ROFL! I guess those are really the buttery word for you to easily slip out more tips for him.

On a side note, I love your display picture, bro. LOL!

@SEAJ: Oh well, I wasn't really aware of what was happening.

Starting next Monday, I will be off to the uncovered Lianyungang, Jiangsu province and I haven't got a clue what I can do there. LOL! Wish me luck guys!

Recently my libido is just so strong I want to keep humping. Am I becoming a nympho? LOL!

@Yazoo

From my experience, no its not about making me feel better or buttering me up for a big tip... its normally an excuse to:

a) not give a blowjob
b) only missionary
c) rush

However, I am of the notion that this is 95% fake.  I have NEVER had a freebie complain about size.  Perhaps its selection bias, a girl that wants to sleep with me for free knows what she is in for and wants it.. but at the same time... a working girl that accepts my proposal also knows what shes in for.  Its not like their mama/papasans are forcing them to go with me (I don't monger in HK)

However, the 5% do exist... sometimes there are logistical issues, I have had willing freebies and wgs with unintended damage.  Nothing major just sometimes some blood.  We would stop for a little bit to make sure things were ok and go right back to it...  

Whereas the GDS girls... well they would complain about it hurting before first inch was even in!  Perhaps foreigners emit a pheromone which is painful to the genitals of certain working girls... who knows!

Not sure, but size does matter.  however, i had experience that my small weapon actually caused some pain before, but that was because she was not in the mood, and more so, she just wasn't into it.  however the working girls might have had prior customers which would already lube her.

just saying. in the end, i suspect its an excuse, but whatever. one should always find a mutual compromise of some sort. that way both sides will enjoy!

No... You guys are missing a CRITICAL distinction.  GDS is not when she says admiringly "ooooo, you so handsum, love you big dick...".  No -- that is just "sales" and they all do it (or should) to stroke your ego and get you off.  GDS is specifically when they say "you are TOO big" and act, with grimaces, that they don't like it and dont want your cock near their pussy!  It is not an enjoyable nor ego-boosting experience... It is them hoping they can finish you with a bj or a handjob..  Big difference.

um ... nothing major just sometimes some blood???  Sounds like they have a point!  Maybe you *should* ease up a bit!

I guess since my LB isn't, ...well, ... a BB, I don't often have the issue of causing pain.    But they still say "oh, so big" so I assume it is buttering.

There are some jobs where you have the right not to work if you think you might be hurt.  Others - like pro-wrestling, for example, quitting is not an option.  Where do you think WG's fit in?

Do they say - sorry I can't help you - I don't want a torn up pussy, or do they happily take your money but give you crappy service.  

I think the GDS girls are relative newbies - deathly afraid of being 'stretched'.

@mrpekz
they bring out the true spirit of Christmas!  Love, happiness and peace on earth is as close as two babes snogging.

here's a bigger version so you don't go blind...

I think 90% of it is fake.  I DON'T, WILL NOT, NEVER HAVE deliberately or knowingly hurt a girl.  

I think if they see a dick that maybe is a bit bigger than average they use this excuse for a lazy session.  I've NEVER had it with a civvie OR a bargirl... But sauna girls and walkups?  Yep!  Surely these types of WGs don't differ in physiology, so something else is at work.  The fact they will see another 5 clients that day??? That must be exhausting!  Some easy sessions must be a joy!

Yeah, sometimes with my regulars or SO we'll find a position or spot that does hurt her...  It's rare, and they tell me immediately (and it's obvious anyway - they yelp!  You go "ummm, did that hurt?" "Yeah --- let's shift to some other angle/position)" "okay!".

I don't know..... But this is my sense of it...

Well its usually a turn off when I get the "oh so big" line as I know its fake. I usually roll my eyes and think, I havent heard that, lets proceed. The real pain is when the script is so obvious that you know what the next line will be. I had a cute girl in jkt called Lia (went many times with her, she was fun and honest), the first time she said that I laughed and then she said "why you laugh?" well sweety because I know your lying... So she laughed and she said "you guys like to hear that no".... Errr no, its not the size that matters but how you use it. Then I asked how I was (thats kind of a tricky question, you dont want a hear "small", yeah I said size doesnt matter but you stillw ant to be in the norm, not roccco sifredi) she said I had a normal lb.... Phew!

Well, I've never had this kind of experience.. Fortunately.

The only experience I've had was the "ohh you so big... Ahhhh" and they keep on pounding. Another thing is "oh why is it slightly bent like this?" which always gets me wondering to myself.

Am I the only one with slightly bent dick?

Guys, ever thought about women giving birth? If a baby can come out from there, will there be a dick too big to be taken? Yeah... I know, I know, the doctors do make some kind of cuts to assist birth, but as I understand not all requires that.

Anyway, there is no doubt that there could be some cases that the girls really can't take it, but most (maybe more than 90%) are just taking that as an excuse to not do their job as expected. Some would tell us we are big just to massage our egos...

I once had a WG who was so tiny (she's like standing at 4'10") and she could just take my LB without problems and mind you it was tight alright and it was one of the best punt I have had too. Even though she was tiny, she was well proportioned with all the right curves and doesn't look like a midget at all. And she was one of the very few WG that I repeated...

Anyway, being really big doesn't always means better... it's the case of quality VS quantity.



@ mrpekz # 3008

Sometimes they say "...so big ahh.." because they are actually feeling good....

I am bent too, not a lot but slightly. So that makes you normal. Btw, as I understand from some girls the bent LB gives extra pleasure...but then again, I will take that with a pinch of salt, considering I was a paying customer and maybe they are only trying to give good service.

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Just my thoughts on the subject.
I think it is probably more prevalent with new girls to the industry, and it must be daunting sometimes. Especially going from little sexual activity to servicing numerous bros a day.
If I feel a girl is suffering any discomfort I always ask if she's ok.

Of coarse it's not much of an ego boost when I ask and they look at me as if to say Oh you've started then.

Truthfully though it aint nice to think you may be hurting someone.

After hearing the line, 'oh you are so big' from a sauna girl, I rolled my eyes and told her she didn't have to make that comment as size doesn't matter when it comes to a hj. It was not like she was going to allow me to poke her then it may become an issue. She got annoyed a bit from my comments that the next words from her, 'wow, you are so tiny...!'.

Never had GDS from a sauna girl either...

So today is the first day I wokeup without pain in my shoulder... unbelievable!

GDS BBS/NM Girl... chalk it up as a loss and ask the mommy to help with a better girl next time.

GDS Sauna Girl... immediately switch, though have never had it happen.

GDS Hotel Girl... talk with papasan and see what he says.

GDS Walkup... walk to another door.

GDS KTV Girl... I am not too sure what I should be doing about a GDS KTV girl.  Obviously if I took her home we had enough fun in the KTV, but if she is a serious complainer, I think I should just cut her loose with sitting fee rather than deal with GDS complaints!  Even for the lowest tier KTV girl, I can get 2 NM girls!

I remember in my younger days with a civvi one nighter I picked up.
She was really up for it and pretty much jumped on my LB on hitting the bed.
It was excruciating, I honestly thought she'd peeled my foreskin right back to the base. I am not sure if she mistook the look of pain on my face for ecstasy.
But you can be damned sure I told her to stop, while I rolled things back up to where they should be, as nature intended.
The moral is I really didn't like my LB being abused by a more powerful adversary, so I don't do it back.

Makes my eyes water even thinking back about it

@SEAJ:
Somehow it's slightly bent downwards I don't know why LOL!

@yazoo:
G-spot finder? Hmm, I wonder if it's really hitting that spot. Don't the girls squirt when their g-spot is constantly stimulated?

@travelpro:
So far, whenever I ask the girls how long they have been in the industry, if I get replies like "Only 3 months" or "Only 5 months", I'll just be skeptical. The way I judge whether they have been doing it for a very long time or not is how they treat me. I am getting the image we are more prone to getting bad punting experience with new girls. It's also a mix of feeling/hunch that I can't explain.

Wet hole dry whole, it is all about arousal and lubrication.  Physically the vagina is a wonderful thing and can accommodate the human penis (and other species as well).

GDS is all about attitude.  Is she psyched in or psyched out?  Wet or dry.

Che'lu

I always laugh when a KTV girl tries to lie to me about how long she has been working.

I casually remind them that I sat them over a year ago.

They just shrug and laugh it off.

Similar to when they ask me where I am from and how old I am, I give them a big smile and tell them I am French.  When they repeat and question French, then I correct them with Stupid Fruit Person and I am 250 years old.  Everyone has a laugh and we go from there...

(French - fa guo ren) (Stupid fruit person -Sha guo ren) (250 er bai wu - means stupid person)

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Yep, same thing here. They always say that the have only been working for under a year. I wonder why they would lie about something like this.

TBH, I prefer more experienced ones cause they know just how to please you.

Based on experience, there are men who are constantly looking for "fresh meat"...pardon my language but that's the term used by some of my friends. Especially Chinese men, they like everything to be fresh...be it food, drinks or anything else...I don't really understand what's the obsession all about.

And as I understand from my mamasan friends, they actually at times instruct/teach the girls to tell lies to massage the client's ego...it's all about marketing and sales!

I do look for experience sometimes...hence the experience of boinking of a few mamasans who are in their mid-20s. Experience do count...

The reason they want fresh things is because they live in China...

do you trust that milk thats been sitting on the shelf for a year or the one that just got delivered (trick question, both can kill you!)

The lack of quality control and the smash and grab philosophy of MOST of their business models leads them to want fresh as if its gonna break after a couple uses, you dont want a used one!

Changing the subject --
Funny perspective from the WG side...
I'm chatting with this gal online, and she says that she got a new iPhone 4.  Some customer gave it to her.  "You've got a new boyfriend"
"No!!!" she says (including the exclamations).  "He's just a client."

"Big problems now"  she said.  "I'm so stupid".  

"Why", I asked

"Now I'm indebted, and I don't know what he wants.  NOTHING IS FREE"

"Maybe he was just being nice to you"

"With a new iPhone 4?  I'm so stupid"

I just thought it funny how both sides view freebies the same way, yet still fall for them.