generally speaking contact sites are best for long-term attachments

not so good for ONS, since girls looking for ONS can simply go to a bar and get themselves picked up

but - for the record - I did once put a post inviting a one-day-connection ... and got a confirmed response from a girl saying "I never tried this but it sounds fun" ... but I can't say if it worked or not because I was the one who had to cancel at the last minute

Not tried since,
just been too busy

obviously, you can only use a pic if you don't mind being recognised ... i.e. you're using your real name and risking family and friends surfing the same site and maybe responding to your ad!  

if you don't use a pic, you maintain plausible deniability, but the response rate plummets
but with a well-written pitch it can still work

key is to know what you're looking for, and how you plan to attract it.  If you're looking for someone who is interested in discreet short-term attention from a lonely stud, saying you "expect to share pics before meeting" is actually more appropriate than putting your best smiling mugshot front and centre.

I suppose it depends  on what you seek. some people like grocery shopping and  cooking a meal and then eating it.

I just like eating so I go to restaurants.

Some folks like the hunt so they can try their efforts at places like this or hang out in wanchai bars where if you are not choosy the success rate can be 99% . I just like the meal so stick with brothels and 141. Same in Thailand I only frequent the fish bowls never the girlie bars .

Keep on mongering

[ Last edited by  gwailoplayer at 15-6-2012 18:38 ]

They actually made an app for it? Do any recommendations on apps for mongering?

Even if you dont mind being recgonised, I've had the experience where they would put your picture on the front page of their website! They actually do this for a few dating sites - just randomly pick members (like 30-40 at a time) and do this - which is highly embarrassing as anyone just going to the front page can see these pics.

I've had my fair share of success and dates - can be expensive, mind you, as at least for 1st date the idea of 'dutching' is non-existent. So you have to find date places which aren't that expensive & use those as your regular places. There's actually one restaurant i sometimes use - and staff recognise me easily there now, as i've taken abt 25-30 dates there!

ONS's are rare, but FS on 2nd date has happened a number of times. Other times you may date a couple of times and it fizzles out (ie. nothing happens) - as is norm with dating etc. I've met alot of nice ladies using this method but as you'd expect, some aren't as they seem and then you are stuck with them for best part of an evening (I consider it too rude to not go ahead with plans - even if they disappoint). It definitely is quite fun though, i do enjoy the chase and meeting new people.

That sounds like alot of work.  Just how many of us are successful mid size company owners.  There are a lot more of who can afford p4p on a regular basis than having a French chaueux.  If you have that kind of money, why would you waste effort dating those girls.  Wouldn't it make more sense just get 二奶？

For anyone with a Android phone, try the app "skout"

my friends have had some success with hookups.

It's so much work and pointless chatting just to get some pussy. I tried it for a bit and got tired of all the work. You can easily pick up a girl just chatting with them up on the street. Most of the time they aren't looking for sex on the internet.

nah

all girls want sex

especially when they're looking for a guy

of course, many of them have hangups about guys who walk away after the deed, which makes them feel used, and that puts their defenses up when they're putting feelers out for a contact

but they most definitely are looking for sex, wherever it is they're hunting for a guy

biggest issue I see on the internet is you get a broad mixture of the bold, the old, and unrealistic wannabes - means you have to do some filtering of your own.

Just registered to hongkongcupid.com 10 days ago, I have already scored 3 and there is more in the pipeline. This site is really crazy.

Well... if you say so.. I'm giving it a try.

I've had mild successed with yyearbook, tagged and skout, 30% chance meeting anyone there and 10% sealing the deal. Then again we can't discuss civvies here so take care posters.

I've tried skout tho im weary about putting a cleat shot of my face up there and most of the girls im sure dont respond cos of that, others r just terrible at making convo

cos they're being chatted up by 1000 guys. you gotta say something extreme or different to catch their attention.

I  dont think telling them they r good looking enough that i wanna bone them out of their brains is a nice first liner.  The usual hi how r u doesnt gauge any response to progress it further, complimenting on lookd only get thx, and i aint sure asking personal info is wise hence no convo possible

Bro, you mean you've had 3 replies or 3 dates? In 10 days I assume you don't mean scored as in slept with or anything

I've scored around 8 girls in total, from these websites over the course of a year~2 when i was out of work. I spent a LOT of effort, like I would chat up tens and tens and expect 1 to really get along with.

Sometimes I tell the ones who just broke up like... "bla bla men are dicks and evil, we only think with our dicks. sometimes im ashamed to be a man' to instantly build some rapport, or to the cute and innocent one whos getting 100 his and lame shit, use a pick up line, it's better than the same hi and ur pretty bs they get all the time... 'are your parents bakers? cos u look like a cutie pie'. (a lot of locals dont get that cos their english is crap so do watch out)

there's more lines to use and often, you just have to be creative and improvise on the spot. this girl made her skout account name as a shit icon, and i immediately msged her "hey you piece of shit" (i expected to be ignored or blocked) but she actually found it hilarious and i scored that one in like ... the weekend at that week. i try to be as honest as i could, telling them im not in for a long term relationship, just go out and watch a film or cuddle watching Thor at home (cos every fucking girl is turned on by him in that avengers movie) so yeah, id say around... less than 10% of the girls i target meets me, and when they meet me, i score with her around 80% chance.

it isn't that easy mastering online/SMS flirting, and since this entire post is pretty much dedicated to civvies, i think i pretty much broke that rule? but seeing how we're on page 2, i'll just assume i'm safe to write this.
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edit: I don't even know if you're asking me that question lol

[ Last edited by  asurada00 at 26-6-2012 01:12 ]

Bro, I meant I fucked 3. I met 7 so far, I fucked 3 of them 1 on the first date 2 on the second ones. There are two more girls quite keen to do the deal. If you ask me how or why my answer is I don't know. I don't think I am good looking but these girls just like me for some reason.

The other thing is that  I am not tied by 9-5 work schedule so quite free to meet 2 girls a day (lunch, dinner). That helps a lot...

[ Last edited by  szabob at 26-6-2012 19:44 ]

sorta drifted putting too much effort into the site, or maybe because noone likes me hahah

Just installed the Skout app to see how it looks on my Android phone... Second page the app says "send a skout invitiation to those names" list that included among my friends, my SO...   an extract of my contact list basically...

Yeah, how about also the pdf file of the divorce papers whiler we're at it!!
So I just didnt use it (but you can skip this part!).

I was recently told by a girl i was chatting to stop bullshitting. Wat else is there to talk about? She didnt make any convo, just replied to my msgs.  Dumb girls

Anyway uninstalled the app incase my so saw