about race its about self honesty. Its not about the colour of your skin its the colour of your heart. You want a good woman get some battle scars to show not bling. when I look at a man, I ask has he fought and still stood up after no matter how hard the beating he took.

to get a good woman be a good man   


and nooblier ..... sweetie relax.

I would argue a counter-point: when you play the good man role, you sometimes get taken for a sucker. They'll think you're naive and will be short-sighted enough to buy the ride that everyone else has taken a test drive in, some of whom left a stain on the seat.

Before I get misinterpreted as some hypocritical douchebag who actively pounds out sidepieces while insisting on girls being virgins, my point is simply that nobody (guy or girl) wants to be thought of as a last resort--where you get the impression that after all the other doors she opened and then walked out of (or got thrown out of), she suddenly realizes that your door is the only one left.

first I love the name "poonhits4jesus"

perhaps I should have said "If you want a woman of good character be a man good character" or "If you want a woman of substance be a man of substance" im implying that the man be somebody that can relied upon.
you right that being Mr nice will get a guy shat on and friend zoned and put in the last choice basket. A guy needs get respect or spend his life getting dissed ...

You know at some point, usually after you reach RA 50 or 60 there is no need to accumulate Karma. People like Wander have been there a very long time and like many of us, only post for the love of a clitoris and the benefit of us odd lot of guys who just can't get enough sex.

Making assumptions about others (or "calling it as you see it" in your mind) has always been the single greatest failure of the internet. People have died because they have forgotten that internet text contains maybe 2% of the actual information you gather from a face to face conversation. You know nothing about Wander or anyone else here who you haven't met face to face. Exchange of information and good jovial conversation can still be had in our limited mode of communication but character judgment is nearly impossible.

The one exception to internet judgement is the obvious display of immaturity and asshole-ness by those who attempt to judge others in forums. That, of course, is very a clear demonstration of character, or more accurately, the lack of character that does come shining through in spite of the limits of textual communication.

In other words the only accurate judgements that can be made on the internet forums are those made ABOUT people who have no idea of what they are talking about and then act like assholes by accusing other of being something um... like "fake as fvck".

Nooblier really?! I mean really?!! Among al the bros in here you pick a fight with Wander?! Are you some sort of masochist? I mean you must be pretty insane to do this! He's been around way more than you have and from all the details he's been feeding the forum with, there is absolutely no doubt he's one of the most experienced punters here (the guys a freaking machine, even in the us he keeps on mongering!!!). Chill out, log off the forum for a week and come back when you are a little calmer. Internet is good because ita speed, but speed makes us write and say things we regret after that... Take some time to think (you did say you were not an idiot right?).

Now fake as fuck is interesting... Not sure I get this but that's probably because of my limited English... I sure hope I can find this one in the Oxford dictionnary! I'll have a look...

"And nooblier sweety relax". that is hilarious! MissP, am falling in love with you

Nah am jocking but I really love someone no nonsense like you and your attitude, its refreshing!

It seems there is a pattern with this Nooblier -- guess he went after ggerkin and Jake.Houston (maybe others) with similar "Fake" accusations in the past.

A mixture of jealousy and stupidity, I suppose.  He clearly doesn't realize that many of us have met each other and punted together.  Stupid.  Maybe he feels similar to the OP and this is what triggered his anger.  A jealous little man.  ??  Keep trying to date, Nooblier, one day a gal will say yes.  Justdont yell "Fake!!!!" when you finally get her shirt off! Gals hate that!

Anyway, as you say, he acts like a kid who has been raised online.  "English or gtfo!", he exclaims.  Hehe.  Since when did "gtfo" become proper English?? Only online do you see dumbass shit like this. Sigh.  This is a multi-racial site populated with many (most?) Bros who learned English as second or even third language.  We don't expect or require perfect English here.  Stick to your Xbox and Reddit with that self-centered world-view!  (please).  

Ah well, he wasn't the first asshole on here, and sadly, won't be the last.

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