Subject: feeling guilty for stringing a civilian along for sex
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Originally posted by sexwstrangers at 1-12-2012 12:16


Not the same thing at all. Further, get some real steroids. Testosterone is the worst thing you could be using. Having super-physiological levels of T in your blood stream gives you the all the side ...

Real steroids???

Eh....

I'm taking per week

1000mg Testoviron 250
400mg Primobolan 100
900mg Deca Durabolin 300
0.5mg Arimdex EOD

I would think my stuff is real :-)

The pic attached is 6 months of training!!!!  Real enough?

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Reply #20 sexwstrangers's post

Were you still having sexual relationship with your wife during the mistress relationship?

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Reply #22 vc09's post

The wives get suspicious if you are not craving them. So your wife has no idea about your mistress? Your mistress knew so much about you and is very emotional - dangerous territory for you. Next time, you gotta make sure that you totally divorce (pun intended) your real life with your fantasy life. Banging a mistress is better than banging a WG.

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@wander:  "All that junk shrunk your penis? Shit man, why?"

No my dick is still the same length and size. Just my balls are smaller.
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by virginboy at 11/30/12 08:13 PM
No more mistresses or girlfriends for me.  I'm now happy to not need to lie to my wife of my whereabouts every night.  My stress levels have dramatically dropped and I feel happy as larry.

I seriously doubt this. Your post history for the past two years shows that you have a history of stringing along civilians, co-workers and random girls that you meet. And you enjoy doing this.

Like here you said:
I just want to get them all excited and interested (eg. I act perfect, pretend I'm awesome, I buy them expensive gifts like MacBooks, I buy them expensive dinners, I tell them everything to make them happy and think I'm the perfect bf/husband) and when they are in love with me, I get enjoyment in dumping them or just disappearing to crush their feelings etc.  Its like I have get excited by seeing other women get hurt... maybe because I was embarrassingly dumped 10 years ago by my ex-gf who crushed me publicly in front of everyone.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=38770

And in this thread you tried to string along a civilian but she turned the tables and cheated you first:
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/viewthread.php?tid=36529

If you're going to string women along then that's your choice. But please don't be looking for sympathy when you've been a real jerk towards them. Continue enjoy seeing WGs and have fun. But don't be a dick about it. And you totally are a masochist. You enjoy this stuff. I understand playing with danger. Sometimes I do it as well. But if you play with fire then prepared to be burnt. And you've been burnt. Don't blame the girl.

And you really need to let go of that ex-gf who dumped you 10 years ago. You already know that you're trying to take revenge on her by embarrassing and dumping other girls. Does that make you feel better?  I was in a similar situation many years ago and thought that if I dumped the next girl then I would feel better.  But I didn't. The real issue is that you need to let go of your old feelings.

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"Now I feel so guilty for giving the girl false hopes, lies, fake promises of a family with her, marriage after divorce with my wife etc.... that I cannot get over it.  I think I've become very fond of her (possibly love) and I feel shit for being a prick to take advantage of her."

why would you tell someone these things if you are just wanting to get laid,
if she knew you married from the start, then you should have been totally honest
with her in your intentions.....then you would have been in control,
by the sounds of things she is now winding the vice tight on your balls...

and if you do have feelings for her now, then your wife and kid will pay the
ultimate price for your adventures....you have some tough discisions..
that is why paying for play is such a good alternitive...no one gets hurt,
if you're discreet enough...

hope things work out for you

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virginboy   2-12-2012 18:58  Acceptance  +4   thanks for the comments
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i'm glad in the end everything is resolved and your stress level is way down. good to hear you broke off with her
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Post at 12-12-2012 03:14  Profile P.M. 
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Man, local girl from work so she has all the basic info she needs to track you down and make you really regret it.  You will need a good lawyer as this has the potential to turn into a very BIG mess.




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Anyway, I dumped her successfully using this method @ http://howtocheatonyourgirl.blog ... tress-you-have.html


Breaking Up With Your Mistress, You Have To Do It Right
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One of the most frequent questions that I get from readers pertains to breaking up with a woman after the sex/friendship has lost its interest. Usually this topic would be quick and painless to describe; simply tell her the relationship is over, self explanatory.

However, when you’re looking to end a relationship with your mistress, other woman, booty call, or whatever you’re calling her at the time… it can get messy very quickly.

There could be severe repercussions that could find their way back to your girlfriend if you don’t handle the situation with the utmost care right from the start.

The method that has worked best for me over the years is to force her break up with you. Let her make the choice that she no longer wants to be in a relationship with you. This way there are no hurt or angry feelings on her part. She feels invigorated, in control of herself and her destiny, essentially she feels good about leaving you. This is exactly what you want.

Now you don’t want to push her to this conclusion by being a complete asshole (although that would speed things up a bit), since that will be counter productive. You don’t want her to hate you and turn it into some Fatal Attraction type of shit.

You want to play on her dislikes and do things that she genuinely cannot tolerate (besides dropping hints that you’re cheating on her) which will eventually push her over the edge. For instance if she doesn’t like you hanging out all night with the boys drinking, wants you to quit smoking, or can’t stand one of your friends, then your course of action is obvious. If she has any pet peeves that drive her up the wall make sure you engage in a couple of those.

Dropping little bombs into your daily conversations like; “I never want to have children,” or “I’m going to quit my job and move back home” are a couple of gems that will get the hamster wheel turning in her mind, making her wonder if you really are the right guy for her. Which we both know you’re not.

Once you have pushed her to the break up conversation, and you can always feel this coming a couple of days in advance, just wait patiently until she wants to get together and “talk.”
You’ll be eagerly anticipating it as she comes to you with a heavy heart trying to soften the blow and let you down easy, try to not grin from ear to ear knowing she’s giving you exactly what you want, a way out!

You have to remember to treat the break up very delicately.

Try to pretend that you're genuinely remorseful about what happened between the two of you, and that you wish you could have made it work. Make it look like you cared about her and that she was more important to you than she actually was. Do not act indifferent or nonchalant. This is important because it will make her feel like she mattered to you, it will keep her in a more sad and somber state of mind rather than angry or spiteful.

You do not want to treat her as if she was immaterial since it will create the second set of emotions I just described, and it will induce them to try hurt you in return. Which of course could problems with your girlfriend if you’re finding dead rabbits at your door, or she decides to mark up your car in lip stick one day. These are the kind of things that make girlfriends wonder.
As you can see, this is a very dangerous game you have to play, especially if you want to keep this from your main girlfriend.

Under no circumstance should you ever tell any secondary woman (that doesn’t know already) that you have been seeing other women, especially during the breakup. This might prompt her on seek out the other woman (your girlfriend) and ruin that relationship to settle the score.

Try to end your relationship amicably. Let her yell at you, let her vent, let her cry, let her try to let you down easy and make sure you apologize profusely as if she was your #1 girl.
In the end most likely she'll say she doesn’t want to ever see you again, or that maybe you two can be friends (such a lie). You tell her that you will miss her, and let her walk out the door. In the end no harm will really come of this, if you play your cards right.

Think about your exit strategy before you get heavily involved with any other women. Create a time table of when to end it, plan it, and execute it.

Ending the relationship with your other woman is one of the most important steps in Cheating On Your Girlfriend and Not Getting Caught.
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Reply #29 virginboy's post

I thought this article or write-up is a total bullshits!!
It works for you? Really?

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wander   12-12-2012 10:10  Acceptance  +5   this whole thread is whack! Virginboy is fucked up!




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Well actually... YES - I'm fucked up.  I took the initiative and now seeing a psychiatrist to get over my addictive and fucked up behaviours.  

And to Hunter, yes, I tried it and worked.  I didn't do exactly what he said.... but used the principles of it.  I intentionally pissed her off by doing annoying things and continuing on her dislikes and she broke it off with me.  Simple....

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wander   13-12-2012 14:08  Acceptance  +1   Well. Good for you then... hope it all works out.
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Reply #31 virginboy's post

Bro,

You are really fucked up!!




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The ones who can hurt u the most r the ones closest. He's used it to this effect
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Kudos to OP for admitting he is fucked-up and seeking help.
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Reply #21 virginboy's post

I'm looking at the photo, and you should be a lot more developed if you're using TRT. You should be able to build that physique with proper recovery and dieting unless you're actually at that age where your testosterone levels are plummeting.

I'm still looking at the first post going "WTF!?!?!?! 20K? Your wife has no idea there's a 20K slice pie missing each month?"

Seen as how you've already dumped the girl, just blow the 20K on WGs and weed to take the edge off.
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Haha.... My SO has no idea of what's in the bank account (its a good thing and a bad thing... She tends to loose track of reality and price sometimes!!) so am not surprised by this.

For the TRT, seriously, you are screwing up your body will die young and you probably have a self confidence issue. Taking those things is, to me, a sign of depression and seing a schrink is the best thing you could do.

Work out, go in the open and run, you look quite young, there are tons of things to do to get that body pumping (in a right way, with real sport, not the wan chai style only!!! ;) ). Boxing, running, windsurfing, diving... Hk is the place for this. I work out a lot and love it, but would never take anything that could have an effect on my body. Stay natural, smoke some week to chill out!

Btw, how come you have no abs? chicks dig abs! Get to work on those abs!!! (Just joking, you look good but should do this imho).

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Damn, I would love to have whatever job you have, to be able to support a wife and kid and blow 20G's.....a month
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oh tragic but you silly noob....
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Reply #37 DarkArmour's post

My thoughts exactly but didn't feel right to say
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You're pretty fucked up dude.

Then again so am i.


ps. that is a pretty heavy cycle you're running


im guessing you started TRT after you had your child?
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