Okay, whoremonger....

Your explanation is indeed very sincere and I get it.  

Man, you sound a bit like me at the moment --- I am so sunk I have given up and grown gills!  But..., it is bliss.  What a girl!   Fuck me --- I feel terribly lucky that she has fallen so hard for me! And yeah, I've met her "real" friends and family -- a huge risk for her indeed as they absolutely have no idea she ever did this work.  

But I also know her WG-buddies who still work.  They love me as a friend because they can be totally open when I am around -- they know I know and am cool with it, so it just allows them to be themselves.    They ask me to set them up with my friends all the time.  But I wouldn't help them scam someone.  They haven't asked, mind you, but if they did I would easily tell them that it's wrong and I won't do it.

In just about any business i can think of thats successful they will have screwed someone one way or another.  If you are going to be successful in the business world you are going to have to be ruthless and as they say "its only buisness, nothing personal".  If you ran a business and you never screwed anybody, trust me, someone has screwed you, whether you knew it or not, thats another matter.  

The business world is cruel and unforgiving, this is the real world, the other side doesn't really know you, they only look at the $ signs.  You one has some misconception that being 100% honest and nice will get you much from the sharks out there, then you'll be in real trouble.  Its a dog eat dog world out there, see who gets eaten first.  Its either you or him....for me....i'd rather I take the initiative....

In business it doesn't really matter if you lose a customer here and there, if you got what people want and at the right prices & conditions, even the ones you screwed will come begging at your door.  

Na i beg to differ, I think i might grow gills and stay sunken......I don't know how i could get away or want to get away.  She is hot, cleans, cooks great, treats me like a king and fucks my brains out.....i don't know what more i can ask?!  

Your situation is different i think, you already have a SO, so if you're not ready to make a change, then i guess you're stuck where you are.  I'm single, so my options are open.  Who knows maybe this one will work out, so far, compared to the others I've been with (both civy and WG) this has been the best.

The girls don't really view it as scamming, they view it as "keeping their customers", have yet to see one that does not do this.  Its always the same routine, its "I miss you" and by the 2nd meeting its "i feel i love you already"    As my chick put its, "customers, you fall in love so quickly, do you think someone doing this job can fall in love just like that?"    


Cheers