I am not obsessed with sex it is my biological purpose.
I am currently single and only punt when single, but whatever anyone else does is their business unless my family is involved.
I visit WG's because I want sex. I am fit, healthy, smart, witty, well paid and not a freak to look at, so really I could go to bars, singles functions or even take yoga classes and get laid for free.
So why take the hit and miss of a session with a WG being great and not some episode with a *FOAMing (Fake Orgasm and Moaning) starfish,
While I am a bit of a social recluse, there are two main reasons for me using WGs.
1/
No Strings attached, most of my one night stands have failed to be just that and continued on for months at which point I get screamed for being a bastard, merely becuase I mention I would like to live in HK (or somewhere) for a year or two.
2/
I feel a slightly darker side to which I will admit to here, where I feel more anonymous (than on Australian boards , I am a nobody but obvious to the few who know me).
The darkest bit is while I do not actively seek the ice Queens whose service is mechanical, I get an ego rush to turn these girls in to a quivering sweaty mess ( I will admit more miss than hit). I get a thrill to see the switch from 'Are we there yet?' to OMG that feels gooood. I am always in two minds over whether this wrong or not, because I know many of these ice queen girls are not so much frigid but in relationships and avoid any enjoyment so as not to cheat. In the end I enjoy the power, I like the control my tongue on a girls Clit gives me, the power of keeping her just off the point off orgasm and watching her squirm on the end of my cock. In my darkier moments when a WG has been rude or obnoxious I finish leaving her on the edge ( I had a GF who would have bitten and scratched me for that, even if it was accidental).
Perhaps unlike some relationships I have been in, where excellent service is demanded I enjoy the challenge and ultimately the power. I am an egotist (no shit), as a result I need the approval to really get off, with some early help from a Thai WL, an older GF and then 20 yrs of punting (plus GFs) I have gotten quite good at getting a WG and girls in general to enjoy themselves and thus earn their approval. Sex with WGs is a special case as many would rather not feel much as oppose to a normal girl who is expecting to enjoy herself, this makes it a challenge.
During a recent session with a HK WG in Sydney, the girl wrapped her arms and legs around me, her body (including arse) was off the bed and she swung beneath me as our lower back and stomach muscles did all the work.
A.
Where else are I going to find a girl with such well developed F'in muscles ?
B.
If I do find a normal girl in a bar who can do this,
i.
Will she ever leave?
ii.
Will I ever leave?
To be honest I haven't seen this WG again, almost out of fear. I did visit same place several time but never booked her, no lineup there just next WG available, unless you ask by name, so I just took the WG roulette :-) never fails.
I cannot bring myself to say to a normal girl thanks for the ML good bye and no I dont want your number, cause I dont really like you, sorry I was just horny, generally I/we just keep going until we realize we dont actually like each other.
So I have casual sex when away from home only. When OS I first visit a few WG's, as most woman subconsciously perceive when a man has been having a lot of good sex*. Some times I just stay with the WG's.
*Case in Point
After being unemployed for some time I landed a well paid job, I broke a drought and on my first pay I went to a different WG on Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights. Come Monday morning almost every woman in the company checked me out at one point, even though they all ignored me the week before.
So after writing all that I realise, in short WG fed part of the mystery that is my ego, providing the glow a GF would usually provide.
Naturally of course someone may wish to throw in the term "commitment issues", to be totally honest, I am a snob Boheme and thus have a small pool of potential partners.
Feel free to comment in anyway you wish.
I love the Indonesian attitude, you keep giving a GF uang Taxi (Taxi money), it's like an arsehole tax (so long as you dont remain too long, then it's a marriage down payment).
[ Last edited by HenryMiller at 20-1-2011 23:17 ]
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