then maybe time for you to learn;

learn to respect the cultures of others and learn not to make fun to your advantage;

honestly, ask yourself this question;

Have u ever started a thread and IF YES how many times ?

posting just to piss people is what you do ..........................

post something useful to some people for a change will you ???

Jake, you are really clueless ................................................

Suggest you go for a checkup before making any statements that you cannot sustain ................

At your age, I would have thought that you would have learn the ways of life ........................

but unfortunately this is not case; while you are free to express your opinions, so are othes;

I wish to state that I am not aware and neither influence the banning of Mars; it has nothing to do with me. His statements in this thread were not directed at me as far as I can see and neither at anyone in particular; his opinions were merely his and I fail to see what's wrong with his post. It is a well known fact that he detests people who look down on WGs.

As for you, go hunt for this song "Billy, don't be a hero" . Will do you much good.

And, in fact, my post was not directed at you or anyone else. You posted a Chinese saying and invited comment. I commented. Isn't that what forums are about? (And did you intend it as a joke, as English seems to think?)

English then entered the discussion screaming fuck you and go die - and then when I questioned his intelligence, he banned me.

And yes it's true that I have a real problem with guys who look down on women. 99% of the evil in this world is done by guys, and usually it's the women who suffer the most. Sorry if that makes me unpopular with some of the other bros, but that's not going to change, so either get rid of me or get used to it.

Personally, there is nothing wrong with your post; You merely made a statement according to your beliefs;

BUT it appears that there are people who are blind; making fools of themselves by what some people would say; "Barking like a mad dog"

(This statement is NOT directed you; you post facts backed by facts; but you should know that you can't back your beliefs with your beliefs)

You are not alone in your beliefs though;
eh......................................... 99% of evil not done by guys; it's 100% of the bad guys and 100% of the bad ladies;

Have you heard of the saying "Pigs are afraid to be fat?"

Although this is an English forum, there are many who come from different cultures;

Let's be considerate and be sensitive to their beliefs too;

Turn big matters into small matters; turn small problems into no problems;

and Cheers !!!

Certain things said will not connote the same way between a Chinese man and a Westerner.  That is just the way it works.  I have a friend who has lived in Japan his whole life but originally he moved from San Diego when he was like 4 years old.  He lives with his Mom and Dad, both are Americans but admits that he still doesn't fit in 100% with the Japanese locals because of the values taught at home.  I feel the same way, being born in the US but my parents' values are those of the Chinese persuasion.  I as a Westerner totally understand the "JOKE" as others may not simply because I was raised in the Chinese household.

But I can make non Chinese understand the joke too.  It is only a play on words, something you would see on a novelty T shirt.

Eg.

Women are like wine, the older they get, the better they taste. (some variations may apply)

Eg. FLIPSIDE on a novelty T shirt

Women are like wine, the older they get, the more they taste like vinegar.

Get it?  Get it?  (nudge nudge) huh huh!?!?

LOL... it's all good!  

If you guys ever heard the terms Jook Sing (Western Born Chinese) and Jook Hop (China Born Chinese but living in a Western Country).

Jook Sing = A bamboo that is hollow through and through which means that he is open on both ends therefore having the ability to understand and absorb both cultures equally.  Usually the word Jook Sing pertains to those who came to the West before the age of 7-8 or those who fit the criteria, speaking perfect English, and enjoying the ability to treat both cultures with equal and mutual respect.

Jook Hop = A bamboo that is plugged on one end but not the other which means that he is always going to be open to his Chinese side but the Western side will always have some type of closure not allowing him to understand and absorb the Western culture equal to his Chinese culture.  Usually these are the people who came at age 10 and up from China, has a Chinese accent whenever they speak English no matter how strong a command of the language, and will always lean towards superior Eastern thought over inferior Western thought.

I think this should apply to those who grew up 100% Western and moving to an Asian country such as China or others.  For them, Western though will always be dominant in their minds over Eastern though, even IF there is a great respect or not for Eastern thought.

Make any sense?  Sorta confused myself too but I think I got my point across.

time for an old Chinese to teach the ways of Chinese ?

I am Chinese; but I was brought up in 2 cultures; My Mum raised me as a Chinese while my Old man, though Chinese, advocates western values in me; the result? Me

My Old man says to my Mom; when he(meaning me) grows up to be legal age, throw him out to the streets; At nearly 50, in the eyes of my Mom, I am still her baby

Come come... let us open door see mountain.  LOL...

My parents are both old school ex-Mao believers but they really are very traditional, the most traditional thing that Chinese parents ask of their 6 year olds?  "Will you take care of me when I get old?  or will you throw me into a nursing home like the white devils?"

Admit it, I know lots of you ABCs have heard the same shit come out of their parents' mouths at a young and tender age.

Sorry sexpert, I am neither Abc or Bbc or Cbc

The Chinese from PRC would call me an OC though

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Just realised why u think that I could be a ABC

both my parents are Chinese; but my Old man got plenty of dealings with the Japanese, English and Americans

[ Last edited by  sulasno at 28-2-2008 00:08 ]

Yea, you have that Jook sing, half half mentality too, that's why.

How can others know what to respect if you don't explain ?


If you want to know my contributions I suggest you check carefully.

Aren't you the one that admit to posting nonsense, #16 in the below thread :

http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

You should stop spamming !!

You are really clueless ! (your favourite saying)

[ Last edited by  moebee at 28-2-2008 10:33 ]

We "WESTERNERS " have a saying .....

EMPTY VESSELS MAKE THE MOST NOISE ! (don,t think you need to be Einstein to work that one out ! )

Let,s ALL stop bickering and throwing insults around !

This is a SEX forum .... NOT somewhere to have a go at each other .... over race ... culture ... etc

We are ALL entitled to our own opinions ...

WE will NEVER all agree , but NO ONE should be insulted or ridiculed for their opinions ...

That is BANG OUT OF ORDER !!!!

TRUE POWER , NEVER NEEDS TO BE WEILDED !


CHILL OUT bro,s and let,s all REMEMBER WHY WE SIGNED UP TO THE FORUM ....

P.S. Question ...??????   WHO MODERATES THE MODERATORS?

Just MY opinion......

JOSH

Mods gone wild? Another dictator mod who thinks he's King of the forums?

If the guy had a bit more wit, I'm sure he would have chosen to say something intelligent in response to Marsupial;  but when words fail, little men use what little power they have. Another characteristic of little men is that they conveniently confuse personal interest with the common good as they go about settling old scores.

And English isn't even a Mod of the Chat section, so what's he doing banning guys over here?

Yes. Who moderates the moderators?

You guys can register as many accounts as you want. Anyone who posts on the forums about banning will just get banned too. If you have a problem, bring it to the administrator.

This is Sulasno's thread, and even Sulasno has said that he doesn't think Marsupial should have been banned for his comment on the Chinese saying. So aren't you banning Marsupial because you "just don't like the fucker"?

Way to get in on the action Fenice. I don't like the fucker, but that doesn't mean it's the reason I banned him. I banned him because he is argumentative. I banned him in order to preserve the peace and keep the junk off these forums.

You on the other hand I banned for continuing the subject.

So anybody else looking to be banned? Please. Post again on the subject.

Argumentative?    Forums exist to offer an opportunity and venue to argue ideas. I notice that you never hesitate to argue your positions. The only difference is that when you lose arguments, you ban people.

But you didn't ban Marsupial for what he wrote in other threads, you banned him for what he said in this thread. He offered his opinion on Sualsno's post. You didn't agree and instead of offering an intelligent response, you started screaming fuck you and jump of a cliff. He commented on your apparent lack of smarts and you banned him. Does that sound like the proper behavior for a Mod?!

Junk?    Marsupial is one of the handful of members who actually talks about substantive issues.

Peace?   Your idea of peace, is no one disagreeing with you.  And, anyway, you're the one who is always screaming fuck you.

Banned members are welcome to register under another name and start posting relevant topics again and they will not be banned. But what do people do? Come back on and continue this pointless topic. I really don't see the point.

May I remind you that this forum is mostly intended for foreigners (not only western) coming to HK for short or long term. Otherwise, why speak in english at all?

So it's ok chineses (local or not) come here, and they are very welcome, but they should not treat this forum as their playground and expect everyone to understand their culture (because honestly, chinese culture is quite hermetic).

If nothing else, this website is meant to attract business to the WG. If you ban people like there is no tomorrow, you are not really helping are you ?