Wedding ring would be a dead give away.  Be careful of no rain coat.  May lead to child support payments..

the child support thing is the least of my worry with bareback  

I think this is true for a lot of the WGs.  Many of the ones I have known (in the US) -- particularly the great GFEs -- have been stalked by guys at one time or another...  and the stalkers were invariably single guys.  Several of my former mistresses also complained about extremely possessive former boyfriends.  I think a beautiful woman triggers possessiveness in men.  Couple this with the inherent lack of self esteem that many WGs have and you have a recipe for relationship disaster.  This is a real issue for them...

So a married man is just a much safer bet.  They don't want to be your boyfriend.  They don't want the possibility that you'll get involved and become a stalker.  They just want to bonk (some of them) and take your money (all of them).  

Have fun, CGP

if she's asked for money, then there is no moral dilemma...if she asked for sex then there is no moral dilemma...if you press the subject then you may want to think twice...if she suggested sex then i think you should be straight forward and bring your concerns up...

like many bros say, once these girls become your "girl friend" then it will be tough to get rid of them once you want to...

that is why  i think many of us are in this hobby, by paying for them not to have emotional attachment...

horny4U:

thx for bringing being candid by  raising the moral dilemma on your mind...it is something that is an "itch" to all of us, no matter who and to what degree...

first off i say this (and this is not something you have declared as such)...but if you feel guilty and can't live with it STOP whatever it is you're doing...

don't know if you are married or not but it sounds like you both see certain aspects in being in and around each other's company that is joyful ...that is all cool so long as the cardinal rule is enforced (especially by you, as the punting bro):

BE HONEST RIGHT FROM THE START...

sure each situation is different but i think if you don't paint false expectations for someone and lay things out as they are, then they can decide to either be game or not...that keeps things clean...if it is such that you do have a family, your position in keeping your punting life secret without any false hopes given to the wg or fb, that you have no intentions of leaving your s-o (if that is the case) must be respected by both of you and not to be taken wrongly by her, if a more intimate relationship were to continue...

i believe as long as you operate along these lines, no matter how your situation is with her, whether she likes to fuck you for a fee, for goods, or just for good plain sex, along with the added extras in wanting a shoulder to lean on or even friendship, things can all be discussed... but you must know exactly what it is that you want and are capable of executing that which you both find comfortable with...just convey yourself clearly to her, i don't see why you can't try to make things work..

but on the flip side, don't expect things to last forever, as things do and will inevitably change...

good luck bro...

[ Last edited by  swan at 16-6-2009 17:56 ]

Not sure why, but I have found the same thing as well.