Originally posted by G-A-R-Y at 21-5-2009 10:11
Yes, all of that. Why would you consider going on (and paying for) a vacation with someone that you just met?
Don't you think you should have at least seen her a few times, and gone out local somewhere for dinner or dancing or something (without paying her!) before she would invite you on a week or more vacation?
Putting aside the obvious risk of some sort of scam or trap. Wouldn't you think that any girl you met at a bar was complete nut bag if they asked you to take them on a vacation in another country the first night that you met her? Or even worse, how about this, "Hey, I know we just met 25 minutes ago and we spent 20 of those sticking your dick into every orifice I have, and you can only understand 1 word in 10 that I say, but can you come back to my country and meet my family and friends for a week. We don't have to tell them that you're my fiance, my parents are really traditional, but we'll just say that I'm fucking you 4 times a day to everyone we meet."
Stop thinking with the little head and use the big one. Any plans with this girl are premature. And any girl that invites a punter to visit after rolling them one time isn't interested in being your FB. You're just and ATM machine to her. Sik's moving story about San San is unusual, and if you follow his example he was seeing her 3 times a week for 3 month before considering a trip with her.
1) Yes, I do know that any plans with this girl are premature. I would have liked to have seen her a few more times also, but she was a Hotel WG, so I didn't get the time for repeat visits.
2) As for the inviting part, she invited me only for a couple of days in China (seems like Hotel WGs returning to China seem to transit in Sichuan), before she went back home. But there were scheduling problems at that time.
3) Yes, I am sort of using both heads
at the moment. For one, being a punter has made me even more of a horny guy
. On the other hand, in my #16 post, I did note that I am really interested in a off-beat sort of holiday.
4)
No, I am not interested in going to her hometown to meet her parents.
5) Yes, Siklong69's moving story about San San is really one-in-a-million.
Yes, the risk factor is there. Punting is a risky activity, and I appreciate the advice given. Perhaps I may need to shorten my holiday plans a bit. Even if things really do not work out, my backup plan would be to still holiday alone in China and/or visit friends in China who can show me around also (but only in the urban cities of Shanghai and Beijing).
Well, its still early days, so no worries for me.
