adoption is a good idea, but that would be asking the WG to stop business for 10 months... do you think that's posible?

Well tht is why I wrote she would have to be a "head case" if she didnt go get the morning after pills.  Most of the wgs are so pragmatic about why they are in the business in the first place and how long they expect to stay.  So getting pregnant is to be avoided at all costs.   

It is not my right to be asking a wg to get an abortion if she doesn't want to wait for the adoption to occur.  But most likely the wg will get an abortion as apparently many mainland girls have had a few abortions under their belt as they don't consider it such a big deal.  I guess you can say it is one of the consequences of having the 1-child policy, abortions are treated like a normal outpatient treatment.

hey, the morning after pills.
does it really work???

Years ago, with an ex-gf, I had condom breakages at least twice.  I paid for her to go to to 24 hours clinic every time to get the prescription for the morningafter pills.  She never got pregnant. Whew.  Since then I heard of ppl skipping the doctor's visit and going directly to some sympathizing pharmacies to get the morning after pill without the prescription.  Much cheaper that way.  The pills have to be taken within 24-48 hours after sex.  

Alot of these wgs know of a reliable source in SZ.  Maybe you should ask them to recommend a pharmacy to you?  

Yah morning after pills work, but they're not 99.9% like birth control or condoms.  Also, there's a 3 day window where they still work, and the percentage of failure increases as more time elapses.

So everyone agrees on an abortion? how sad...

funny how a thread on a bad experience and condom breakage turns into a discussion on abortion.  nevermind and i would certainly support abortion in this case

Everyone agrees on bareback.

Abortion??? Let's deal with it later.
OVer the yrs I have perfected my just in time withdrawal skill.
Willpower!!!

i have to say, okamoto (0.02) feels really good though! in terms of sensation, best dom i've tried, better than the durex featherlite ultima before they came out with the new kind this year (or was it end of last?), which i haven't tried yet. but sounds risky, so i'd probably switch brands after i use up my remaining ones.

i also have this observation to point out, and that is mainland wg's seem to be much less proficient in putting on a dom, compared to their european counterparts. while the wg's i've gone to in europe are pretty much pros in applying doms, the chinese wg's i've noticed tend to roll it way too tight. they don't leave any room in the tip, and i always have to adjust it after they've put it on for me. wtf right? you'd think it was kinda funny until the dom breaks. you'd also think that they'd know better...

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when is your perfect withdrawal point when you bb with civi girls? Hahah i would like to know

When u feel your dick about to explode, i.e. size of dick head expand and ur dick felt the heaty itch.
Do not wait till u felt some cum already drip out. Then u are too late.
Try to avoid withdrawal on CG postion, withdrawal may be jeopardise because she is controlling the movement on top.

U know the withdrawal is safe when u a few rounds of hand jerking require before u can cum to completion.

There are so many ways u can come from just in time witdrawal, i.e. cum on next to her puss, on her belly button, on her tits and nips rub, spray up onto her neck and face, blind her and leave some in her nose (my 2nd favourite). And my No. 1 favourite is insert my dick into her mouth and cum.

You want some training? Go buy a dildo !!!!

Thanks to those members sharing there condom strategies, if I wasn't just a newbie I'd give you some karma points.

I've only had one scary moment with a condom and is was my own stupid fault. I was trialing the use of a vibrating silicon cock ring as a means of overcoming condom desensitisation. The WL starts laughing here head off when I pull the thing out and insists I put it on straight away so she can see what it looks like. I oblige, she eventually calms down and wants the business to see what it feels like. So I put on condom and away we go. I'm thinking "this ring really does the job, feels like no condom at all". It was only when I pulled out that I realised that the base of the condom was sitting on the ring and had vibrated off, you're supposed to put the condom on 1st - then the ring.

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Interesting. I never tried this product before.
Can u illsustrate more and which brand would u recommend?
I might wanna give a go.
More sensual to the gal or guy?

Hello Hunter,
I found that the ring didn't overcome desensitisation. I am of the opinion that this problem may be partially in my head, I find that even when screwing non WL without condom I tend to desensitise after an hour or so, don't lose erection, but can't cum. Seems to depend on chemistry and how many times I've had sex with the woman. One of the main reasons I use WL more now is that I need the variety. Does anyone else out there have this problem?

I only use the ring now intermittently for the girls enjoyment. I always carry it with me in my little bag of tricks when sex is, or might be available. Oddly not all women do enjoy the ring, some girls don't want there clits vibrated, while others go off. Last time I used it on Selina from Kelly's for example she asked if I'd remembered to bring it and had two screaming O's. I'll add a link here to my 1st encounter with Selina if your interested finding out a bit about her. http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1

The only picture I have of the ring is me imbedding it in Selina whilst we were in the reverse cowgirl position, I'll put it up if you want, but I've not done so prior to this as it might be considered a trifle graphic.

Lastly I'd like to thank all those members of this forum who have graciously gifted me with karma points, yes doghead your little point got me over the line I AM NOW A MUSKY MEMBER.

Please post the pics for visual guide.

Hear you go Hunter. Remember you did ask to see it. If you can bear to look closely you'll see the vibrating clit stimulater has skewed to the side at this point. As I said the ring is best used in missionary position

remind me of a few close calls myself..

unfortuntely this hobby of ours comes with A LOT of risks in many forms.. good to hear you everything is all good to go again

hey that ring looks good..

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thanks. a lot of risks but also enjoyment. i will surely be more carefull in the future and try to follow hunters tips.

yeah i agree the best time is make sure u can give it a couple jerks.

but sometimes that is too late, dont u have precum leaking inside whilst u ml? that can get her pregnant as well right

thanks for the post.  i will remember this for quite some time

the pull out strategy is a myth fellas, hate to burst your bubble.  sperm are microscopic and 99% of the time, every man has a little pre-cum on the tip of his dick from arousal.  believe me...these little fuckers have evolved over the milenia to become strong swimmers, so even if those drops arent ejaculated/shot into a woman's cervix she can still become pregnant.  why do you think theres so much teen pregnancy?  its not because kids cant control their wads, its because their sperm are like little michael phelps because theyre so young.  more accurately, they produce a ton of it.  teenagers are natures best breeders.  

oh yea...the cock ring would cause condom tearing too since its a solid foreign object (with metal studs no less) rubbing against the latex around the base of your rod with each stroke.  the latex isnt designed to take that sort of punishment.  pussy meat is soft and our cocks, while rock hard in our eyes, are nothing more than blood filled sausages.  best thing to do is stay off masturbation for 24 hours if youre worried about not getting enough feeling