All this talk about squirting, anal, fisting etc - I basically agree with you and have nowadays become the archetypical " been there, done that" type of monger.

Yeah, first time going up the yellow Brick Road, I was enthralled and amazed at the pleasure I got from doing that - but these days, I've become sort of grossed out by the resultant mess etc.  The same with squirters - yeah - great to do 'em, knowing just when and how I've pleasured her instead of guessing if she really came or not - but again...THE MESS!!

As for fisting - yeah - again I was amazed that I "got away" with doing that....and giving her pleasure at the same time; but then, the image of my way smaller LB compared to my actual fist going up her nookie...well...it just serves as a big turn-off.

On the other side of the equation though....a gal pleasuring me with things like a real great Blow Job, CIM, rimming, expertly done Chinese CG, worshipping MY body in a way that only an expert gal can do etc etc....man.... those are what still turns me on.

But then again, a new squirter is still always a nice discovery!! LOL!

SEAJ

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 1-12-2011 16:44 ]

In reply to the rating you gave me saying that okamoto were too tight and covered half your LB.

alright, thanks for telling us about your size. SHOW OFF

Yeah I agree about squirting becoming an annoyance after a the novelty wears off.

One of my ex-GF was a little squirty and we made a deal that she will only do the squirting when we have sex in the bathroom. She was not one of those with no control at all over squirting, so it was not too bad, but we still occasionally have accidents when the excitement gets the better of us. Good thing is we usually do the horizontal pokey over her place.

Talking about this, I remember watching porn where one of the actress (apparently famous for her squirting) could squirt great distance and just the thought of fucking her and all her squirts shooting to the walls, bed, floor, everywhere puts me off!   I am a little bit of a neat freak!

Never had the opportunity on fisting though...I kinda shudder at the thought of that...wouldn't it be painful??!!

And for anal, I still enjoy it occasionally...sometimes it's not bad for a little change of location..


Reply  #2841 SEAJ's post
SEAJ, what is the meaning of life if we don't try everything at least once? Right?

Life is just too short to worry too much about everything, for me, if i can accept it, I will try almost anything that is thrown at me... usually, unless I was too chicken shit to try...

[ Last edited by  Tuffbod at 2-12-2011 08:46 ]

I once dated a girl (for a couple of years) who was really into anal. towards the end of our relationship she wouldn't have it any other way. Sex was no longer intimate... Maybe she preferred it that way - she might not have been *that* into me any more, I suppose.

The final nail in our relationship coffin was the night she went out 'with the girls' and rolled home COMPLETELY steaming at about 1am. She came into the bedroom to say 'hi' and told me she was going to shower and come to bed. I quickly fell back asleep only for her to wake me about an hour later as she fell on the bed in a booze comma.

Straight away I noticed a rather unpleasant smell. I assumed she had farted and tried to get back to sleep. But when the smell hadn't dispersed after ten minutes I turned on the lights. There was a big red ring around her arse where she'd evidently fallen asleep on the toilet, and a 3 inch log hanging out of her bunghole.

I went and slept on the couch. Needless to the say the next morning was very uncomfortable. We broke up officially two days later.

I'm not so into anal these days.

After seeing the posts about Mongkok Gigi, I was reminded of my favorite girl from the PI my last trip Rin Rin...

as there have been very few pictures... I will just leave this here..

looking at ur reply. it seems u are located in surabaya are u mrpekz ??

Reply #2836 mrfast's post and Seaj
hehehe... so the thin condom is called okamoto or sagami 0.02.
i remember now that my friend called it sagami.
gonna google that now. and try it out on my next session with a WG.
for the info

and as for the fisting and ass.
damn. i still did not enjoy sex yet. why should i level up from intimate into fetish !!!
after hearing some of ur experience. it give me a scare

[ Last edited by  gonuts at 2-12-2011 10:36 ]

I think with so many posts in the Mainland China section regarding Shanghai and Beijing,
those 2 cities should have their own sub-forums within the China forum.

Then we could sticky mtmtmt61's posts on the Shanghai saunas into the sub forum
and then move all the posts with the tag Shanghai into that forum also

Then no one would ever make another post saying
" Hi I am in Shanghai in xx days where can I get some action "

Guys, never had a squirter and is sort of a fantasy to have one (no idea why). One question, is there a smell? Usually strong smell is a turn down for me! I know its a very technical question but always wondered and never had the opportunity to ask!

I might have a crap nose, but I never smelled much more than the usual "after sex" smell.  I have been with a few squirters - but none as full-time GFs - so it was always a blast!  The reason?  They "get off" SO INTENSELY!  It's fun to take a gal over-the-frickn-moon!  

Other comment about those .02s.  I break 'em.  They are too tight, too short, and too thin.  And I am NOT huge.  Maybe above-average, but no monster.  I bought them for a while but had to abandon them...   

Too bad.  

But again guy, I must say be vigilant.  The amount of WGs that will go bareback here stuns me.  Never (almost) in America, but here???  (With bargirls) seems 50% of the time if I don't abort activities to cap-on then she won't stop me.  Shite!!  Girl!!!  WTF you thinking???

Anyway, use 'em.  Always.

Cain't claim to be any expert on squirters - not even close - but I've had a few so... ! Anyway, whether the liquid smells or not - it actually depends on the individual gal....and your own perceptions!  True!  

For even the smell/taste of a certain gal's nookie - some may opine a gal smells of ambrosia whilst others think of it as PONG! So like I said, it all depends on your own perception.  But one thing I CAN confirm is that if you do NOT clean up right after a session with a squirter - well, I don't care how it WAS at first - give it a few hours and I can guarantee that you'll smell PONG!!
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Reply #2847 realvision's post
I am of 2 minds on this suggestion. I believe that the Mods on purpose keeps subsections - and stickies for that matter - down to a minimum as to have too many will defeat the very effectiveness of having such.  If we have too many sub-sections, pretty soon we'' proliferate with more and more.

An alternative suggestion - if you're truly just interested in a Shanghai/Beijing sub-section; why don't you "host" a thread on these 2 cities and run it along the lines of the one that Sexinc has for Indonesia?

##Indonesia -- Info, Chat, Tips, Pixs, Guide##
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... 3208&highlight=

The guys on there are having a pretty good time sharing and caring information on a topic of their particular interest....and building up their own bonafides as contributing members whilst doing so!
Whaddya think?
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Reply #2849 Wander's post
Talkin' about 0.02's!! LOL - I just got done PM'ing another bros advising him that these 0.02's come in 2 sizes - the regular size and a large size  - as most of us DO find the regular sized one kinda small.
The last batch I got was from Watson's (and you should also try Mannings) as I've never seen them at 7 or OK.  And you gotta also be quite lucky to find them as they DO fly off the shelf quite rapidly. But well worth it as these suckers ARE the best IMHO!

And as far as safety is concerned - I was also kinda concerned about its safety when I first started using them a couple or so years ago; after all, they DO seem so stiff and not as stretchy!!

Anyway, after a session using one, I actually cleaned it out and proceeded to fill it up with tap water to at least the size of a basket ball; I then took an 0.03 (condoms I used to then use) and filled it to a similar size.  Put the two "balls" to one side of my shower and left them there.  The 0.03 burst after 3 days and the 0.02 didn't burst until the next week when my gal accidentally stepped on it!!

So....empirical study that PROVES the superior quality of 0.02!! YUP... LMAO ... Proof positive!!  

SEAJ

Ps edit
All this discussions on 0.02 reminded me that I was running out of my own supply!! I just went out and gotten re-stocked at the Watson's in the basement of Times square; $152.90 @box of 12 Sagami original 0.02 L-size in the silver box with BLACK lettering (versus RED lettering for the small size) and with the Letter L prominent in both black as well as yellow letters.
These ones are 190 + - 10 mm length and 58 +-  2 mm width - thus should be large enough for most of us. I saw that there was still quite a few boxes left so you guys can also stock up!!

Note/Clarification - I am talking about SAGAMI 0.02 and NOT Okamoto 0.02 (which came out later than the Sagami's and is sold in a black plastic pack). Have NOT tried the Okamoto's - Can somebody please comment on these compared to the Sagami's? Coz I saw that they were a bit cheaper than the Sagami's!

[ Last edited by  SEAJ at 2-12-2011 16:24 ]

Bro,

Imo, if you are learning the ropes and are a young chap, it might be best to use thicker condoms. It will prolong your enjoyment.

Well, i also had a same problem which I want to stay longer when i wear condom..

the right solution is not thicker condom... you may find "Long Live" condom which has some chemical inside the condom....
it really works~~~

you'd better try it when you want to stay longer with WG next time...

Thanks! Yeah, you can use desensitizer. Durex has this spray that you can use too http://www.amazon.com/Durex-Long ... Ounce/dp/B000052XJS

This review I found particular helpful

Probably every guy in the world, at one time or another, had the "problem" of cumming too soon.  Don't worry about it....

If you are young, you'll learn the same tricks we all do --- adjusting your pace, changing the angle, changing positions to slow down a bit, or just plain stopping:  "Hold on baby..., I am sooooo close.., gimme a second".  (I have RARELY found a gal that minded much when I backed out....  Most are flattered and get even hornier!). That near-orgasm stage is damn fun!  I've stayed in that zone for a loooooong time on many occasions.  The gal is totally aware of "where" I am and letting me just do my thing.  Deep inside..., ride slow and long, slow down more, stop and pant and fight it back, start again...., fuck fast and furious and STOP,!!  OMG, OMG baby!!!  Slow ride again...,   and on and on.  Gals get into it to....

I just had the moment earlier this week with May (a long-time regular thai girl.  Though I promised myself I wouldn't see her again!!!  Damn.)  Anyway, when we're done she says "You okay?".  Haha.  She said it was "amazing" for her...  Well, for me too!!!

Anyway, at other times you'll find the opposite happens ---- fuck like a maniac and CAN'T cum!!  Believe me, it happens.  More and more as you age (or drink).  

Just be totally "in the moment" when you're having sex.  Concentrate on HER - not you - and you'll find you mind last longer.

@ Mr.Fast

I agree with you on this, did this myself too but then again the joy are also lessen due to the thickness and LB feels less...

And on the "Desensitizer", seen it before but have never tried it. Does it really work? I have bought one of the "toys" from Durex for my SO to play with though...



@ lukechoi

Is there such condoms in the market? Damn maybe I was looking at the wrong places. I knew there are the ones that adds excitement, but not ones that prolongs the act...?   what brand is this "Long Live" condoms?


@ wander

Spot on there bro! The same trick is my preferred trick to prolong the act and you are absolutely right that the girls enjoys that too...they obviously do not mind if the man spend more time rather than just banging themselves silly without some kind of connection "emotionally" and "mentally" with the girl. Girls dig the mental thing and they love it when you are paying more attention to them, whether you are fucking them or just plain talking to them.


@ Gonuts

And good gawd! Looks like all of us here are really doing our best to give Gonuts all the possible knowledge on the facts of life! So dude, if you don't start going out to meet a nice girl (civvies) and start learning all the ropes the right way, you will be wasting all the bros hard work here for nothing!

Seriously WGs aren't the best teacher for what you are trying to learn. These guys here have given you many, many valuable tips and tricks as well as wisdom on the subject. So go out and meet people, I mean real people, not someone on the internet, whether there is a picture or not....

You also gotta hone your communication skill with people cause seems like you have been looking at the computer screen for too long now and do not know how to interact with real people when it matters most!

I don't know, I've never used it before - I don't actually like spraying stuff on my dick!

Some more!

Face pics at 30... rest at 20.  Enjoy, I know I did, looks like she did too!

edited RA to be in compliance!

[ Last edited by  JustSeven at 2-12-2011 20:42 ]

@SEAJ question in rating.

I have seen/heard of desensitizers, but have never used it myself.

Durex have one and it does work

http://www.miraclesformen.com/durex-performa-review

My SO bought them by mistake early in our relationship and didn't tell me. After banging away for bloody ages I was so knackered I gave up without finishing. Only when I saw the wrapper in the morning did I realise why!

can't keep up...

@ gonuts: bro, yr not ready for the fisting. find some social circles and start talking to women as people, not any SPECIFIC woman, just some u have sth in common with. no agenda. just talk. don't stare at their tits. talk to 'em. women share info w/each other, and u don't need great convo skills, just be polite, smile, listen, comment. not easy at first but experience is what u need.

i used to have a lot of premature ejacs, until i learned how to relax. there ARE specific things (like pull out and let it back off while u dine on some attentive cooze), but it really is, as SEAJ says, mind over matter. sex is unstructured FUN, not a contest. relax. if u can be comfortable with yrself sexually, u won't need any weird sprays or whatever.

but u WILL need condoms that fit. awhile back, here in HK, they were selling some called "Big Boy" with (i kid u not) a horse's head as the package-graphic. i wd have bought a 3-pack just for fun but u had to get 12, and i had no idea how well they'd fit. i know which ones fit me, and i either get them on USA trips or via condomania.com. one thing: if u do order condoms (or anything) delivered from overseas, make the total less than US$50. it used to be that pkgs under that value cd not be opened by customs. the ONLY time i ever had a pkg opened was when i got over US$50 in condoms from that site. it took over a month, i was emailing the company, where's my order, finally it shows up, sliced open, with official "HK Customs" tape all over it and a note saying it was opened for inspection. the site sells adult toys (stuff u find at the Temple St market). so who knows. but u can get them mail-order, and browsing the site, it's clear they offer different-sized condoms. don't obsess over yr dick-size. get the condoms that fit and you'll have more fun!

JtB